I ask to stop being her confident, and that accepted that i could never repay her for helping me being more social, but I will now avoid listening to her problem and her relationship, in hope that i'll get better and hoping that the other confident will still do a good job, without me.
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You're still assuming this clearly insecure and controlling person didn't ask specifically. I have a nude time believing that they didn't. It seems like exactly the kind of intrusive question that someone this easily threatened would ask.
As to your question, I did admit during a conversation that I used to have feelings for my friend because I didn't feel like saying so was a big deal – it was ancient history by that point.
But it wasn't the first fact about him that came out of my mouth either because, again, it didn't feel like the most important aspect of my friendship with the guy- and also my BF didn't ask if we used to date or anything, either.
If he had asked, I would have been upfront, bc there's nothing there worth hiding or lying about.
Whether people want to admit it or not we all have limits, deal breakers and non-negotiables about pretty much everything in life be it sex, drugs, alcohol, religion, employment, education, family etc.
By not disclosing this information she took away his ability to make an informed choice before they became serious.
He’s a tradesperson, so is required on site, at different sites. Locations always vary. I don’t suspect any issues with infidelity or him living elsewhere as we own a house together.
Tell him to go fuck himself. You cat is much more valuable than that douche.
Get an invoice together for the difference between 5050 and what you have been paying this whole time, and give it to her.
Tell her she can use her tattoo money to pay you back for the sacrifices you've made for her ass.
Once she's paid up, kick her to her parents. She's not your partner, she's a user.
Read the OP then read the definition of rape.
Don't waste ur time with him. Tell him u gonna break up for him. It's disgusting love. He have to do something.
I ask to stop being her confident, and that accepted that i could never repay her for helping me being more social, but I will now avoid listening to her problem and her relationship, in hope that i'll get better and hoping that the other confident will still do a good job, without me.
Thanks reddit.
You might wish to try r/JUSTNOMIL
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Ask him if he would rather be homeless. $280 is nothing.
At least you CAN cry, I have one drink and get numb and pass out. lol
“Her tears seemed genuine”…sigh
This is childish and abusive and you need to leave her yesterday
Honestly for 20$ , not worth it. Maybe 100$ or at least 50$
You're still assuming this clearly insecure and controlling person didn't ask specifically. I have a nude time believing that they didn't. It seems like exactly the kind of intrusive question that someone this easily threatened would ask.
As to your question, I did admit during a conversation that I used to have feelings for my friend because I didn't feel like saying so was a big deal – it was ancient history by that point.
But it wasn't the first fact about him that came out of my mouth either because, again, it didn't feel like the most important aspect of my friendship with the guy- and also my BF didn't ask if we used to date or anything, either.
If he had asked, I would have been upfront, bc there's nothing there worth hiding or lying about.
Whether people want to admit it or not we all have limits, deal breakers and non-negotiables about pretty much everything in life be it sex, drugs, alcohol, religion, employment, education, family etc.
By not disclosing this information she took away his ability to make an informed choice before they became serious.
He’s a tradesperson, so is required on site, at different sites. Locations always vary. I don’t suspect any issues with infidelity or him living elsewhere as we own a house together.
You are in a dangerous situation. Never see him again, and get a restraining order. Tell your friends about it. Stay safe.
sometimes i don’t even want to think about it like i truly can’t break up but i know as time goes by it will get harder to do it 🙁
Are you angry because she’s over you while you’re not over her?
Idk I think starting to date again e months after ending a relationship is pretty normal.