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Bring it up with her. My relationships with my friends is based on friendly insults, but if any of them were offended or upset by it I'd hope they would bring it up with me, and I would immediately stop.
Yes, if she’s a SAHM, that includes laundry, cleaning, shopping (food, clothing, etc), cooking and other domestic duties. You can help clean up with dinner, take care of the outside landscaping. But if she’s home all day, she should be doing those things, else find a job.
A complete random stranger, definitely not. A co-worker whos behaving appropriately? No problems.
Definitely try and take the dog away from her also look up some sort of services to help with it. Try and bring proof though.
I think this is above reddits pay grade and you should seek counseling. Parts of this read as a B Type personality disorder – narcissist/borderline personality disorder.
If you want to be seen as a petty boy, sure, ask for it back. Gifts are gifts.
That's not necessarily the only thing to think about in this case, however. Sex is an emotional release and good for tension as well. He may very well have thought that she could have needed it. Especially if they have not been intimate in several weeks due to him being ill recently as OP mentioned. Don't get me wrong, I don't by any means say this was an act of altruism because obviously he's getting plenty out of it as well, but I think he had good intentions starting out and never meant to make OP more stressed or feel pressured in any way.
OP, your 20s are some of the hardest times of your life because you feel like you are playing house, and no one taught you the REAL rules. It's really just a learn by trial and error time and sometimes we get it right and sometimes we fuck up. But that's okay, as long as we surround ourselves with people that love us and that we love. That way we can work on solutions together when we fuck up. You'll be okay, you really will. And 20 years from now, you will be telling another woman in their 20s that they are going to be okay, just like I'm doing now. Hugs!
Oh no he has a life outside his phone, how evil is that!?
She is hiding stuff from you, what we have no idea.
The going through your phone and denying it is a red flag. Change you password and lock it down. Don't say anything about doing it.
Is he a realist or is he a fucking asshole?
Youre accepting some awful behavior and waving it off like its nothing. Maybe the thought of leaving is overwhelming because of the depression but You dont need to tolerate someone who treats you like shit. Just because he does nice things sometimes does not erase the fact that he thinks youre dumb. And tells you youre dumb. That by itself should be a deal breaker.
And i notice this in my anxious friend: shes always anxious, so when she SHOULD be anxious, it doesnt register. Anxiety (the emotion, not the illness) is necessary. For example, her baby could be falling off a ledge and its all the same to her. Im assuming that when everything causes anxiety, you cant tell when something SHOULD make you anxious.
Anyways, your boyfriends actions SHOULD make you anxious. Alarm bells SHOULD be firing. Red flags SHOULD be waving. Dont dismiss your gut.
So she expects you to pay more in rent and bills, so she can have more spending money and do everything around the house while doesn't nothing? She's an entitled mooch. You need to seriously reconsider this relationship.
ah and when I told him about the cutting board he said “that’s nice for you… I’ll Probably never use it..” when he said that it was just selfish completely. Thanks for the advice ?
Thank you for your replies in advance. For everyone who's telling me to end it, can you please give me more details on why I should because obviously it's not getting through to me. I need help. What's wrong with me…
Testify!!
I mean its hard to give an advice when you dont say what she wants you to change…
Okay I can understand if he saved like $50,000 – $100,000 then I would probably be pretty pissed off but I would never send my wife inside the house I would just drive myself there and do it myself.
Saying he will punching your teeth in isn't what someone would say if they loved you.
And you are also aware how toxic your relationship is.
Honestly I'd pick friends who have my back over someone who keeps making me cry.
While it is good that you do more at home, don't let the victim blaming get to you. If your wife cheats with her co-worker, somehow you not pulling your weight at home justifies it is ridiculous. You not cooking, cleaning, or doing enough justifies her going out drinking and then cheating is pure victim blaming.
If your wife is not happy, she should divorce you and go live with the guy she fancies. Not cheat on you and blame you because you did not give her enough attention or do enough at home or make enough money.