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IT'S OKAY TO CRY IF YOU ARE SAD, EVEN IF IT'S YOUR FAULT.
While this is right, I must also say that I can be tiring.
My girlfriend always do this, and it can be very tiring because if you are rightly angry but see your loved one crying, you normally end up bottling your feelings at the moment to console the other person because you love him/her and hate seeing him/her sad, but that doesn't make your feelings disappear, only makes them start rooting deep inside you and make you slowly build resentment against the other person.
From one Latina(F23) to another… I too looked forward to my Quince for YEARS. After my older sister had one, I would plan the colors, the decorations, etc. I noticed my mom was quiet as I turned 14, then 15… nothing ever came and I had asked many times. To this day, my mom tells people who ask “why did your youngest daughter never have a quince.?” that I never wanted one. The biggest Iie ever and an attempt to gaslight and manipulate. It’s fractured my relationship with my mom too. What I have come to realize is that my mom probably misrepresented things for whatever reason. Maybe she was tired of kids, had no money, didn’t care… doesn’t matter. I expressed to her how I felt after and she wouldn’t understand, and that is on her.
While I don’t have specific advice really (I agree with the other posts), I just encourage you to be your own biggest advocate and never let anyone invalidate how you feel. I treat myself to the nicest things, dresses, travel, etc, because it was not given to me. I’m so sorry op, but I feel you. Hang tight.
If I had to choose between weed and a man. I would chose weed everytime lol! Please go and enjoy yourself also highly recommend shrooms while you are there! You may respect him but I don't think he respects you. You are only young once please go take your trip!
I don’t think you should view those things and ‘negative views’ they are always the result of trauma or unfortunate circumstances. They should be viewed with exactly the same compassion as the other ideas you had. They have as little control in either suggestions.
This is seriously fucked up behavior and not ok under any circumstances whatsoever. It doesn't matter that he hates this side of himself. Get away from him as soon as you safely can.
Well it wouldn’t be fair to try and work on yourself and he doesn’t work on his own flaws either. Retroactive jealousy is pretty very hot to deal with for you. If you put in the work and effort then I don’t see why you shouldn’t stay in the relationship but it takes 2. As long as you’re both willing to do better. Also I’m glad you deleted tiktok?they feed irrational expectations.
So I sort of do the same thing with friends. I literally met one of my friends because she was sobbing alone in the side of the building and I came over to speak with her and ask if she’s okay and gave her emotional support.
The thing is, she’s engulfed in her friend’s circumstances. All she can think about is what her friend went through and how traumatic the experience was.
What she’s doing now is internalizing her friend’s feelings and processing them as “what if bf does the same?” Completely disregarding the fact that you’re nothing like her friend’s ex because she’s in “protect my friend at all costs” mode.
What I would suggest you do before throwing the relationship away completely is to take your gf away just for a little bit from her friend.
Go out to her favorite fast food place or go out and get a pizza together.
The point is that you two go out together alone somewhere and have a talk with her in the car or somewhere where you can sit down and be in public or private together.
Mention how you’re feeling and how you feel like you want to give up on the relationship as she’s unhealthily implying you’re abusive when you’ve done nothing like her best friend’s ex.
Ask her what you’ve done that is just like what her friend’s ex did.
Do i tell you what to wear?
Do I raise my voice at you during an argument?
Do i throw things or slam my hands in things when we fight?
Have I ever hit you?
Have you ever not felt safe being with me?
Ask her these questions and if she says no to all of them then ask her again why do you think after all this time and after I have never displayed abusive behavior do you think I need to do anything to make sure I’m safe to be with? People who love each other don’t ask for background checks and especially after 5 years together.
I understand that you’re concerned for your friend, but I’m not your friend’s ex and you know that. I love you, but I’m not comfortable with the idea that I have to do leg work to show you I’m not abusive when I’ve been showing you. This is my boundary and I’m willing to end this relationship if you honestly feel that I will hurt you in the future because I don’t want to be the reason you can’t trust me anymore.
Something along those lines. The importance is that you take her physically away from her friend to get her emotions in order and more focused on you.
I could be wrong but the phrasing makes it seem like they never even talked about getting married. OP phrased it like she just started thinking about it and popped the question out of the blue.
Its sounds like your on the doorstep to love… its up to you to investigate whether he is worth the pain of heartbreak. This is where you have to make decisions, and really test if the compatibility is truly there.
Doesnt sound too fast tbh, sounds like good pace so far. If you want love, if thats what you’re after; hold off on being intimate. Hold off so that you and him want even more. Its sounds like the start something potentially great.
Dont fuck up, be yourself, and see if he’s worth giving it up to. Own your power girl and be patient.
IT'S OKAY TO CRY IF YOU ARE SAD, EVEN IF IT'S YOUR FAULT.
While this is right, I must also say that I can be tiring.
My girlfriend always do this, and it can be very tiring because if you are rightly angry but see your loved one crying, you normally end up bottling your feelings at the moment to console the other person because you love him/her and hate seeing him/her sad, but that doesn't make your feelings disappear, only makes them start rooting deep inside you and make you slowly build resentment against the other person.
Jesus. You both need anger management counseling
From one Latina(F23) to another… I too looked forward to my Quince for YEARS. After my older sister had one, I would plan the colors, the decorations, etc. I noticed my mom was quiet as I turned 14, then 15… nothing ever came and I had asked many times. To this day, my mom tells people who ask “why did your youngest daughter never have a quince.?” that I never wanted one. The biggest Iie ever and an attempt to gaslight and manipulate. It’s fractured my relationship with my mom too. What I have come to realize is that my mom probably misrepresented things for whatever reason. Maybe she was tired of kids, had no money, didn’t care… doesn’t matter. I expressed to her how I felt after and she wouldn’t understand, and that is on her.
While I don’t have specific advice really (I agree with the other posts), I just encourage you to be your own biggest advocate and never let anyone invalidate how you feel. I treat myself to the nicest things, dresses, travel, etc, because it was not given to me. I’m so sorry op, but I feel you. Hang tight.
If I had to choose between weed and a man. I would chose weed everytime lol! Please go and enjoy yourself also highly recommend shrooms while you are there! You may respect him but I don't think he respects you. You are only young once please go take your trip!
I don’t think you should view those things and ‘negative views’ they are always the result of trauma or unfortunate circumstances. They should be viewed with exactly the same compassion as the other ideas you had. They have as little control in either suggestions.
There was, I canceled
This is seriously fucked up behavior and not ok under any circumstances whatsoever. It doesn't matter that he hates this side of himself. Get away from him as soon as you safely can.
Well it wouldn’t be fair to try and work on yourself and he doesn’t work on his own flaws either. Retroactive jealousy is pretty very hot to deal with for you. If you put in the work and effort then I don’t see why you shouldn’t stay in the relationship but it takes 2. As long as you’re both willing to do better. Also I’m glad you deleted tiktok?they feed irrational expectations.
Ummm…. I wouldn’t give up so fast.
So I sort of do the same thing with friends. I literally met one of my friends because she was sobbing alone in the side of the building and I came over to speak with her and ask if she’s okay and gave her emotional support.
The thing is, she’s engulfed in her friend’s circumstances. All she can think about is what her friend went through and how traumatic the experience was.
What she’s doing now is internalizing her friend’s feelings and processing them as “what if bf does the same?” Completely disregarding the fact that you’re nothing like her friend’s ex because she’s in “protect my friend at all costs” mode.
What I would suggest you do before throwing the relationship away completely is to take your gf away just for a little bit from her friend.
Go out to her favorite fast food place or go out and get a pizza together.
The point is that you two go out together alone somewhere and have a talk with her in the car or somewhere where you can sit down and be in public or private together.
Mention how you’re feeling and how you feel like you want to give up on the relationship as she’s unhealthily implying you’re abusive when you’ve done nothing like her best friend’s ex.
Ask her what you’ve done that is just like what her friend’s ex did.
Do i tell you what to wear?
Do I raise my voice at you during an argument?
Do i throw things or slam my hands in things when we fight?
Have I ever hit you?
Have you ever not felt safe being with me?
Ask her these questions and if she says no to all of them then ask her again why do you think after all this time and after I have never displayed abusive behavior do you think I need to do anything to make sure I’m safe to be with? People who love each other don’t ask for background checks and especially after 5 years together.
I understand that you’re concerned for your friend, but I’m not your friend’s ex and you know that. I love you, but I’m not comfortable with the idea that I have to do leg work to show you I’m not abusive when I’ve been showing you. This is my boundary and I’m willing to end this relationship if you honestly feel that I will hurt you in the future because I don’t want to be the reason you can’t trust me anymore.
Something along those lines. The importance is that you take her physically away from her friend to get her emotions in order and more focused on you.
Some men are very shy and introverted and scared to ask. This doesn't have to mean he doesn't like you.
If he doesn't ask you, the only way is getting active and doing so yourself. If he doesn't want to, he will tell you.
Yep, she very well could. She could also feel intimidated into doing so out of fear. There's lots we don't know about their dynamic.
You appear to be getting sidetracked now so I'm going to end the conversation here. Have a good day.
I could be wrong but the phrasing makes it seem like they never even talked about getting married. OP phrased it like she just started thinking about it and popped the question out of the blue.
I mean, most are fake here and on AITA. I don't get why so many people on Reddit believe any of these, especially the ones written with one hand
Its sounds like your on the doorstep to love… its up to you to investigate whether he is worth the pain of heartbreak. This is where you have to make decisions, and really test if the compatibility is truly there.
Doesnt sound too fast tbh, sounds like good pace so far. If you want love, if thats what you’re after; hold off on being intimate. Hold off so that you and him want even more. Its sounds like the start something potentially great.
Dont fuck up, be yourself, and see if he’s worth giving it up to. Own your power girl and be patient.
Op is very lucky he’s willing to try. Definitely agree with the counseling.
Look think about a relationship like an AND gate.
If neither A or B is “on” of course it isn't on.
If either A or B but not the other are “on” then A and B isn't on.
If both A and B are on it is “on”.
Until then A and B can flip and flop on an off and it wont't matter one jot.