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There is no such thing as a person you're “supposed to marry” particularly at a very early age.
At the very least, OP's gf should realize that she should allow OP to reach sufficient maturity to decide about marriage at his own pace and not issue ultimatums like that. What right does the gf have to pressure him to marry her when she turns 25, an arbitrary deadline set by her?
Your advice is horrible.
People who can’t prove there innocence are usually the ones who don’t even want to try. And put up barriers to finding the truth…like…I don’t know…excuses not to do a dna test…gaslighting? Like all of your behaviour!
So you’re denying you said it? Okay, bruh. Thank you for proving all of my precious points.
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I personally HATE watching movies or TV. And instantly fall asleep when I do. With my boyfriend or not. I'll just pass out. But when I game I can game for literally 20 hours and not get tired. Tv may not be his hobby.
Find something else to do with him. Maybe set up a date night. Or try to game with him.
Just like a rotary engine this relationship wasn't built to last.
Whit, your BF's abusive behaviors and anger issues cannot be excused — but perhaps can be explained, especially if you would speak to a psychologist in your city. They may be due to his having very weak control over his own emotions (i.e., a lack of emotional skills he had no opportunity to learn in childhood). My exW has that problem. If that is an issue for your BF, you likely have been seeing the following 4 red flags.
The first is a strong abandonment fear. I therefore ask whether, a few months into your relationship, he started showing strong jealousy over harmless events — or started attempting to isolate you away from close friends and family? He would view your spending time with friends/family as your choosing THEM over HIM. Moreover, he usually would hate to be alone by himself.
Second, you would be seeing him rely heavily on black-white thinking, wherein he tends to categorize some people as “all good” (“with me”) or “all bad” (“against me”) and will recategorize them — in just a few seconds — from one polar extreme to the other based on a minor infraction.
Because he also uses B-W thinking when judging HIMSELF, he hates to acknowledge making a mistake. To him, it would mean he is “all bad.” He thus would blame nearly all mistakes on you and view himself as “The Victim.” Always “The Victim.”
Further, to “validate” his victim status, he would keep a detailed mental list of every infraction/mistake you ever did (real or imagined) and would not hesitate to pull out the entire list to defend himself in the most insignificant disagreement with you. Moreover, this B-W thinking also would be evident in his frequent use of all-or-nothing expressions like “you ALWAYS…” and “you NEVER….”
Third, you generally would not see him expressing his rages to casual friends, coworkers, or total strangers. He usually gets along fine with them. Rather, the outbursts and temper tantrums almost exclusively would be expressed against a close loved one (e.g., against you or his parents).
Fourth, you are convinced he truly loves you. But you often have seen him flipping, on a dime, between Jekyll (loving you) and Hyde (devaluing or hating you) — often making you feel like you're walking on eggshells. These flips would occur in a few seconds in response to some minor thing you say or do. And a few hours or days later, he could flip back just as quickly.
Whit, have you been seeing strong occurrences of all 4 of these red flags?
So you’re projecting…? Coming up with missing info to fit what you’ve decided is their relationship? You don’t have enough info to make these claims whatsoever. Maybe OP is an abusive dick and the issue here isn’t really kids at all. But we don’t have that info to make those claims.
If you’ve NEVER said something mean to another person then bravo to you and you must be the freaking second coming of Jesus himself. MOST people however, have said hurtful things, knowing they’re hurtful but are not abusive people, they’re human.
So in that case, you are in the wrong here.
He doesn’t use them, so stop trying to make him.
If you don’t stop, he is going to end the relationship with you.
It’s an MRA talking point that just will not die
You're an awful friend, no doubt about it. You're so hung up on this guy you threw your friendship out the window. You didn't just share his secret, you were sitting there making fun of your supposed friend because you thought you'd score some brownie points with your little crush. You deserve every ounce of his anger. You say you started to see Adam's true colors but that clearly isn't true if you're still pining after him like a dog. You broke his trust, you broke him. He already had trust issues that you knew about, they are going to be way worse after this betrayal. Your best choice is probably to avoid them both from now on, you can't control yourself around Adam and you've hurt Jack deeply. If you want even a chance of reconciling with Jack, you need to drop Adam like a brick. You admit he has red flags, you admit you were starting to see his true colors, yet you still put him miles before your friend
Exactly. This wouldn’t be a problem for me. It would fix a lot of my problems actually