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When you owe a bank money, do they care about your desire to prioritize personal growth first?
Of course no. A debt is a debt. It is completely fair for you to ask. And it’s a shame that you even have to ask. It should have been offered.
That being said, you already know your partner makes only enough for their own expenses. How do you think that conversation is going to go when you ask them for a substantial amount each month when you know for a fact that they can’t afford it?
Maybe you can start off by presenting your partner with how much they owe you. Ask them for the latte amount each month. Then be prepared to settle for a much lower number when your partner tells you that it’s not possible.
To be honest, I don’t really see you getting this money back.
You are not your partners priority anymore. Having savings or financial stability isn’t their priority. They seem to be consumed with their transition. And paying you back would detract from that.
You’ve literally moved out and she doesn’t care. Is still living how she wants to…. I feel that you are kidding yourself to think that this person really cares about you very much at this point.
So….. you should 100% ask for the money. And you should 100% expect to be disappointed in the response and never get the money back. Stop lending partners money. You’re not married. Until you are, everyone should pay their own way. What you do after you’re married is up to you.
Nah no lack of communication , she said NO but he continually pushed and eventually she caved and he got his way.
So he new she didn't want to and if he even gave two shits about her he would have eased into it , maybe gone to an event and not participated with others and just had sex with her , then next event stayed with her and made sure it was a threesome or a partner she was ok with but instead he just wanted to empty his balls into strangers and just left her alone.
Something like “You left some of your medication out, and I want you to know that you don't have to tell me anything until you're ready, but when you do there's nothing you can say that's going to change anything”.
This might be a good question for some trans subs though as some of them will no doubt have dealt with situations like this from her side of things.
Both my parents became much better parents when they divorced. We should stop calling divorced families broken homes and look at them as evolving families! Expanding the love of the family. While the transition will be challenging for a kid (more so as they get older and this would happen), they can understand that while mom and dad love each other, they realized their relationship does not work and mom and dad could be better parents apart! With a good coparenting relationship it’s then fine 🙂
Added bonus that your child learns that it’s good to prioritize themselves too and that not all relationships must last forever.
Do not let yourself keep being treated like this. You deserve respect and kindness. He is using you like you’re a disposable tissue. You are not. It hurts but it will hurt more to just keep yourself open to a inconsiderate guy like this.
Block him on everything, and move forward. Work on you, maybe use ssome loval dating apps, just dont keep sliding back into a relationship that is doomed to fail again and again with an inconsistent and untrustworthy dude
Is this really the kind of life you want OP?. Really?. Looks like you are just following her lead in all this.
Maybe open relationship is not for you, deep down. Its normal if you like it coz hey, which man doesnt want to sleep with women. But, really, in your core, do you think this is the marriage that you want?.
A lot of grammar mistakes. Communicate and see each other more…a lot of things are happening in your lives…just need to make some adjustments. Don't break up…this rough patch will pass.
Honestly girl, idk how you considered staying with him when he admitted to imagining other people in order to cum, that’s like, the whole point! You deserve better than that!
You're worrying way too much about making other people uncomfortable. As long as your behavior isn't actually invasive and creepy – and striking up a conversation is not, as long as you are ready to back off and leave the person alone if they aren't interested in chatting – you don't need to worry so much. That only becomes harassing behavior if the person is indicating disinterest (ignoring you, responding in short statements without follow-up, directing attention to their phone, stuff like that) and you won't leave them alone.
Ask about their interest in the shows you also like, and if they want to chat, take it from there.
Women should be free from ANY criticism to post 1000s of bikini pics on all social medias! There’s nothing sexual about it, you can see that at the beach, they cover more than underwear!
But if a man likes another woman’s bikini pic, it’s time to DTMFA! How dare he cheat with his eyes!??!
There is a small chance the videos are from before you guys and he re-saved / re-sent them. Regardless, you should confront him that you’ve seen what you seen – and move on from there.
Thank you, makes a lot of sense, not sure why my brain didn't click on that one. Sorry about that.
For advice I think maybe you should talk to him about it again and firmly state how important that kind of thing is for you. If he loves you he'll at least try and talk to you about it and meet some sort of compromise.
Leave. You do not want to be stuck with a guy like this..and especially having to remind him to do stuff he should already know what to do. Do not stay any longer and be his mother
If you have already won then why react to the person that lost?
Reacting to her at all is only going to fuel her into thinking you’re intimidated and insecure in the relationship you are in, which will cause her to amplify her antics and cause unwarranted stress and drama to your relationship with your husband. Who cares what she copies, what she says, and what she does, because at the end of the day you’re the one with a unique personality and individualism that attracted your husband to marry you while she is unoriginal and is lacking in individuality to the point she has to copy others to have a functioning personality.
Don’t let her bother you, just laugh at her antics and delusional behavior in private and act like you don’t care about what she does. Even if she confronts you just play like you’ve never noticed anything and that it’s weird that she is still hung up on the past after all these years instead of becoming a better person. She honestly will looks like a fool if you do all this, and you will look more amazing to everyone around you including your husband.
When you owe a bank money, do they care about your desire to prioritize personal growth first?
Of course no. A debt is a debt. It is completely fair for you to ask. And it’s a shame that you even have to ask. It should have been offered.
That being said, you already know your partner makes only enough for their own expenses. How do you think that conversation is going to go when you ask them for a substantial amount each month when you know for a fact that they can’t afford it?
Maybe you can start off by presenting your partner with how much they owe you. Ask them for the latte amount each month. Then be prepared to settle for a much lower number when your partner tells you that it’s not possible.
To be honest, I don’t really see you getting this money back.
You are not your partners priority anymore. Having savings or financial stability isn’t their priority. They seem to be consumed with their transition. And paying you back would detract from that.
You’ve literally moved out and she doesn’t care. Is still living how she wants to…. I feel that you are kidding yourself to think that this person really cares about you very much at this point.
So….. you should 100% ask for the money. And you should 100% expect to be disappointed in the response and never get the money back. Stop lending partners money. You’re not married. Until you are, everyone should pay their own way. What you do after you’re married is up to you.
Is that real????
Nah no lack of communication , she said NO but he continually pushed and eventually she caved and he got his way.
So he new she didn't want to and if he even gave two shits about her he would have eased into it , maybe gone to an event and not participated with others and just had sex with her , then next event stayed with her and made sure it was a threesome or a partner she was ok with but instead he just wanted to empty his balls into strangers and just left her alone.
Got what he deserved.
Something like “You left some of your medication out, and I want you to know that you don't have to tell me anything until you're ready, but when you do there's nothing you can say that's going to change anything”.
This might be a good question for some trans subs though as some of them will no doubt have dealt with situations like this from her side of things.
Both my parents became much better parents when they divorced. We should stop calling divorced families broken homes and look at them as evolving families! Expanding the love of the family. While the transition will be challenging for a kid (more so as they get older and this would happen), they can understand that while mom and dad love each other, they realized their relationship does not work and mom and dad could be better parents apart! With a good coparenting relationship it’s then fine 🙂
Added bonus that your child learns that it’s good to prioritize themselves too and that not all relationships must last forever.
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Do not let yourself keep being treated like this. You deserve respect and kindness. He is using you like you’re a disposable tissue. You are not. It hurts but it will hurt more to just keep yourself open to a inconsiderate guy like this.
Block him on everything, and move forward. Work on you, maybe use ssome loval dating apps, just dont keep sliding back into a relationship that is doomed to fail again and again with an inconsistent and untrustworthy dude
Is this really the kind of life you want OP?. Really?. Looks like you are just following her lead in all this.
Maybe open relationship is not for you, deep down. Its normal if you like it coz hey, which man doesnt want to sleep with women. But, really, in your core, do you think this is the marriage that you want?.
A lot of grammar mistakes. Communicate and see each other more…a lot of things are happening in your lives…just need to make some adjustments. Don't break up…this rough patch will pass.
No, people can like both men and women and that’s what being bi means (as well as NBs etc)
Honestly girl, idk how you considered staying with him when he admitted to imagining other people in order to cum, that’s like, the whole point! You deserve better than that!
Do you have a question for relationship_advice?
Or a name starting with the same letter
Agree. She should have left it alone. She was 19 and had been dating a guy for a matter of weeks.
You're worrying way too much about making other people uncomfortable. As long as your behavior isn't actually invasive and creepy – and striking up a conversation is not, as long as you are ready to back off and leave the person alone if they aren't interested in chatting – you don't need to worry so much. That only becomes harassing behavior if the person is indicating disinterest (ignoring you, responding in short statements without follow-up, directing attention to their phone, stuff like that) and you won't leave them alone.
Ask about their interest in the shows you also like, and if they want to chat, take it from there.
Interesting you’d pass such stupid judgment after using your Reddit profile to find an affair partner.
Loser
Argh, an emotional affair!
Women should be free from ANY criticism to post 1000s of bikini pics on all social medias! There’s nothing sexual about it, you can see that at the beach, they cover more than underwear!
But if a man likes another woman’s bikini pic, it’s time to DTMFA! How dare he cheat with his eyes!??!
So you married someone the same age as your daughter, when she was 19.
Did you marry one of your daughters friends?
He was cyber stalking you, just to see how you were doing.
There is a small chance the videos are from before you guys and he re-saved / re-sent them. Regardless, you should confront him that you’ve seen what you seen – and move on from there.
It doesn't matter if you've done it in the past, that was a different situation.
The important part is that you don't want to do it now.
Ya that’s what happened. Return the favor of blocking him on everything before you give it a 2nd thought
When you’re feeling bad about hurting his feelings, remind yourself that he doesn’t care about yours, and that this relationship won’t get any better.
You deserve better.
Your BF is replaceable.
Thank you, makes a lot of sense, not sure why my brain didn't click on that one. Sorry about that.
For advice I think maybe you should talk to him about it again and firmly state how important that kind of thing is for you. If he loves you he'll at least try and talk to you about it and meet some sort of compromise.
Leave. You do not want to be stuck with a guy like this..and especially having to remind him to do stuff he should already know what to do. Do not stay any longer and be his mother
Nothing really. I can't afford therapy.
You need to ask yourself this question:
If you have already won then why react to the person that lost?
Reacting to her at all is only going to fuel her into thinking you’re intimidated and insecure in the relationship you are in, which will cause her to amplify her antics and cause unwarranted stress and drama to your relationship with your husband. Who cares what she copies, what she says, and what she does, because at the end of the day you’re the one with a unique personality and individualism that attracted your husband to marry you while she is unoriginal and is lacking in individuality to the point she has to copy others to have a functioning personality.
Don’t let her bother you, just laugh at her antics and delusional behavior in private and act like you don’t care about what she does. Even if she confronts you just play like you’ve never noticed anything and that it’s weird that she is still hung up on the past after all these years instead of becoming a better person. She honestly will looks like a fool if you do all this, and you will look more amazing to everyone around you including your husband.