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Everyone is jumping all over him I see you’re both early 20’s, 1st time relationship (I could be wrong) so both never been with Anyone else? I believe he was genuinely just being noisy in what other women look like? How about you have a sit down an talk with him. About how You feel and what YOU want from this relationship an what you want to happen??
Ur 23 and been together a year- if feels like ur life is sorted but it isn’t and you aren’t the one who would ruin it. She is if she cheated and hid things from you. Don’t allow urself to be treated like this
Question do men feel threatened by vibrators?
The very insecure ones do, yes.
Usually when I do that either she still laughs by herself or she'll point out that I'm down and call me sensitive.
I online with her already.. the kids love me . I depend on her for a lot. A place to live car to drive. In return I work and put food on the table while she stays home with the kids. I'm already in so deep if I pull back at all it could bring the end. And I don't want to hurt the kids too.
I dont think you know what baby trapping is.
She told him knowing he has very little power as she's pregnant. If she offered to have an abortion if the relationship doesn't survive and told him what happened, then she's doing it for him. Here, she's doing it for her.
He is FORTY-SIX and posting sad sack selfies on Instagram to net attention from women, but can’t be assed to fly to see his supposed girlfriend? The line should have been drawn several disappointments ago- do not waste another Christmas (or frankly, another day even) on this guy, he is an embarrassment to you and I doubt he has a single redeeming feature to convince anyone except you that he’s worth staying for, you absolutely deserve more than this.
People who disclose secrets concerning people you are 100% closer to than they are do not deserve for you to keep it on the down low. They didn't, did they? They betrayed their friend to you. You already know. So handle it however you want. It's obviously having a negative effect on your relationship with your best friend. So tell her you know.
Not to be rude, but it would probably help your insecurities if you didn't date someone with a porn/masturbation problem. Leaving cum anywhere you can find it isn't what I would ca normal, even for a single guy.
Yeah, last time I was home (months ago) he asked for my help getting him a drivers license. But it was on my last or 2nd last day there and I don't have plans to return home at the moment
it’s always upsetting when the dude no longer is on his best behavior. It’s like our shiny good parts all wore off and so they don’t care anymore.
There’s something apparently called walkaway wife syndrome
and there’s also something called:
It’s OK if you don’t feel it anymore. You don’t have to do what you don’t wanna do.
that feeling of not wanting to means you don’t have to do it. the end.
if he doesn’t want to invest in the relationship anymore, you don’t have to give him more than you are willing to give.
you don’t actually need a reason, but if you do then it’s because:
then it’s giving up a piece of yourself that can never be replaced.
He is creeped out by your enjoyment of and willingness to have sex.
That is NOT good.
He sounds like he has severe psychosexual issues.
He needs therapy. He sounds like he’d rather rape you than have sex with you.
So happy it’s only a fantasy for now.
But my guess is he thinks all sex is dirty and your desire to do it “makes you dirty” and turns him off.
This isn’t true by the way—you are not weird or dirty. Totally within your rights to desire and like sex.
But I don’t think he’s asexual if he likes watching rape fetish porn. My guess is he grew up where sex was demonized and this is how he gets off.
This relationship does not sound compatible to me. Unless you enjoy rape fantasies too?
You need to tell her “it's him or me”. Everyone in here is betting on the same answer.
You will be left wondering why she would actually choose him over you and you should absolutely be wondering why that is. Are you positive this is a “just friends” situation?
and I'm sure kids playing outside annoys you. oh well, glad you're not in charge of things.
Isn’t our justice system based on a person can change?
I am not saying she is a better person, only he can decide that.
Is she going to pay all the bills herself until you find another job?
Couples counseling is not recommended with an abuser – he will use the sessions to manipulate you and abuse you further.
Read his other post, she’s awful. What he needs for his birthday is a divorce
Run right now. Don't look back. Ever.
OP is the other woman and she's pissed they are trying to work on the marriage and wants the wife to go back into her corner.
Your relationship is over. Good to know now that waste any more time. Online, learn and move on op.
When dealing with an introvert, I find that it's easier to relate it to someone who has arachnophobia. They are simply absolutely terrified of spiders. You can't just make the fear “go away,” and it doesn't matter if they rationally understand completely that spiders are generally harmless to human beings and there's no real reason to fear them. When they see a spider, they are absolutely terrified. It's part of their personality and psychology, part of who they inherently are. With a lot of time and careful conditioning, it is possible for a person to partially or completely overcome such a phobia, just as it is possible for an introvert to be able to adapt to being around large crowds. But just dragging them into the middle of an unfamiliar crowd is akin to tossing a tarantula on an arachnophobe.
You bring up to your BF that you would prefer him to be more comfortable around crowds is like telling a guy with acrophobia (fear of heights) that would prefer to be able to go with him on an airplane and travel overseas. You are, in essence, telling him that he is not good enough to make you happy, because of his inherent psychological discomfort at the thought of being in an undesirable situation. You're not just “telling him how you feel”–you're telling him that he's not man enough to make you happy, and that is a serious blow to anyone's ego.
If you love him, and you want to be with him, then you need to learn to accept that part of him, just as he will have to learn to accept you, for all of your own flaws and quirks.
Perhaps, instead of telling him, “I wish that you were more outgoing,” you could instead say something along the lines of, “I understand and accept that you are not comfortable in crowds of strangers, but I would still like you to enjoy meeting with my family and friends. Is there anything that I can do–or that we can do together–that might make such situations less stressful and more pleasant for you, so that we can both be happy?”
If just thinking about her is making you want to burst into tears, then right now, the first step is finding someone you trust (a parent, sibling, family member, close friend etc) who is willing to let you cry into their arms.
Repressing tears like this is bad. Your brain needs to let the emotions out, or they'll fester and get worse. What you need is, just for a moment, to let it all out but have someone there holding you and telling you it's okay because you can get past this.
Humans are social creatures. We need strong connections and we need support from one another. Humans who try to tough it out alone rarely prosper. You NEED support. You NEED community.
A therapist can help you rationalise and heal, but right now what you need is someone to hold you.
Oh yeah. Going with a friend sounds like a MUCH better time. I’d also be hurt if a partner pulled something like this, it doesn’t speak well of their character. Enjoy your stay!
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You have to keep reading. It’s literally 1 sentence away from that
Yes. Deeply.
The neighbour thing is weird shit, even more so the fact that he asked you to promote the lie on his behalf.
However, please don't judge him too harshly on the fact that you were his first.
The pressure on men to start shagging as soon as they are old enough to get en erection is enormous and losing your virginity at twenty-four is often seen as something negative and far too old.
He probably felt acutely embarrassed that he was going to be sleeping with someone far more experienced and wanted to guild the cherry a little.
On the other hand, you absolutely can judge him for the neighbour thing. Bonkers.
I am considering it but I feel like it might make me look bad to ask him that. And what if he tells her or something? Seems just so crazy to go and ask him that
I would beg to differ. Consenting adults or not, its grooming behavior. Leave her alone.
Proud of you OP!!
She should take the house, IMO. And, if he wants to online in her house then he needs a cohabitation agreement which is akin to a lease. So, set up an agreement that locks him in for a year just like you would a lease at an apartment.
Shouldn’t be downvoted, this is true and honest.
Of course, all the young people of reddit are ready to hit the divorce button as if it's the exact same thing as breaking up with a boyfriend.
The most appropriate thing to do is to bring this up at marriage counseling and come to an agreement on this issue with the help of a professional.
If that fails, then divorce might be the next step.
End the relationship. Walk away without a word. Ghost his ass. He does not deserve you. Get tested to make sure you didn't catch any of their cooties.
BRO IS BALDING??? OLD??? GAINING WEIGHT??? TAXI DRIVER??? AND HE THINKS HE HAS THE RIGHT TO SAY HE CAN DO BETTER???? okay. leave, thrive, and see if his superiority complex ever goes away.
If he goes without you, go somewhere awesome without him. There's no need to stay home. Find a friend and a beach and have your own vacation.
Theyd have to pay him back before he gets married, which is an undetermined date.
I reached out out of out of courtesy because like I've said, the situation in this country is very different and everyone knows and sees each other on a regular basis.
And that is how I am as a person, I'm not an arsehole and I don't treat people badly just because they have to me. Unfortunately I'm not perfect which I assume from the way you're commenting you are and have never had any problems (which I doubt is the case) so please bare that in mind when someone is asking for advice, and you come across as obnoxious and rude, and as someone who has never had any problems at all in their life. It was my first relationship at they time and had nothing to base it on which is why I was wondering what others take would be. If you don’t understand the situation, please feel free to ask more questions about it. If It’s something that you you feel is silly please just scroll past and don’t comment. Thank you!
They never seem like the type. Always trust actions over words. With a distance relationship you need to make a lot of effort to see each other to keep the relationship together.
Yes, trust is important in a relationship. He broke that trust a long time before you felt the need to go through his bag. You didn't do it on a whim. You did it because he gave you good reason to. He's now being verbally abusive and extremely manipulative. He's obviously not quitting on his own like he says. “I just want it here so I don't feel forced” is one of the most bs excuses I've ever heard, and I've made a lot of bs excuses myself. I'm saying this as someone with a drinking problem, there's no excuse for his actions and the way he's treating you. There's also no excuse in the world to drive drunk. That alone would be the deal breaker for me.
First of all, OP, I sympathize. Breaking up is always painful, and it usually sucks, and all you can do is get through it. Give yourself time to grieve three things:
the person that you thought he was the relationship that you thought you had with him the future you thought you were building with him
It's okay to grieve, and wonder “what if…” and “why?”, but remember that regardless of what happened, your life will go on.
I just want to address a few things that you said in your post.
each time was met with ‘well how do you know you don’t have OCD’
Anytime someone says something along these lines, they're manipulating you. This is taking their behaviours and projecting it on you, or deflecting you so that they don't have to take responsibility for what they've done. It's gross, and it's corrosive, and it will either end up ruining your relationship, or it will destroy YOUR self-esteem. It's a common tactic called DARVO (Deflect, Attack, Reverse Victim/Offender), and it is frequently abusive. Good on you for noticing and calling it out, and for knowing that it's not normal/acceptable.
When I answered the door I was in her pjs she lent me and he accused me of going there to sleep with a man
See, that's a conscious choice on his part, and it has nothing to do with OCD. That's a person that doesn't trust you, and doesn't respect you. Choosing to break up with them is the right thing at that point, IMHO. If you have to constantly “prove” that you're being faithful, you're gonna get resentful and exhausted. If you have to constantly push back to get the respect that you deserve, you're gonna get resentful and exhausted. And if you stay in a relationship like that, it tends to escalate to the point that you CANNOT prove it. And by then, you've endured so much damaging treatment that you're going to have issues going forward yourself.
I have pets and he has been a part of their lives since I got them, we have lived in the same flat for 3 years and share so much.
As much as it sucks, like you, they will miss him, but they will heal. Pets tend to take things day by day, and focus on what's going on TODAY. There's a lot to be learned from this, honestly.
He keeps saying I’ve taken his family away from him.
That's completely unfair. For one thing, his actions led to him “losing his family”
I’ve been in long term relationships since I was 17 and I’m a bit terrified of being alone but I think this outcome was for the best
It's understandable that you'd be terrified to be alone. You've never done it before. You've been with someone for the last six years, and the idea of dealing w life on your own at 23 is scary. It's okay to be nervous. I'll give you the advice I wish I'd gotten when I was 23 – it's better to spend time alone and figure out who you are and what you need, than to be in a relationship with someone that doesn't trust, respect, or accept you as you are. At least if you're on your own, you only have one person's issues to deal with – your own.
he even admitted to me that it is extremely obvious that I have outgrown him and he has stayed stagnant.
And this is a lesson you can take for all your future relationships – every relationship changes, from day 1. We are never static, and as life goes on, we change who we are. A year into a relationship, neither of you are the same people you were on day 1. That change keeps happening, regardless of whether you notice it or not, so pay attention. If your partner is resisting change in themselves, or bemoaning the changes in you, it's a red flag – because if you're not growing, you're stagnating.
Don't let anyone tell you that you can't change. IF they can't accept the change in you, or if they aren't going to grow along with you, that's a serious crack in the foundation of your relationship. He's 24, and he's not growing? What does he think life is all about? At 23 or 24, you both are just on the cusp of major life growth. Your 20s are all about learning a) what you don't know, and b) what you know that is wrong, and c) how much you have to learn. Not growing at 24 is like saying “I'm okay with keeping my high school level knowledge, and that's all I ever need to learn.”
Take your time to grieve, OP – and be proud that you recognized that your ex- wasn't good for you, and stood up and left. It was a naked decision, but you prioritized yourself, and that's something to be proud of.
Exactly! I'm pretty sure I did that hike with a toddler strapped to me too… Like we walked daily (that pregnancy bc of acid reflux I had and it helped) and my oldest was 2ish, so he was either being pushed or carried
I don't want to judge her, based on her complete mess she only sometimes is with her “boyfriend” (?).
However, I think if you want to date her, then tell her you like her, but don't want to be a hook up. Therefore you would like to get together with her, but she would need to break up eith her bf properly.
If she agrees, then go for it. If she refuses, then stay away. Btw, her bf would need to be aware theur break is not like the ones before. She doesn't need to manifest she is with, but she shouldn't pretend she is single should they contact again.