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Look at his gums. If they are spongy it's the beginning of periadontal disease. This can and will lead to complete loss of teeth. I'm no dentist but I was like you BF didnt brush never went to dentist. Finally went, had to have my gums trenched out.
I had went so long it weakened all my other teeth. Had to have 8 root canals (not at once). If he can catch the gum disease early hell be fine probably. Also he will feel better not swallowing all that bacteria.
I married my best friend. I love him. There are so many good things about him except for a few things….most notably his irrational anger.
Let me correct you that you “loved” him past tense. A relationship is not easy to maintain and most relationships fail either in a breakup or long term toxic relationship where you feel alone even though you have the label. He might have been a guy you loved in the beginning and did all these amazing things, but reality is he stopped at one point to put effort into the relationship. A relationship isnt a sprint where you try to be the best in the short run and fizzle out, get comfortable and no longer try. It is a marathon where there is constant effort and you are kept on your toes. Tbh not a lot of people can keep that effort up because they don't really want a constant relationship. They just want to get comfortable and get lazy. That's why finding a long term partner isn't easy. You make wrong choices, you learn from them, and move on. It is difficult process. This is not a healthy relationship and you are just clinging onto past feelings. The present reality is that this man isn't the same person you love anymore.
Communication is a HUGE thing in the lifestyle. Are you in the wrong? Both yes and no. It's he in the wrong yes, and again kinda not.
Communication is what's lacking in most relationships, but it is so very important in the swinging and bdsm lifestyle.
I use the ol Bugs Bunny analogy. If no one tells you to turn left at Albuquerque, you certainly won't turn left at Albuquerque.
You didn't know the limits because the limits he didn't tell you the limits, but you didn't ask either. On the flip side of that coin, he most certainly should have brought up that limit.
Now is the time to BOTH acknowledge the mistake of not communicating, and make that promise to EACH OTHER that you'll communicate every detail, no matter how minor it may seem.
You'll find an entire new level of respect and closeness you've never experienced.
Feel free to shoot a message and I'll try answer any questions you have
I will tell you my personal experience as an advice:
I have a relationship of three years with my girlfriend, since I met her she has had three cats and a dog, I am not a fan and I will confess that sometimes I do not like pets (I think I am a bit grumpy haha) But sometimes Despite that, my girlfriend has left me alone with her pets and I have had to take care of them, take them out for a walk, take them to the vet, feed them and even play with them. It has been on a few occasions but I have done it because first they are living beings that deserve all the respect and affection in the world, second because I know how much my girlfriend loves them and she really takes very good care of them and as an owner she is excellent and she loves them A lot that would make her feel bad if something happens to her pets since she rescued them from the street and has worked naked to give them a home. To the point that I want to go, talk and be frank with your boyfriend, personally it is not worth continuing with a person who treats another living being badly
She made a commitment to become a guardian of that animal. Your 30 living at home, not exactly a surprise she left.
This is really weird. After six years of being together, she's now trying to control who you see and what time you get home? Did something happen a few weeks ago before your night out? And yes, it's extremely controlling. The fact that she said you haven't “proved yourself” is just bizarre!
She's controlling you, not respecting you. You're a grown adult.
Buy him the “Everybody poops” book. It'll blow his mind.
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No. You guys should for sure separate during her travels. Especially since it has no end date.
Not fair to either of you. If when she gets back you’re both still single and have good vibes together you can always pick it back up.
Seriously. This is the right move. Dating here when she’s on this trip, traveling, with infrequent contact will kill you. Especially because of how you feel already about her leaving.
Don’t be codependent. Be ok with the idea of you guys not being together and still doing well in life.
I think if you're serious about her, you guys need to have it. You're not desperate because you want to have sex with your girlfriend. You had a genuine question and want to learn and there's nothing wrong with that. Just don't go doing crazy stuff and you'll be ok.
My fiance, then girlfriend, didn't have the greatest sex life, but after talking (and arguing), I learned that it was from trauma with her ex and she thought I was the same, only using her for sex. I explained to her that I'm only interested in sex because I love her and that we have that connection.
I'm not interested in arguing with her again, but I'd be lying if I said that those arguments didn't help us and our relationship. I suggest you talk to her. I have no true way or end-all to help start the conversation. Maybe before you see her and begin making out? Maybe through a conversation via phone/text? Whatever route you decide, I think you really need to and wish you the best of luck.
So you know I’m telling the truth. Therapist, dude.
Why would you call someone like this your bf?
Cut and run. This isnt just resentment anymore this is outright distaste. You may love this man on some level still but you are clearly no longer in love with him. Staying can only end badly for both of you.
You know none of this supposed experience matters because anyone with real experience workshops like wouldn't propose after only 6 months or without training about marriage.
If you do not understand this then maybe you are not yet old enough for a real adult relationship?
Good luck.
You have known her for 12 years. If you haven't learned to respect her in 12 years, why do you think it will start? You keep moving the goalposts for what she needs to do to be worthy. She is a fully functioning, capable adult. And she sounds endlessly patient. You don't respect patient people, it sounds like you respect people who make you feel shitty. But I don't know. I would agree that she's enabling you, but you are firmly blaming that on her, as if you have no choice in your own actions. To me, that is incredibly weak.
Yes, it will manifest in all relationships. And the woman you're describing doesn't exist. Think about what you've been describing as ideal, and then think about if her family would want you in it.
Did she let you check the phone or did you do it on the sly?
Just expand your repertoire a bit and use different words. She gets it, you love her, but you say that for a reason, don't you?
So, what do you love about her? Is she pretty? Is her voice nice? Does she dress nice? Does she make you laugh? What qualities does she have that have caused you to fall in love with her in the first place?
Instead of always just telling her “I love you”, tell her something different that actually pertrains to her. If you want to express how happy you are with her, express it in a different way by addressing specific parts of her personality or looks.
I’m sorry you’re going through this. I can’t imagine telling my girlfriend I’m turned off by her scars, extra weight, etc..
“Beauty” fades (which I don’t think is necessarily true, all humans have beautiful aspects about them) as you get older. What happens then?
I hope you’re able to figure out a solution that works for all parties involved. And best of luck with your pregnancy. I’d be over the moon to be expecting.
Your wife needs serious help
I don't have an attachment to it, this is the first time I've slept with it
Why did she have to clean before your friend came over ?
That makes literally zero fucking sense. What a bizarre troll post.
If they have different boundaries and cant reconcile them then they should break up because they’re incompatible. It has nothing to do with her choosing mark over him
I'm so sorry.. He sounds really unhinged. He locked you out of the house? I don't even know what to say.
Is it characteristic of him to act this way? You mentioned that his attitude towards you is getting nastier and nastier. It sounds like your husband believes he's stuck in an unhappy marriage.
Yeah I'm also worried about the fact that she kept it secret, for all she knows, she is decieving him
In the future I highly recommend you don’t divulge your relationship problems to someone you barely like. He’s an ass but he didn’t break bro code coz he’s not your bro.
>> I’m pretty good at forgiving bad behaviour because I assume I’m the crazy one.
The person I'm replying to is also making a wide, sweeping statement.
Bottom line, if you're of the belief that he's 100% in the wrong because he didn't bend over to what she wanted and only her, as if he can't have a preference for his marriage, then idk. Seems like a shit take for a situation that's just sad all around.
All I can suggest is to use your triple-digit body count as evidence that your pre-marriage self knew all about sex and nothing about relationships. That all you know, you learned from him.
My wife didn't like the ring I proposed with. Ask me a bunch of questions she helped me realize I overpaid. We went together and returned it. We went to a few other stores and ended up getting a set for her. I wanted her to be happy with it since she was the one wearing it.
You’re both in danger. This behavior is unhinged. Breaking into her home?
There’s a screw that’s gone missing and he’s moved from infatuation to abusive, lying stalker.
Get a PI to help gather evidence quickly or contact some abuse hotlines for advice etc. because it’s just not safe for you or Ava.
No. I think it would be best if you talked to a professional or your family and seek help. You are manipulative to your girlfriend.
This is why I don’t like it when relationships progress too fast. It’s too much to be texting every day and seeing one another a lot when you’ve really only known someone for 2 weeks. I assume that people are dating others until I know them well enough to bring up exclusivity and I like to let things move a bit slower. It’s super weird that he told you about this other date, though. He’s definitely playing games and you should run away
Thank you, I am extremely grateful for the baby I cannot lie. As terrible as this situation is, the baby is the one who keeps me sane and going. Thank you so much, it’s amazing how complete strangers can be there for you more than others you thought would be there.
Maybe suggest a date night, where each of you prepares a list of topics you'd like to discuss so that you can get to know each other better and find out if it is a good match.
He obviously does not care about his credit and he doesn't care about yours. It sounds like he is banking on your good credit to get him what he wants.
DO NOT HELP HIM OR GIVE HIM MONEY! You need to die on this hill.
What HE WANTS HE HAS TO PAY FOR….and do not help him with payments.
He is reckless and irresponsible with money, that won't change.
You need to leave him. He is immature, irresponsible and has no sense of morals. He should be paying off his debt. With collections trying to get ahold of him, it could turn bac real fast.
Do yourself a favor, make an adult decision and move on, you don't need this in your life at this early stage. You have a good head on your shoulders.
Posting on here, you know what you should do and wanted some back up. LEAVE!
Are they both Rolex’s or something? One being like a lower priced air king and the other being a Daytona? Cause if so I think the issue may be that they saved to get you something they knew you liked and wanted but now feel bad because they have been outspent by your fiancé. It’s naked because you can love and appreciate both gifts. Just wear both of them regularly with pride.
Does it matter if she had fwb? Why ask about past relationships it only brings insecurities unless there is any important. She is with you and enjoys every minute of it
Your brains aren't fully matured yet, so get used to this type of crap until you are dating the 25 and up crowd.
Leave him and get therapy. You're not ready for a relationship if you love this abusive asshat, at least not a healthy one.
…free speech, pal. Of course it's ok. ?‍♂️
Try to think about what you're comfortable with beforehand. Don't just be like 'fuck it, shove it in!' I personally think you're way too early in this relationship to be getting physical like this, but that's your decision. So if you do want sex, here's my advice.
Firstly, you need to be turned on. Obvious, I know. But you need it mentally and physically. Don't just shove a bit of a lube down there. You need to let him finger you or give you oral, whatever gets you off. You need a time for this, like a good 30 minutes even if you do orgasm from clitoral stimulation, because it takes a good while for a vagina to loosen up and lengthen, and lubricate all the way up inside.
Secondly, the mental part. You need to be fantasizing. You ideally want to be soooo up for this that it kind of fogs your brain a bit. Because…
Third- it will be uncomfortable. If you're turned on and super into the idea, that will obviously help, but you will not get a Pornhub Orgasmic Experience. It will feel weird, like something- the penis obviously- is too big for something else- your vagina. It will stretch, it will accommodate, but it's very reliant on muscle memory and the first time will feel almost like a ripping sensation, or a stinging feeling. Don't just let him shove it in, but there should be gentle firm pressure, like inserting a tampon almost- going in with purpose. You'll need to accept it, and breathe slowly in and out and try to relax. If you can't handle that, or if you're really nervous, you can start with him just putting the tip in and moving that in and out, slowly increasing the depth after a few thrusts. That's kind of key though- once it's in, whether tip or all the way, you need to move it in and out to properly spread the lubrication.
If you don't like it, if it suddenly hurts more than you can tolerate, or you feel unhappy in any way- tell him to stop and don't continue. If you're not happy physically but mentally still okay, then just have him touch your clit or play with your breasts, something that definitely feels good. You want to end on a good note, and definitely have a cuddle after. You will probably be sore after, probably a little achey also.
Use a condom. And try to have a wee after to prevent UTI's. You don't have to do it immediately – actually many women need to wait until the swelling down there goes down before we try – but definitely have a glass of water and wee.
Happy fucking.