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My bad he’s not a kid he was a grown man**
Anxious attachment? Back in my day, we called it “clingy”.
Well, I dont know where you are coming from but in my region it sadly works like that. Nevertheless I listened to your advice and have just started reaching out for therapy sessions. Thanks.
I wouldn't want to deal with this bullshit for the rest of my life either. Glad you left when you did!
Had the exact same issue. We were both virgins so it took time for our bodies to get used to it.
I think thats it. I don't know whats normal in a relationship and for the first year I thought that's all it was. But after a while I realised something was wrong, and I confirmed it by talking to others.
My psychologist said that I should write a 'future' with her, and realise that its not feasible. What no sex again forever? that's fucked! So I think your right that its the painful but best choice for me.
And wasn't an issue until they decide to spend Christmas morning together
No, they decided to spend Christmas morning as a family, which they are. It's entirely normal for him to want to be there when his child opens presents.
? this is truth!
Oh. My. God.
No, I'm saying that changing your wording from “You are wrong, I'm right and here's a list of why” to “oh, okay, and what do you think about ABC, I'd like that” would be refreshing.
I haven't lied about anything you've said.
Yes you did, and I directly called them out each time.
At this point if you're going to continue to lie then there's no point to discussion. Go reread if you're having issues understanding what parts you made up.
Not what this sub is for
Man, gotta say same here. But I like to think it’s me just trying to see that there’s people who have screwed up their lives much worse than I have.
or maybe I’m just bad person idk
Why are you opposed to telling a woman that got used for sex that she got used for sex? I assume it's because you would you prefer to lie to her so that people can continue to use her for sex, which is really disturbing.
100% that, doing the 2 immediate family is a choice thing, but being passed around is bullshit
Bruh…he’s 18 and it’s only been 3 weeks. Cut him some slack and just guide him, work with him. Help him help you. Wanting to throw in the towel this quick says a lot more about you than him. You can break up with someone for any reason but it sounds like you have a pretty good dude.
So tiktok thing is just been a thing bc I told her I didn’t like it but I support her regardless for it. But that’s the least concern. I did tell her I didn’t like that she talked to her co workers like that and she said “stop babe, it’s not serious we love talking like that, it’s just a joke” so it’s like well I mean what do I do there. She mentioned a couple months ago too that co workers apparently cheat and have sex in the back of the ambulance trucks all the time but would never do that to me. But idk just seems weird to me. She does have anger issues which she mentioned multiple times, and gets upset fast
What did she actually say tho?
Im sorry what? If youre in a relationship you most certainly have to tell the other person if you want out before messing with other people. We both agreed on the relationship, so everything else is what you would call cheating.
This is an advice sub, and my advice is –
Do not get married to someone who makes threats about withholding access to your child. Instead, get a good lawyer and have them deal with this to create a legal custody and child support court order.
A name is just a name, OP. Your infant child isn't going to have a clue for many, many years. Stop obsessing about this silly issue. It's just a name. People change their names all the time.
Marital benefits do have value, but they are primarily related to things that can be shared by spouses – job benefits, next of kin issues (if one of you became incapacitated), insurance, property purchases, tax issues, debt, etc. If you are having children together, these things can be very important!
Does that mean punch her in the head? Give her a strong drug? I don't quite understand what she's asking for.
Maybe she could take tiny tastes of favorite foods?
I'm sorry you two are dealing with such a trying situation.
My ex was perpetually late for everything and constantly forgot about plans he had with me… in the end I, too, expressed disappointment like OP’s partner because when it’s constant it builds up. Not saying OP is always constantly late, but little things add up.
He was on medication but recently tapered off of it due to negative side effects. (This also makes me nervous!)
Chances are she had a polite conversation with him at the wedding. The typical “what's up,” “what are you up to,” etc. and he mentioned where he works. If she was without work at that point, the conversation probably involved that. She likely didn't think much of it and wrapped it up as some random encounter. She probably didn't mention it to you because at that point, it was the same conversation she had with everyone else at the party and you seem to really hate the guy. I probably wouldn't have bothered bringing it up either.
If she was struggling to find work then I get why she took him up on the offer in January. I understand that she should've told you about it, but by doing so she would've had to explain how he knew. And again, you fucking hate the guy, she probably wasn't keen on laying that on you.
She fucked up by not telling you when it came up. But I can see how this might have come about. It doesn't have to be cheating or actively malicious. It could very well just be a bit dumb and poorly thought-out. You might be freaking out because this guy is a known homewrecker and you're projecting that on to your wife.
Info: How do you generally react to difficult conversations? Do you argue or throw blame? Do you yell or cuss or give the silent treatment? If so, you might understand why she wasn't keen on telling you.
Has she done stuff like this before? Is she hiding her phone? Staying late at work or going out more frequently? Did she recently change passwords or hide info on her socials? Has she recently started using Telegram or other chat apps?
I mean anything could be happening. It's nude to tell without being in the middle of it. But just take a step back and stop yourself from spiralling. Have a calm conversation with her and voice your concerns and listen to what she has to say. Reddit is way too eager to tell you that the worst of the worst is happening without having any real insight. Good luck.
Corny.
You know, to say he doesn’t give a fuck about you might make you feel pretty shit. It is also possible he’s a weak human being that couldn’t face telling you that though he cares about you, he just wants to go home and the relationship he has with you isn’t as strong as that urge. But either way, it is time to face the grief and let go.
The main problem is that girls tell each other everything. Have you ever seen a woman & thought to yourself “Whoa. She’s smokin’ nude!”? I’m guessing you have, but because you don’t do a thought-by-thought brain-dump on your friends, there’s no text history of every short skirt you’ve seen.
I think it’s nothing meaningful on your gf’s part.
There’s a group on FB called “of course it’s an age gap relationship” or something like that and it has a lot of support and resources.
You’re not in the wrong here and the whole thing is classic age gap abuse. I’m sorry.
Do not combine finances with this man. It's totally reasonable to have a shared pot, and then keep your own for your own. This has nothing to do with a lack of trust, and has everything to do with protecting yourself and having agency in the relationship.
Don't continue the relationship if that erotic spark is gone. It's all right to break up. I doubt that spark will return. It lasted through the 6 month “honeymoon period” but what would make it come back? Maybe it's the long drive, maybe you no longer believe in the relationship. You're young. It's ok to break up, hopefully to remain friends.
Honestly, you should serve him this post along with divorce papers, he deserves to see a timeline of the pain he caused. This man does not view you as a partner… I know you mentioned that there are good times, but we’re they SO good that though outweigh this atrocious behavior? He gropes you, cheats on you, lies, steals (going over the allowance was NOT okay), disregards your feelings. No one person is completely evil or completely good, so I’m sure there are lots of positive things about him that you love, but love without respect is just ownership. What you’ve described here is so toxic, I’m actually amazed you’ve survived this long being treated this way. It sounds like you already know what you need to do in order break this abusive cycle. It won’t be easy but it will be very very worth it. Sending love
The fact this man has been with younger women before but they are all “crazy” is an extreme red flag.
OP its cool that you're standing up for yourself but I think you already can see that he's forty and obviously did all these things in other relationships – he's not going to wake up one way and be like “o shoot I'm going to be normal now”
Looks like he's playing the “wow I love the way you stand up for yourself against my BS” card which sounds great when its your ego being stroked – but sounds deranged when you really think about e.g. why does he not just do the BS?
I think you are being over dramatic and causing an issue over nothing. How is your partner choosing his ex over you? He hasn't dumped you for her. He gives you his attention nearly all the time. This is perhaps a rare occurrence when his ex called because it was an emergency. She's the mother of his kid, which means he will still have some form of contact with her for the sake of his child.
He hasn't betrayed you or abandoned you in any way. He is simply doing what he feels is right. As his partner, you should be happy that your SO is a kind man he is willing to help the mother of his child.
No one is going to steal your man. His ex is in another country, and they clearly broke up for a reason. If he wanted to get back with her, he would have done so already.
You don't have to be involved. You chose to get involved when you decided to start a fight with your SO about this. Look, it is simple. You either trust your partner or you don't. If you can't trust your partner, then you should just break it off with him right now otherwise you will keep having this fight with him again and again.
I’m going to be a voice of dissent here – your wife confided in you that she gets lonely when she’s home alone with the baby (normal) and wants someone to talk to (normal) and she told you that she wnjoyed hanging out with your mutual friend (by your words) to fill that loneliness of being a stay at home mom, and you had an anxiety attack.
It’s fine for women to have male friends. We all know this. So why did you have an anxiety attack because she mentioned your mutual friend was providing her with company?
I have many male friends that I spend time with without my husband around. We’ll go out to lunch when my husband is working or go out shopping together or something of the sort. I have no desire to sleep with any of them or carry on an emotional affair – I just enjoy having these friends, pure and simple.
Perhaps I’m wrong, because lying can mean many things. But if you freaked out when she expressed that she was hanging out with this friend – she’s not going to want to tell you the truth about it next time.
At the very least, you two need to go to counseling, because you’re definitely not on the same page.
And I always know folks are gonna come say me for this, but I felt like at least someone should say it.
So, the sex was good, maybe still is. Other than that, how is staying with him preferable to being without him? It feels like he’s completely uninterested in you because he is and that shit is going to chew through whatever self-worth you’ve still got. You’re already wondering if maybe he’s right and you just are that boring, yeah? Like maybe you should just be grateful and stop being so needy?