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“Hey, what are you doing Thursday? I have some errands to run, but I’d like to stop and grab a coffee with you- I wanted to pick your ear about a few things, nothing super serious but easiest to talk about in the same room lol.” If coffee goes AWESOME and the feelings are there after talking, turn it into a date and go learn how to fall down on skates together; if it gets awkward and the feelings are there, reserve that option for later; if the feelings are not there, then mention you probably need space for a while and that you need to process this privately for real closure.
Thank you so much for your kind words. It’s been very helpful for me to understand bpd so I can begin my own process of healing and letting her go.
Going into our relationship, I for sure did not know enough. If it’s already becoming like this, I will let go.
I have a whole life ahead of me that I have made for myself and I know know that she will always bring me down.
I am sorry that you had to endure that for 8 years. I am also here if you need to talk about that. It’s hard for me to let people go. But after seeing what everyone has said and reading up on it.. it doesn’t seem like there’s a lot of hope for a healthy relationship
Rules about how 'intimate' another partners relationship can be are a recipe for disaster.
The truth is nobody can control how they are going to feel about other people. This rule is set up to fail. If and when someone catches feels they will feel bad for it and tend not to talk about it/try to hide it because they were 'not supposed to, which makes it worse. the other person feels betrayed by a rule that WILL get broken. And the 3rd person feels like they are caught in the middle, causing trouble, and not given the agency to have a say in their own relationship. Getting broken up with because someone else says no to your relationship feels incredibly shitty.
If you did successfully convice your husband to drop his partner he will resent you, and you also will be hurting a person your husband cares about, and force him to hurt them too.
If your husband does not want to end that relationship, what's next for you? You can control your relationships, but you can't control the relationships of others.
That's what happened to me. I (very briefly) dated a 26 year old when I was 17 and thought I was soooo mature. Thankfully realised he was not a good guy after a month or so and broke it off. When I turned 26 and would see 17 year olds I thought they were babies and realised again how messed up he was.
Well, i know it all stems from my own insecurities, so i don't want to burden a partner with those as i don't think it is healthy.
And it may not be for certain people, but i also know bisexual people that have told me exactly that. So no, i'm not just going out on a limb here.
Well there are people who don’t want to abide by monogamy.
It's not about what they experienced in the past though. It's about being satisfied with their sex life in the future. There are things i am not into sexually, and having a partner really into those things would be a deal breaker too because we would not be compatible in the long run.
Of course, but someone being bisexual itself being an issue where you think that means they may not be satisfied with you in the long run, that's a…peculiar thought process.
I don't see the issue really. Am i supposed to push my insecurities onto my partner? Am i supposed to just suck it up even when i am uncomfortable, for the sake of a guy i don't even have feelings for yet? It makes no sense to me
You can have whatever dealbreaker you have. I just thought, again, as i said above, that's a bit of a peculiar reasoning. Bisexual people, while attracted to both men and women, often have a preference still.
Until you stand up to them it will always be like this. Bring him and if they act disappointed or treat him differently then leave. So you are not married he is still your partner. Personally if my family treated my wife that way I would just stop going to their events until they pull their heads out and treated him with respect.
I try my best not to turn him down but it's really hard not too. Like I said that I'm a stay at home mom, I clean I cook, and take care of our daughter. I rarely get a break and he does help me around the house but I still get very burnt out and overwhelmed. The one time when I have “me time” is bed time when my daughter is asleep. He starts humping me and trying to have sex and I have to tell him no 50 times when I should only say no 1 time and he should stop but continues. It feels very “rapey” to the point I get triggered from past trauma and walk away. He gets butthurt and turn his back on me. I told him how this would make me feel, and I told him that this usually leads to me pulling away. It's also very hot to feel sexy, cause I tell him all the time that he's cute, or sexy, do my best to kiss him but I also don't get nothing in return. I sort of have to fish it out of him, like I don't think I've been called beautiful in like a year and a half.
And I have asked him and he always tells me the same thing “it's just comfortable over here” and I know for a fact the bed isn't uncomfortable cause he's such a heavy sleeper. It would take him like 2 seconds to fall asleep anywhere and thats why I think it's something more then that but he just simply doesn't want to tell, he just gives me the same excuse of it being comfortable on the couch.
I never engage with insta to be fair, but i feel like its akin to the youtube algorithm. In the sense that if i am not logged into my account, its all generic results with high general engagement (influencers, music channels, movie trailers), but when i log in i get all my actual interests (gaming, cars etc)
I think it may be the same, like since i never engage with broader content outside my immediate friends (who dont appear on discover) i think insta is just struggling to find anything to suggest to me accurately, so its just suggesting high engagement generic content, which on insta tends to be models.
Your dad is right. Don't leave. If you leave, it may look like you have abandoned the home (if you decide to divorce), and it gives him a chance to change locks or whatever.
I usually don't spring immediately to divorce but girl, you and your son deserve so much better. So, in the event you go that route, here's my suggestions.
This sucks, but bear the time with him. I had to deal with a divorce like this and it was awful. My ex had always threatened to take our son away from me so I got all my ducks in a row and served him without him knowing I was even thinking about it.
Get a bank account (at a different bank than you have with him so they can't accidentally mess up). Get a po box. Get a free consultation with a lawyer or two. Every state is different so you can't really rely on divorce advice from reddit since much of it may come from states other than your own.
I don't know if your husband is violent, but I'm going to give you advice just in case. Know the number and address of the closest women's shelter. Pack a small bag with stuff and put it in a closet or whatever, out of sight (I kept mine in my car) that had a couple changes of clothes for me and my son and travel toiletries, and a charger for our phones. Gather all of your personal stuff and put it somewhere safe, maybe a safe deposit box at your new bank. I'm talking birth certificates (for you and your kiddo), social security cards, immunization records, passports, whatever.
I know this all seems alarmist but it made me feel better about planning my divorce, when I knew I had so many backup plans. I knew my husband was abusive, however. This cold shoulder silent treatment IS abusive. Please hear that. But just what else he does is going to determine what you do.
If you stay with her after that, it only shows how much you lack respect for yourself. If she can't promise to stay faithful, why be in a relationship at all?
Like others said, it”s only been 4 months dude and you're still pretty young. But old enough to know better than to continue this relationship.
Yes, that’s what I mean. Of course it’s easy to advice a break up when you don’t have any emotional attachment to the people in question. I still know that for me this is a deal breaker. Or more like a series of deal breakers.
It's better to sit him down and tell him what you saw. Also say that downloading porn isn't okay for you and that's a dealbreaker for you.
Everyone here in the comments don't get to decide what is right or wrong in YOUR relationship nor if watching or saving porn is the same. It bothers you, end of discussion.
I know, whatever happened to romance? I have a good friend who's been married for a very long time, over 40 years. She wears a ring with a tiny little diamond in it, even though she and her husband are very wealthy. However, they weren't wealthy when he bought that ring for her all those years ago.
I've never seen her without that ring. They are still very much in love.
Ouch. Honestly sucks to be in both your shoes. I’m married and I realize I’m a horrible husband. My wife is such a busy person and basically the one with friends. And I fell into this insecurity. Yes it’s insecurity of being abandoned. I straight up magnify anything she does. It’s so bad. I’m straining my marriage. Honestly I have gotten better at faking it. I just act like I enjoy her company and suck it up. It’s exhausting. I know something is wrong with me. It just sucks. Never thought I’d be this way.
“Hey, what are you doing Thursday? I have some errands to run, but I’d like to stop and grab a coffee with you- I wanted to pick your ear about a few things, nothing super serious but easiest to talk about in the same room lol.” If coffee goes AWESOME and the feelings are there after talking, turn it into a date and go learn how to fall down on skates together; if it gets awkward and the feelings are there, reserve that option for later; if the feelings are not there, then mention you probably need space for a while and that you need to process this privately for real closure.
Most dudes watch it, I also fond I silly for you to not want a man to watch porn. Work on your insecurities.
Thank you so much for your kind words. It’s been very helpful for me to understand bpd so I can begin my own process of healing and letting her go.
Going into our relationship, I for sure did not know enough. If it’s already becoming like this, I will let go.
I have a whole life ahead of me that I have made for myself and I know know that she will always bring me down.
I am sorry that you had to endure that for 8 years. I am also here if you need to talk about that. It’s hard for me to let people go. But after seeing what everyone has said and reading up on it.. it doesn’t seem like there’s a lot of hope for a healthy relationship
He already isn’t hence the need to mess with her. I want them to suffer together?
Rules about how 'intimate' another partners relationship can be are a recipe for disaster.
The truth is nobody can control how they are going to feel about other people. This rule is set up to fail. If and when someone catches feels they will feel bad for it and tend not to talk about it/try to hide it because they were 'not supposed to, which makes it worse. the other person feels betrayed by a rule that WILL get broken. And the 3rd person feels like they are caught in the middle, causing trouble, and not given the agency to have a say in their own relationship. Getting broken up with because someone else says no to your relationship feels incredibly shitty.
If you did successfully convice your husband to drop his partner he will resent you, and you also will be hurting a person your husband cares about, and force him to hurt them too.
If your husband does not want to end that relationship, what's next for you? You can control your relationships, but you can't control the relationships of others.
Stay with your family. Think about moving in together with someone after dating longer and when the relationship is stable
That's what happened to me. I (very briefly) dated a 26 year old when I was 17 and thought I was soooo mature. Thankfully realised he was not a good guy after a month or so and broke it off. When I turned 26 and would see 17 year olds I thought they were babies and realised again how messed up he was.
Getting strong trainwreck vibes from OP.
“How can anyone do this even though ive been doing it to my wife for a while now”
Hahaha
Well, i know it all stems from my own insecurities, so i don't want to burden a partner with those as i don't think it is healthy.
And it may not be for certain people, but i also know bisexual people that have told me exactly that. So no, i'm not just going out on a limb here.
Well there are people who don’t want to abide by monogamy.
It's not about what they experienced in the past though. It's about being satisfied with their sex life in the future. There are things i am not into sexually, and having a partner really into those things would be a deal breaker too because we would not be compatible in the long run.
Of course, but someone being bisexual itself being an issue where you think that means they may not be satisfied with you in the long run, that's a…peculiar thought process.
I don't see the issue really. Am i supposed to push my insecurities onto my partner? Am i supposed to just suck it up even when i am uncomfortable, for the sake of a guy i don't even have feelings for yet? It makes no sense to me
You can have whatever dealbreaker you have. I just thought, again, as i said above, that's a bit of a peculiar reasoning. Bisexual people, while attracted to both men and women, often have a preference still.
Stop lying?
Maybe he’s just decided he rather have you call him by his name because he’s not your baby but didn’t quite know how to say it without upsetting you.
Personally I’ve never called any man I’ve dated anything but their name and find it ick hearing women call men “babe”.
Until you stand up to them it will always be like this. Bring him and if they act disappointed or treat him differently then leave. So you are not married he is still your partner. Personally if my family treated my wife that way I would just stop going to their events until they pull their heads out and treated him with respect.
I try my best not to turn him down but it's really hard not too. Like I said that I'm a stay at home mom, I clean I cook, and take care of our daughter. I rarely get a break and he does help me around the house but I still get very burnt out and overwhelmed. The one time when I have “me time” is bed time when my daughter is asleep. He starts humping me and trying to have sex and I have to tell him no 50 times when I should only say no 1 time and he should stop but continues. It feels very “rapey” to the point I get triggered from past trauma and walk away. He gets butthurt and turn his back on me. I told him how this would make me feel, and I told him that this usually leads to me pulling away. It's also very hot to feel sexy, cause I tell him all the time that he's cute, or sexy, do my best to kiss him but I also don't get nothing in return. I sort of have to fish it out of him, like I don't think I've been called beautiful in like a year and a half.
And I have asked him and he always tells me the same thing “it's just comfortable over here” and I know for a fact the bed isn't uncomfortable cause he's such a heavy sleeper. It would take him like 2 seconds to fall asleep anywhere and thats why I think it's something more then that but he just simply doesn't want to tell, he just gives me the same excuse of it being comfortable on the couch.
This is the way!
I never engage with insta to be fair, but i feel like its akin to the youtube algorithm. In the sense that if i am not logged into my account, its all generic results with high general engagement (influencers, music channels, movie trailers), but when i log in i get all my actual interests (gaming, cars etc)
I think it may be the same, like since i never engage with broader content outside my immediate friends (who dont appear on discover) i think insta is just struggling to find anything to suggest to me accurately, so its just suggesting high engagement generic content, which on insta tends to be models.
Your dad is right. Don't leave. If you leave, it may look like you have abandoned the home (if you decide to divorce), and it gives him a chance to change locks or whatever.
I usually don't spring immediately to divorce but girl, you and your son deserve so much better. So, in the event you go that route, here's my suggestions.
This sucks, but bear the time with him. I had to deal with a divorce like this and it was awful. My ex had always threatened to take our son away from me so I got all my ducks in a row and served him without him knowing I was even thinking about it.
Get a bank account (at a different bank than you have with him so they can't accidentally mess up). Get a po box. Get a free consultation with a lawyer or two. Every state is different so you can't really rely on divorce advice from reddit since much of it may come from states other than your own.
I don't know if your husband is violent, but I'm going to give you advice just in case. Know the number and address of the closest women's shelter. Pack a small bag with stuff and put it in a closet or whatever, out of sight (I kept mine in my car) that had a couple changes of clothes for me and my son and travel toiletries, and a charger for our phones. Gather all of your personal stuff and put it somewhere safe, maybe a safe deposit box at your new bank. I'm talking birth certificates (for you and your kiddo), social security cards, immunization records, passports, whatever.
I know this all seems alarmist but it made me feel better about planning my divorce, when I knew I had so many backup plans. I knew my husband was abusive, however. This cold shoulder silent treatment IS abusive. Please hear that. But just what else he does is going to determine what you do.
Easy, you don't care about her. Ofc she is upset
He needs to know and he should probably get a paternity test.
She is married and our families hang out semi regularly.
> Most importantly stop lieing about everything. It makes you look guilty as hell. Yep
If you stay with her after that, it only shows how much you lack respect for yourself. If she can't promise to stay faithful, why be in a relationship at all?
Like others said, it”s only been 4 months dude and you're still pretty young. But old enough to know better than to continue this relationship.
Yes, that’s what I mean. Of course it’s easy to advice a break up when you don’t have any emotional attachment to the people in question. I still know that for me this is a deal breaker. Or more like a series of deal breakers.
End it, things will only get worse and I doubt she could handle he contents of a lads chat. She's setting herself for failure.
The dude is immature and toxic. You’re better than that. And you deserve better.
You are uncomfortable with it.
It's better to sit him down and tell him what you saw. Also say that downloading porn isn't okay for you and that's a dealbreaker for you.
Everyone here in the comments don't get to decide what is right or wrong in YOUR relationship nor if watching or saving porn is the same. It bothers you, end of discussion.
I know, whatever happened to romance? I have a good friend who's been married for a very long time, over 40 years. She wears a ring with a tiny little diamond in it, even though she and her husband are very wealthy. However, they weren't wealthy when he bought that ring for her all those years ago.
I've never seen her without that ring. They are still very much in love.
It's all about control and jealousy from an older BF. Time to reevaluate this relationship.
Ouch. Honestly sucks to be in both your shoes. I’m married and I realize I’m a horrible husband. My wife is such a busy person and basically the one with friends. And I fell into this insecurity. Yes it’s insecurity of being abandoned. I straight up magnify anything she does. It’s so bad. I’m straining my marriage. Honestly I have gotten better at faking it. I just act like I enjoy her company and suck it up. It’s exhausting. I know something is wrong with me. It just sucks. Never thought I’d be this way.