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You're not sharing it with society, you're sharing it with your girlfriend. There's probably not a great way to bring it up, but just tell them something like “before we get too serious, I want to know about this.” Usually you ask them about the number of partners they've had at some point so that'd be a good place to jump into libido.
So she wants all the benefits of living together, but to manipulate you into paying all the bills under the premise that she has some of her stuff in her friend's basement for free and that's where she “lives”. Time to get a new GF, I think- this one is spoiled.
No one can control their feelings so it isn’t your fault but since this happened this way just tell her you made a mistake (mistake is letting it get there,not you feeling that way which once again isn’t in your control) and you went against the agreed terms. She either gets pissed and cuts you off which is very unlikely because you only have good intentions towards her and you’re honest, or you guys talk about it and reach a mutual consensus. Just find your own way to just break it.
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That’s a whole different story then. He knows that penetration hurts yet he did it anyway. I have vulvodynia and I’m currently trying nerve blockers to help it. I understand the pain of penetration if you don’t feel comfortable around him, then leave him.
Saw this sort of mind games used on my ex a lot she was a people pleaser and she just wouldn’t accept she was being manipulated. Like she had a guy threatening to kill himself (or me!) And she’d have to fix it. why HIS friends said so also told her not to tell me because I might go to the police and he wouldn’t cope in jail.
I can't help but ask myself how much of what you say is actually you rewriting your marriage history to suit your new affair narrative. I'm not saying this is what you are doing or this is who you are but waywards tend to do this a lot, and I mean ALOT.
If you were unhappy you should have divorced before you started an affair, that you chose to stay in the comfort and security of marriage till something new comes along isn't doing you any favors.
Your children you should have thought about long before you decided to betray your family, and make no mistake, it is not just your husband you betrayed, it is your children as well.
Somehow in all of this the vibe I get is that it's all going to blow up in your face sooner or later and you'll be back here asking how to win your husband back. I hope I'm wrong in this but my gut tells me you're in for a very rude awakening.
Well, you mentioned that you had only been dating for 6 months. Every relationship gets to crisis points where you either become more honest and real with each other, or you become more distant. If you gf and her daughter had moved to that new city with you, then many of her unresolved issues with her father would have come up and she would have started blaming you for the problems in her life. I've seen this happen many times and in my 20's dated 3 women who all had trust issues with their dads and those became the core issues in relationships with me. I started therapy in my late 20's and that's when I figured out I was groomed to save women from emotionally abusive fathers and had to save them.
You did dodge a bullet with your ex, but have to work on that pattern that you need save women. I finally concluded that I did not want any woman that needed to be saved but was emotionally healed enough to be in an honest and intimate relationship with me. Changing my mantra for what I wanted immediately drew into my life that woman. As it turned out, she had a very loving relationship with her father and knew he had her back. Of all her friends, her dad was the only one who would drive out to pick her and her friends up at dance clubs in LA at 1 am and made sure they all got home safe. Later on, I realized that finding a woman who loved and trusted her dad was more the exception than the rule. I would suggest you find one like that.
You said before she was sitting on his bed, now you say she was IN his bed. Those are very different things. One's not weird at all, the other is.
except that they aren't related to each other so while it is weird it isn't actually wrong. I understand why you would feel icky about it but objectively they're not really related. So if something is going on, honestly you should just stay out of it.
I really appreciate you hitting all the important points I should be talking about to my wife. I always wanted to talk to her i just couldn't put it together. You are really awesome thanks 🙂
I would go to the leasing agent or whoever you signed with and tell them what happened and see if you can get out of it. You may have to pay a penalty but it will be worth it in the long run. If you can't, then go get a second job and break up with your girlfriend cuz you're not going to have any time to see her if you're working your butt off 60 or more hours a week so you can pay all your bills because she couldn't tell you she changed her mind before you signed on the dotted line.
The amount of times I go on this sub and the answer to EVERY post is: “He isn’t mature enough to be in a relationship, he has a negative view of women, and he is not capable of making your well-being and mental health a priority in his life.”
I’m not saying your boyfriend actually CANT be a good partner. But he is not being one. And it’s not all on him; he’s a young guy, and young men get a lot of messaging about how young women are “asking for it” and all that. But if he isn’t able to listen to you? About a situation where you felt weird and wanted support? Idk you all need a diy down about this. It seems like he really doesn’t know how to be supportive for you in these times, and either he wants to learn or he doesn’t.
Wake them both up and tell her to get her arse to the sofa.. also tell him your very disappointed in for even letting this happen.
Then in the morning tell her that her constantly trying to be the third in your relationship is putting strain on yours, tell her we can be friends but your no longer allowed to stay around here and stop with the stupid threesome comments as it won't happen ever.
She didn’t say that because this didn’t happen. I’m surprised you could pry yourself away from all the Reddit porn on your profile to troll us. Commendable
My partner would be pissed if I asked her parents. Its effectively asking a father to 'give' you his daughter. Its creepy as fuck. As is that whole father handing over the bride thing in weddings but we tend to let that pass. Shudder.
OP, having an open relationship isn't for everyone, and this guy is actually trying to make you feel guilty for not wanting this.
You need to go no contact with him. This guy is a walking red flag, and you need to look after yourself. You are not good now, and it is because of what he is planting in your head and heart.
Please OP don't go back to be with him. He wants to be with others, so we can all hope he will lose his interest in you and find someone else that can meet his appetite.
I wish you the best and I hope you will be good by you.
Yeah, when you enter a relationship under the premise of monogamy and THEN decide to say “hey how about a threesome or open relationship”, more often than not it will not end well. If you want threesomes or an open relationship that is something both people need to be on board with from the get go. Also, IF,m you decide you want to feel the other person out on the matter you DON’T tell them you want it with someone with which they are friends. It would definitely make most question, “well why are you with me then? Why are you with them if you want them?” or “if we were to do such a thing would they want to be with them instead?”
Well, that was why I pulled away, was because everyone told me it was a bad situation. Yeah, bagging a cheater is not a flex, and I understand that. Nothing happened beyond a debatable emotional affair. My friends said she probably is only staying in her relationship because she's scared to leave. But a few people on Reddit before told me she has me as her backup so she can jump into a relationship with me if she wanted a divorce, but she wanted me to make a move or something.
I don't know, this really just made everything go haywire in me
You're not sharing it with society, you're sharing it with your girlfriend. There's probably not a great way to bring it up, but just tell them something like “before we get too serious, I want to know about this.” Usually you ask them about the number of partners they've had at some point so that'd be a good place to jump into libido.
She cheats on you during a low time and now wants comfort from you during hers? Real psycho. Did she even acknowledge her part in the divorce?
So she wants all the benefits of living together, but to manipulate you into paying all the bills under the premise that she has some of her stuff in her friend's basement for free and that's where she “lives”. Time to get a new GF, I think- this one is spoiled.
No one can control their feelings so it isn’t your fault but since this happened this way just tell her you made a mistake (mistake is letting it get there,not you feeling that way which once again isn’t in your control) and you went against the agreed terms. She either gets pissed and cuts you off which is very unlikely because you only have good intentions towards her and you’re honest, or you guys talk about it and reach a mutual consensus. Just find your own way to just break it.
You just need to decide if that’s a dealbreaker! If that’s who he is and you can’t trust him then staying together won’t be good for the child.
She should go if she wants to go.
Youre dating a narcissistic loser. Women his age don't put up with his bullshit. Leave him immediately before he ruins your life.
I sometimes feel that’s the case but I’m don’t want to assume negative things about her
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I am sure she sneaked around to help him straighten his sock drawer out.
How is this a reason she won’t set him up? You’re being so foolish here!!
That’s a whole different story then. He knows that penetration hurts yet he did it anyway. I have vulvodynia and I’m currently trying nerve blockers to help it. I understand the pain of penetration if you don’t feel comfortable around him, then leave him.
Saw this sort of mind games used on my ex a lot she was a people pleaser and she just wouldn’t accept she was being manipulated. Like she had a guy threatening to kill himself (or me!) And she’d have to fix it. why HIS friends said so also told her not to tell me because I might go to the police and he wouldn’t cope in jail.
I can't help but ask myself how much of what you say is actually you rewriting your marriage history to suit your new affair narrative. I'm not saying this is what you are doing or this is who you are but waywards tend to do this a lot, and I mean ALOT.
If you were unhappy you should have divorced before you started an affair, that you chose to stay in the comfort and security of marriage till something new comes along isn't doing you any favors.
Your children you should have thought about long before you decided to betray your family, and make no mistake, it is not just your husband you betrayed, it is your children as well.
Somehow in all of this the vibe I get is that it's all going to blow up in your face sooner or later and you'll be back here asking how to win your husband back. I hope I'm wrong in this but my gut tells me you're in for a very rude awakening.
Well, you mentioned that you had only been dating for 6 months. Every relationship gets to crisis points where you either become more honest and real with each other, or you become more distant. If you gf and her daughter had moved to that new city with you, then many of her unresolved issues with her father would have come up and she would have started blaming you for the problems in her life. I've seen this happen many times and in my 20's dated 3 women who all had trust issues with their dads and those became the core issues in relationships with me. I started therapy in my late 20's and that's when I figured out I was groomed to save women from emotionally abusive fathers and had to save them.
You did dodge a bullet with your ex, but have to work on that pattern that you need save women. I finally concluded that I did not want any woman that needed to be saved but was emotionally healed enough to be in an honest and intimate relationship with me. Changing my mantra for what I wanted immediately drew into my life that woman. As it turned out, she had a very loving relationship with her father and knew he had her back. Of all her friends, her dad was the only one who would drive out to pick her and her friends up at dance clubs in LA at 1 am and made sure they all got home safe. Later on, I realized that finding a woman who loved and trusted her dad was more the exception than the rule. I would suggest you find one like that.
You said before she was sitting on his bed, now you say she was IN his bed. Those are very different things. One's not weird at all, the other is.
except that they aren't related to each other so while it is weird it isn't actually wrong. I understand why you would feel icky about it but objectively they're not really related. So if something is going on, honestly you should just stay out of it.
I really appreciate you hitting all the important points I should be talking about to my wife. I always wanted to talk to her i just couldn't put it together. You are really awesome thanks 🙂
Check out post history, one post said they have a 4 year old, the other says a 2 year old, story is fake.
Who do we need to report this to?
Recent studies have shown that the infection rate for men is higher
This person broke their vows and then kept it a secret. What kind of evil person are you thinking about staying with.
You talk about sunk cost due to all the years spent together. You were investing your time into a person who did not exist.
Why are you following old tinder matches? If you were my fella that would bother me………
Get a different therapist, this isn't healthy.
I would go to the leasing agent or whoever you signed with and tell them what happened and see if you can get out of it. You may have to pay a penalty but it will be worth it in the long run. If you can't, then go get a second job and break up with your girlfriend cuz you're not going to have any time to see her if you're working your butt off 60 or more hours a week so you can pay all your bills because she couldn't tell you she changed her mind before you signed on the dotted line.
The amount of times I go on this sub and the answer to EVERY post is: “He isn’t mature enough to be in a relationship, he has a negative view of women, and he is not capable of making your well-being and mental health a priority in his life.”
I’m not saying your boyfriend actually CANT be a good partner. But he is not being one. And it’s not all on him; he’s a young guy, and young men get a lot of messaging about how young women are “asking for it” and all that. But if he isn’t able to listen to you? About a situation where you felt weird and wanted support? Idk you all need a diy down about this. It seems like he really doesn’t know how to be supportive for you in these times, and either he wants to learn or he doesn’t.
Wake them both up and tell her to get her arse to the sofa.. also tell him your very disappointed in for even letting this happen.
Then in the morning tell her that her constantly trying to be the third in your relationship is putting strain on yours, tell her we can be friends but your no longer allowed to stay around here and stop with the stupid threesome comments as it won't happen ever.
Thank you
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She didn’t say that because this didn’t happen. I’m surprised you could pry yourself away from all the Reddit porn on your profile to troll us. Commendable
My partner would be pissed if I asked her parents. Its effectively asking a father to 'give' you his daughter. Its creepy as fuck. As is that whole father handing over the bride thing in weddings but we tend to let that pass. Shudder.
OP, having an open relationship isn't for everyone, and this guy is actually trying to make you feel guilty for not wanting this.
You need to go no contact with him. This guy is a walking red flag, and you need to look after yourself. You are not good now, and it is because of what he is planting in your head and heart.
Please OP don't go back to be with him. He wants to be with others, so we can all hope he will lose his interest in you and find someone else that can meet his appetite.
I wish you the best and I hope you will be good by you.
Yeah, when you enter a relationship under the premise of monogamy and THEN decide to say “hey how about a threesome or open relationship”, more often than not it will not end well. If you want threesomes or an open relationship that is something both people need to be on board with from the get go. Also, IF,m you decide you want to feel the other person out on the matter you DON’T tell them you want it with someone with which they are friends. It would definitely make most question, “well why are you with me then? Why are you with them if you want them?” or “if we were to do such a thing would they want to be with them instead?”
Well, that was why I pulled away, was because everyone told me it was a bad situation. Yeah, bagging a cheater is not a flex, and I understand that. Nothing happened beyond a debatable emotional affair. My friends said she probably is only staying in her relationship because she's scared to leave. But a few people on Reddit before told me she has me as her backup so she can jump into a relationship with me if she wanted a divorce, but she wanted me to make a move or something.
I don't know, this really just made everything go haywire in me