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Start posting thirst traps of yourself on your IG feed and let dudes flirt with you in the comments.
But he didn’t actually discuss the pictures and that he’s not going to do it again?
This guy’s a creep.
Poor girl…you're wasting her time. After a 5 year relationship she's probably thinking that you want to get married soon ?
Yes, I would prefer it but I see where you’re coming from as well
Not a woman, she lasted far longer than most I think. 8 months with no sex while being expected to be exclusive? When the partner isn't try and fix it. I dont see anything about him offering to go down on her,
Leave while you can
He needs some time living alone to get a chance to learn these skills.
For both of your sakes, you cannot on-line together. Whether you break up or not depends on his willingness to work on his personal development (while living alone)
Honestly if he's a deadbeat and magically isn't she's probably a lier
Make him do more chores and childcare
You can call yourself whatever you want. If you're super attracted to this guy, you're going to regret not exploring it. Good luck, whatever you decide to do. I hope you'll choose the path of self realization, and I look forward to an update
There are times when that is the full story, but they usually don't involve your actual family members.
Attractive people aren't allowed to know they're attractive, I guess?
Damn you're older than I thought. Marriage hasn't been that was in over a century
Should I start cutting her off a bit? Or trying to get her more motivated to help out around the house atleast? I feel like I can fix this.
You seem to be asking for mind-reading speculation, not advice. What did you want advice about?
You aren't a roommate you are a bangmaid. He's not going to change, this is the real him. You are nothing more than an appliance to use when it benefits him. You can talk to him again but, things won't change for long. Time to give the same energy he is giving and start looking for another “roommate” and your own apartment.
Tell her you're breaking it off. You didn't sign up for that.
Your husband is being passive aggressive. You guys need counseling ASAP
i’m sick of you ignoring me. call me(:
Enterprise resource planning
She’s entirely too old/been around long enough to not know this is bad. I say you stop taking her calls.
So if I’m understanding you, at some point in the past he called you “little girl” or some other diminutive phrase. And you didn’t like it. Then when he sees you in lingerie and calls you a “sexy lady” you cringe. I get the first one. But being a “Lady” doesn’t mean your elderly. It means your a woman. And he’s addressing you as such. I think you might be overreacting, or overthinking it.
Not only what poster said above , the other side of that is that if somehow he isn't cheating on you , sometimes the mistrust can damage a relationship irreparably. So , I'd keep your investigations tight for a bit longer and not let him know you're onto him.
I'm gonna be the mean one here and say if you're too scared to relax you shouldn't be having any sex at all. Especially if it's hurting.
POS you get what you deserve
In a weird way, Mark is kinda helping.
Tom can become mostly his parents’ problem AND remain on Sami’s insurance for a year.
A lawyer can arrange this for Sami. She is 109% free to walk away!
Enjoy your graduation, go to his next wedding I bet there will be one!!
This is why you don't sleep with friends you intend on keeping around. If she had a position of I am uncomfortable with you being close with people you slept with or sleep with when single, she would be in the majority. If she had a group of guy friends that she had slept with would you be okay with her spending 1:1 time with them?
This is really great. Good for y’all.
That is gaslighting. Sorry to say it, but you should avoid the bullet…
He literally told you he told his friends you have big tits and how he wishes you actually did, but that's not enough.
I'm gonna assume that down the line, he cheats with a girl who has big tits.
You're dumb as fuck lmaooo
There's away to view deleted txt on iphone. Click the little dots in the upper left hand corner in his msgs and at the bottom it should say deleted msgs click it.
As long as she's with the other guy, she's not available. Don't torture yourself. Keep on trucking down the road.
The most suspicious thing to me about this is that her roommate's sister supposedly told her about having sex in her bed? Why not her sister's bed? Why not the couch? Why did she even have a man at the apartment with her? It's weird.
I get both sides here. I was your husband. I wasn’t ready at 36, but also neither was my wife. There are some men who will say “they aren’t ready” in perpetuity unless they get a gentle push in the right direction. I get why you think time is running out, but it’s still possible to have a child into your 40’s.
You and him must have a conversation that gets a firm answer from him. And then you must decide if this marriage is still for you.
You're sexually incompatible. End this now before you become more resentful..
It sounds as if the cost/benefit on this relationship is starting to be more cost than benefit. I will say; I kind of feel as if we're not getting the full picture from your post, but just based on what you said it was pretty shitty of her to make that comment right after what sounds like a nice afternoon you spent with her and her kids. If she tends to be negative and hard-to-please in general she's likely not a good partner.
You leave him, and I can almost guarantee you will be married in the next two years.
I know my personal experience isn’t the same as other, but my husband finally decided he was ready when we were 34. We tried for two years only to find out I have low egg reserves, even for someone in my 30s. I know am going through IVF. Yes, many people can conceive in their mid to late 30s, but many more need extra assistance.
If children is truly something that is important to you, you basically have to choose between them or her. She’s gonna run down that clock until you have no other option (save for adoption, but can financially be Unachievable for some).
Really think if being in a relationship that make you seemingly unhappy to strangers on the internet is worth giving up something like children.
Any kind of non-monogamy isn't well received as an idea down here, and people tend to take a pretty very hot line towards it's almost never a good idea. So take those kinds of responses with a grain of salt.
There are a lot of assumptions about how love/dating/attraction works here that are sadly inaccurate and I think we need to address those ideas before we get to your final questions. First, you've only been together a year. You have no idea if this person is the love of your life. You don't really know him that well yet, and are only truly beginning to really get to know him deeply. You are also likely still deep in a honeymoon period (which can last well into 2 years of a relationship). The point is, you may strongly love him, and he you, but that doesn't mean he is a soulmate or a one and only. I bring that up because sometimes people we bond with pretty well have deal breakers that mean a truly long term relationship wouldn't work. For example, one person might want kids and the other doesn't or one person wants to on-line in one city and the other another. These are things that are mutually exclusive and at some point someone has to pay a price of admission. And if you both aren't interested in doing that, then the relationship won't workout. Love, on its own, isn't enough to solve those issues. So even if he is A love of your life, there can and will be more if this relationship doesn't work out.
Furthermore, there is a perception that when someone is in a monogamous relationship that works that person won't think about other people. That is fundamentally not true. The vast majority of people will daydream or fantasize about other people at some point over the course of a long term relationship. So much of our society acknowledges this reality indirectly. For example, our attention towards conventionally attractive people as movie stars, using sex to sell products in advertising, etc etc play off the very common reality that healthy monogamy does not suddenly make someone entirely uninterested in anyone else. In fact, that's what makes monogamy a commitment. If it happened automatically, there would be no special commitment aspect to it, it would just happen. I bring this up because on one hand the guilt your partner is feeling may be missed place. His interest in other people is something most people experience and learning to accept those feelings but not act on them is a vital component of a long term monogamous relationship.
HOWEVER, that doesn't mean he should be in one. I for example recognize all of the above, but know myself and know that I would never want to make or ask a partner of mine to make a monogamous commitment (I've been in the polyamory world in a major city for around 15 years). I know myself and what I want, and I think coming to those decisions from a positive place, as opposed to one that's laden with weird hangups is probably a better way to do it. But that isn't the situation you are in. It sounds like perhaps he feels guilty about wanting some form of non-monogamy and brought it up in a bit of a circuitous way. But I do want to re-affirm some of the things that he's saying. Having a desire to see other people isn't a reflection of a primary partner. It's not about a person being or not being enough, it's simply a different relationship model. Nor for that matter is any one person ever enough. Even in the healthiest monogamous relationship, there is an expectation that a person has other important relationships in their life (friends, family etc). In fact, not having that would be a tremendous red flag. The point is, we know that the idea of a enough isn't correct, but once we add sex to the mix that intuitive understanding goes out the window. I bring this up because if your goal is this will somehow make him realize you are enough is your goal in giving the hall pass, that is a misguided effort. It's not going to work that way. Instead, this needs to be a conversation about preferred relationship models. Either one that is monogamous or one that is monogamish (i.e. small hall passes).
As for how this works, that can take on many forms. I do think it's a good sign that he is regularly checking and trying to talk to you about it, as all successful non-monogamy requires a LOT of communication. I also think that on your end, trying to unlearn some of your jealous assumptions should be your goal. I know for me personally, the first time someone I loved spent the night with someone else, I had this panic that they were going to leave me for that other person. But, I learned that isn't how that works. Instead, I saw that people who made commitments can mostly be trusted to keep those commitments, even if they are seeing other people. You could even try to think of it like, if he ends up seeing other attractive people that's proof that you are attractive, because you have a guy as a boyfriend who is the sort of person who is able to get with attractive people! As for rules, start slowly. Maybe he can start with a random makeout or two here or there. Maybe it's confined to live flirtations at first. You should also ideally figure out the extent to which you want to be kept informed. Some people prefer strict “don't ask, don't tell” rules trying to know as little as possible. Others, prefer generally being kept abreast of what's happening so it doesn't feel like anything is being hidden.
But in the end, this is about your comfort level. If you don't want this kind of relationship or don't think you could handle it, it is never too late. You can say definitively that you aren't comfortable with it. That puts the pressure back on him to decide if he'd rather have a monogamish (or other type of non-monogamous relationship) or stay with you. But if he ends up choosing not you, remember that isn't a statement about you. It's just about a differing preference.
This is turning into an essay, sorry. But happy to answer any other questions you have about logistics if you want to go that route.
This is the hardest pill to swallow. You can’t make someone be with you.