This is just waving all these massive red flags in your face. Did you buy the house together? Leave, get a lawyer and have him buy you out for what you've put into it. Just you bought the house? he leaves. I guess he's cheated on you too, that's not gonna get better or stop. Run.
Trans suicide rate is already higher than average. But you are not responsible for what happens and can’t be forced to stay with someone bc a threat. It’s simple manipulation. Set your boundaries and if they cross them, you have two choices; accept they cross your boundaries or leave bc they crossed them.
The idea that your spouse or partner needs to know every detail of your life is a flawed one. OP should keep it to herself and set boundaries next time she is out of town. It’s sounds dumb to the keyboard purists here but the longest happiest relationships I know about are ones where they don’t tell your partner every little thing that happens.
This is just waving all these massive red flags in your face. Did you buy the house together? Leave, get a lawyer and have him buy you out for what you've put into it. Just you bought the house? he leaves. I guess he's cheated on you too, that's not gonna get better or stop. Run.
Hey hey… but your wife is with you. She chose YOU. You also have a past, everyone does and that doesnt mean anything.
Relax, enjoy your marriage. Take care of your wife.
Also you can take this situation of a sign of something is scaring or disturbing you, go for a tberapist and explain yourself about how you feel.
Trust me, you can save a lot of pain If you open yourself with a therapist.
Good luck!!
Brown eyes can still happen. I’m also confused about the issue tho. Paternity test would solve the questions.
Remember, even the grinch had a dog. Trust dogs that don’t like people, there is typically a reason.
Trans suicide rate is already higher than average. But you are not responsible for what happens and can’t be forced to stay with someone bc a threat. It’s simple manipulation. Set your boundaries and if they cross them, you have two choices; accept they cross your boundaries or leave bc they crossed them.
The idea that your spouse or partner needs to know every detail of your life is a flawed one. OP should keep it to herself and set boundaries next time she is out of town. It’s sounds dumb to the keyboard purists here but the longest happiest relationships I know about are ones where they don’t tell your partner every little thing that happens.
I think, no matter how subtle, that there’s a difference between “love you”(which I said) and “I love you”(which I did not say.
I also say that I love dead friends, pets, and pizza. Doesn’t mean I’m going to cheat on my gf with them.
Oh right, so many have said this. Shall I meet the gf or just call it a day.
Holy hell to all of this. Just, fucking yikes.
Speaking from experience?