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One of the main problems is the fact that I probably wouldn't have known any of this if I wasn't being a little snoopy. I mean the order confirmation I genuinely found accidentally but I know about the NSFW creators because I had a snoop through the app I know he uses for porn. I feel extremely guilty for being snoopy but I'd rather be upset and know about it rather than be blissfully unaware if that makes sense? I have no idea what has changed for him but I think I recall him following maybe 1 or 2 individual people at the time of him saying that and now it's much more than that. So it's almost like nothing changed for him… he was just in denial? Maybe felt guilty? But just not guilty enough
I’d also add STD test today, stop all sexual contact with your ex wife, and a second STD test 6 months from now.
Not saying she cheated but changing your sexual identity without testing the water seems odd so I’d say it’s best to assume the worst when it comes to your sexual health.
She's not lying, she doesn't want to date others, but due to her past, she feels she can't go against her parents entirely and will be sacrificing her views, if that's required.
I think the second part of what you said is something I should be keeping in mind that this way she'll always allow her parents to disrespect and interfere.
This. You don’t go to University for a graduation party. You go for a degree. They could always do a little graduation dinner another night just the two of them to celebrate. When my sister graduated uni I don’t think she went to her graduation party, but my whole family went out to a super nice restaurant on a different night AND I took my sister away for a weekend of pampering to celebrate. On different dates to the graduation. We celebrated with her far better than if we’d just tagged along to a generic college-hosted party. ??
And I love your point about him insisting – I’d call it a red flag if he’s really that insistent and if it’s a deal breaker for him.
That’s a common reaction – bleach, metallic, or vaguely astringent. To be honest I know it isn’t my partners favorite thing but she does it all the time which turns me on a ton because I knew it’s a gift from her to me. Sorry you’re going through this. Maybe give him time to process and beg for a while?
If you have changed, great.. you will be a better partner to the next girl you met…
You have been to therapy, read the books, done the work.. great.. again, you will be a better partner for the next girl.
But.. for this girl.. the time has passed. All this change is too late. The time to work on things is long passed. She will probably congratulate you on the very hot work, but she is not going to leave her new home, and relationship, and new puppy for you. No one would.. sorry.
If you have changed, great.. you will be a better partner to the next girl you met…
You have been to therapy, read the books, done the work.. great.. again, you will be a better partner for the next girl.
But.. for this girl.. the time has passed. All this change is too late. The time to work on things is long passed. She will probably congratulate you on the very hot work, but she is not going to leave her new home, and relationship, and new puppy for you. No one would.. sorry.
If you have changed, great.. you will be a better partner to the next girl you met…
You have been to therapy, read the books, done the work.. great.. again, you will be a better partner for the next girl.
But.. for this girl.. the time has passed. All this change is too late. The time to work on things is long passed. She will probably congratulate you on the very hot work, but she is not going to leave her new home, and relationship, and new puppy for you. No one would.. sorry.
Does he have a pair of gloves that fit him really well?
I mean if you really want to be sneaky, get one of those at home plaster kits and insist you hold his left hand in the mold then you'll have a perfect model.
Does this dummy think that her having big boobs means she has a big milk supply like he thinks her big boobs have been full of milk sloshing around waiting for a baby this whole time!?!? Oh man that’s great just great!
Dude you don’t get to criticize what your wife does with her body especially when you know so little about a woman’s body, you should apologize to your wife and maybe read a book or two ya ding bat!
She sounds like an asshole without any redeeming qualities. How is it that she talks about her ex all the time, compares his dick to yours AND she wouldn’t move in until you remodeled. Where is the ‘sweetheart’ part?
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So I come from a very religious country. After I finished what you would call high school in America I applied for college in Europe and got in.
During my time in college I met my future husband who is an atheist. We fell in love dated and got married when I was 26.
Basically when I came here it was a shock everything was different, from how the men and women interacted to how people in general put religion on the backseat in everyday life if they were even religious. I slowly adapted or even embraced that sort of life. I loved this feeling of not being treated as an add on or a woman, but as an individual.
On my third year of college I met my husband. My first boyfriend. I did have hookups but honestly it never developed and I learned that also in college it wasn’t that dependent on the connection between 2 people, a lot of the sex going on made it feel like it was less about the sex and more about the achievement of having sex.
Anyway he was nice and loving but he had this bad boy side to him, not in a way where he did something to me. But he swore a lot, was aggressive again not towards me, and treated me with so much respect it made me feel uncomfortable.
Now I remember when he brought me home it was different, where I am from usually everybody is focused on the son or the boyfriend more then the daughter or girlfriend, but his parents and brothers were not like that. I remember one time mom (I call his mom also mom)told us: “listen if you guys break up she is staying”. His father said she is the best thing that happened to you, don’t fuck it up.
I love them so much. Anyway my parents were against me going abroad to study, but I managed to convince them. When they found out I was dating a boy who is an atheist they protested.
I told them I was staying with him regardless. My husband seeing that the strain of them not accepting him was hard for me decided to recite the Shahadah so we could also be married in the Muslim way (The Nikah)
My husband still didn’t believe in anything so in his words it’s just a piece of paper that will make you happy.
Anyway we got married 2 times once in his country the other time with did The Nikah in my.
I stopped practice Islam as much as I did when I lived in my country.
So 4 years ago my parents came to visit with my 2 brothers (20,18) we all gathered in my in-laws house. So my 2 brothers father and mother, his mother and father , brother him and me. We were having a good time and then my father asked me how is it with practice our religion and I decided to be honest.
I told him I don’t feel that connected anymore and that I am considering stopping. My father slapped me (where I am from it is not uncommon for parents to slap their adult children if they are displeased). My in-laws and my husband went silent. My husband got up from the chair and I heard his father say don’t kill him.
He came over to me checked if I was ok. His mother came. Took me to the sofa and we sat down. At this point brother in law and father in law stand up and go to my brothers and say do not stand up. My husband looks at my father and smiles, now the next moment after I see my father on the floor with blood all over his face and my husband kneeling over him. My mother screaming and my brothers trying to get up, but being pushed back down by my father and brother in law. I remember this word for word. My father still in shock. My husband then delivers a slap and says “focus now I need you to be focused, I know you think you have the right to slap and educated her because that’s how you were raised and she is you daughter, but she is also my wife. Nobody not even god has the right to raise his hand against her. Now you are her father, I love her very much and I know how much she loves you, but I need to educate you so this doesn’t happen again.” He takes my fathers arm and breaks it. Now the rest is a blur to me .
My husband took me home and cuddled me and said he was sorry, but he needed to make sure my father would never try to do that again, my in-laws took my father to the hospital and had a talk my brothers, my father and mother. My father had his arm broken in 2 different places and his nose as well.
After that my parents left back for our country the next day. Our relationship since then has been strained. My father has since apologized and said he is sorry. But our relationship has changed. I want them to come visit and have since invited them back but they have refused and my husband is avoiding a trip back to my country, but at the same time he doesn’t want to let me go alone.
I know what my father did was wrong, and I know what my husband did was wrong although it came from a good place but I miss my family and am hoping that I can find a way for all of us to reconnect again. Any advice how to make peace in where we can all be in one room as a loving family, I know it seems far fetched and I know my father messed up but he is still my father and I miss them.
And before somebody says something about my husband or in-laws, they have never used or threatened violence verbal or physical against me. My husband was raised that only pieces of shit raise their hand against women and should not be treated as people.
Last but not least I am sorry for the grammar, maybe you figured out already from the story but I am neither from an English speaking country nor do I live! in one.
Will I get banned from the sub for saying you need to take a long walk on a short pier? Or will the mods agree that telling you you don't deserve the air you breathe is justified after you told a scared victim that they deserve to be raped?
Was she having a tattoo in unsanitary conditions? Even if it were from tattoo, it means she has in all likelihood chosen some less than professional tattoo artist.
Interrogate her about places she has tattoos from. If it is from a single place, you should obviously do something about it to make it public.
Of course, she could be just cheating, in either case leaving her is justified. Even if you were to believe she has not cheated, she should own up to her actions and support you in trying to out places where she has gotten tattoos from for being a health hazard.
If she isn't willing too, and isn't mad on them in general, it's because she has cheated. If she has gotten tattoo from some randy in random place… It is absolutely her fault to give you hepatitis B, o with it what you deem fit.
Ummmm… many, if not most of us, had to take care of ourselves before we were rounding the corner to 30. I know it stings but she’s not wrong. You really have no life experience that many of your peers (maybe not your friends) have. Your girlfriend is 5 years younger than you but has a lot more experience. She wants to be your partner, not adopt you; so that’s why she wants you to learn. She doesn’t want to take over for your folks, and I can see why she’d be worried about that.
He may have been a gifted kid if he's a top level physicist. He could have been pushed very hot or abused as a kid.
Maybe start the conversation off with what his vision for the kids education would be, that way you know what you're agreeing to. Use that as a conversation starter.
This is what my abuser told me. The age gap was much smaller than yours but still fucked up (18 and 25…I was barely out of high school a month). Don’t fall for it, he’s grooming you. No offence in any way but you’re not more mature. I thought this way too, but I changed so much since 18 it’s crazy.
I’m sorry you’re in this situation. He’s using his age and position of power to get to you. You need to find a new teacher. A man that betrays his family, and creeps on women half his age, should be given a wide berth.
Easy – divorce now – do not fall for this break bullshit. And with the length of time that you have been married you might be able to get an annulment.
She wants to be independent fine.
Separate all finances – she doesn’t get anything from you.
I’m guessing that she’s still in your home, while you are staying somewhere else. So stop that. Go back home and kick her out – independent people do not sponge of others.
I think you need to find something more interesting to do with your time so you’re not obsessing over whether a text takes 5 minutes or 5 hours to get a reply. That’s a sign you’re very bored.
You know what, you’ve just described exactly my mind. I have BPD, so this is common, but I 100% see this and understand. I already feel better. Thank you endlessly for your reply
I trust him. But exactly my point. He can party but he can’t take out time for me. He says i value you no matter if we are not talking much. Bt i can’t see it at all. I am not his priority
Block him. He's threatening your life, girl! Forget the gifts he's just doing that to keep you in his clutches. Get a restraining order block him on everything and stay the hell away from him.
One of the main problems is the fact that I probably wouldn't have known any of this if I wasn't being a little snoopy. I mean the order confirmation I genuinely found accidentally but I know about the NSFW creators because I had a snoop through the app I know he uses for porn. I feel extremely guilty for being snoopy but I'd rather be upset and know about it rather than be blissfully unaware if that makes sense? I have no idea what has changed for him but I think I recall him following maybe 1 or 2 individual people at the time of him saying that and now it's much more than that. So it's almost like nothing changed for him… he was just in denial? Maybe felt guilty? But just not guilty enough
That’s beautifully said. Can you explain a little more what you mean?
Nope.
That energy should be going to you.
Thats emotional manipulation
Return presents…
Try more brands and sizes my bf found one he ok with and problem solved
I’d also add STD test today, stop all sexual contact with your ex wife, and a second STD test 6 months from now.
Not saying she cheated but changing your sexual identity without testing the water seems odd so I’d say it’s best to assume the worst when it comes to your sexual health.
If u want to keep the baby just said so, not that you must keep the baby because religious or whatever
u want to keep the baby because u love this soon to be born Girl/Boy, u have this motherly feeling to this new life inside you
nothing wrong with that
no religious or anything can decide for you, its about you friend
I mean, I think you know what to do. peace
Without a gun, emotionally maybe?
She's not lying, she doesn't want to date others, but due to her past, she feels she can't go against her parents entirely and will be sacrificing her views, if that's required.
I think the second part of what you said is something I should be keeping in mind that this way she'll always allow her parents to disrespect and interfere.
Why would anyone cry over a game? That’s so funny
They already broke up. OP just searching for some validation, that's all. Happens when you do bad things lol
This. You don’t go to University for a graduation party. You go for a degree. They could always do a little graduation dinner another night just the two of them to celebrate. When my sister graduated uni I don’t think she went to her graduation party, but my whole family went out to a super nice restaurant on a different night AND I took my sister away for a weekend of pampering to celebrate. On different dates to the graduation. We celebrated with her far better than if we’d just tagged along to a generic college-hosted party. ??
And I love your point about him insisting – I’d call it a red flag if he’s really that insistent and if it’s a deal breaker for him.
That’s a common reaction – bleach, metallic, or vaguely astringent. To be honest I know it isn’t my partners favorite thing but she does it all the time which turns me on a ton because I knew it’s a gift from her to me. Sorry you’re going through this. Maybe give him time to process and beg for a while?
I think you are expecting way too much from her.
And as 200+ people have said, love IS conditional.
If you have changed, great.. you will be a better partner to the next girl you met…
You have been to therapy, read the books, done the work.. great.. again, you will be a better partner for the next girl.
But.. for this girl.. the time has passed. All this change is too late. The time to work on things is long passed. She will probably congratulate you on the very hot work, but she is not going to leave her new home, and relationship, and new puppy for you. No one would.. sorry.
If you have changed, great.. you will be a better partner to the next girl you met…
You have been to therapy, read the books, done the work.. great.. again, you will be a better partner for the next girl.
But.. for this girl.. the time has passed. All this change is too late. The time to work on things is long passed. She will probably congratulate you on the very hot work, but she is not going to leave her new home, and relationship, and new puppy for you. No one would.. sorry.
If you have changed, great.. you will be a better partner to the next girl you met…
You have been to therapy, read the books, done the work.. great.. again, you will be a better partner for the next girl.
But.. for this girl.. the time has passed. All this change is too late. The time to work on things is long passed. She will probably congratulate you on the very hot work, but she is not going to leave her new home, and relationship, and new puppy for you. No one would.. sorry.
My dad couldn’t quit until he got hypnotized
Does he have a pair of gloves that fit him really well?
I mean if you really want to be sneaky, get one of those at home plaster kits and insist you hold his left hand in the mold then you'll have a perfect model.
Or just propose with something cheaper lol
Does this dummy think that her having big boobs means she has a big milk supply like he thinks her big boobs have been full of milk sloshing around waiting for a baby this whole time!?!? Oh man that’s great just great!
Dude you don’t get to criticize what your wife does with her body especially when you know so little about a woman’s body, you should apologize to your wife and maybe read a book or two ya ding bat!
Absolutely. You can overcome some things and disagree, it’s just harder and more common for cracks to appear
She sounds like an asshole without any redeeming qualities. How is it that she talks about her ex all the time, compares his dick to yours AND she wouldn’t move in until you remodeled. Where is the ‘sweetheart’ part?
Block him and enjoy life with your new partner
He’s her problem now and I don’t know why you’d want to keep someone in your life who created so much hurt
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So I come from a very religious country. After I finished what you would call high school in America I applied for college in Europe and got in.
During my time in college I met my future husband who is an atheist. We fell in love dated and got married when I was 26.
Basically when I came here it was a shock everything was different, from how the men and women interacted to how people in general put religion on the backseat in everyday life if they were even religious. I slowly adapted or even embraced that sort of life. I loved this feeling of not being treated as an add on or a woman, but as an individual.
On my third year of college I met my husband. My first boyfriend. I did have hookups but honestly it never developed and I learned that also in college it wasn’t that dependent on the connection between 2 people, a lot of the sex going on made it feel like it was less about the sex and more about the achievement of having sex.
Anyway he was nice and loving but he had this bad boy side to him, not in a way where he did something to me. But he swore a lot, was aggressive again not towards me, and treated me with so much respect it made me feel uncomfortable.
Now I remember when he brought me home it was different, where I am from usually everybody is focused on the son or the boyfriend more then the daughter or girlfriend, but his parents and brothers were not like that. I remember one time mom (I call his mom also mom)told us: “listen if you guys break up she is staying”. His father said she is the best thing that happened to you, don’t fuck it up.
I love them so much. Anyway my parents were against me going abroad to study, but I managed to convince them. When they found out I was dating a boy who is an atheist they protested.
I told them I was staying with him regardless. My husband seeing that the strain of them not accepting him was hard for me decided to recite the Shahadah so we could also be married in the Muslim way (The Nikah)
My husband still didn’t believe in anything so in his words it’s just a piece of paper that will make you happy.
Anyway we got married 2 times once in his country the other time with did The Nikah in my.
I stopped practice Islam as much as I did when I lived in my country.
So 4 years ago my parents came to visit with my 2 brothers (20,18) we all gathered in my in-laws house. So my 2 brothers father and mother, his mother and father , brother him and me. We were having a good time and then my father asked me how is it with practice our religion and I decided to be honest.
I told him I don’t feel that connected anymore and that I am considering stopping. My father slapped me (where I am from it is not uncommon for parents to slap their adult children if they are displeased). My in-laws and my husband went silent. My husband got up from the chair and I heard his father say don’t kill him.
He came over to me checked if I was ok. His mother came. Took me to the sofa and we sat down. At this point brother in law and father in law stand up and go to my brothers and say do not stand up. My husband looks at my father and smiles, now the next moment after I see my father on the floor with blood all over his face and my husband kneeling over him. My mother screaming and my brothers trying to get up, but being pushed back down by my father and brother in law. I remember this word for word. My father still in shock. My husband then delivers a slap and says “focus now I need you to be focused, I know you think you have the right to slap and educated her because that’s how you were raised and she is you daughter, but she is also my wife. Nobody not even god has the right to raise his hand against her. Now you are her father, I love her very much and I know how much she loves you, but I need to educate you so this doesn’t happen again.” He takes my fathers arm and breaks it. Now the rest is a blur to me .
My husband took me home and cuddled me and said he was sorry, but he needed to make sure my father would never try to do that again, my in-laws took my father to the hospital and had a talk my brothers, my father and mother. My father had his arm broken in 2 different places and his nose as well.
After that my parents left back for our country the next day. Our relationship since then has been strained. My father has since apologized and said he is sorry. But our relationship has changed. I want them to come visit and have since invited them back but they have refused and my husband is avoiding a trip back to my country, but at the same time he doesn’t want to let me go alone.
I know what my father did was wrong, and I know what my husband did was wrong although it came from a good place but I miss my family and am hoping that I can find a way for all of us to reconnect again. Any advice how to make peace in where we can all be in one room as a loving family, I know it seems far fetched and I know my father messed up but he is still my father and I miss them.
And before somebody says something about my husband or in-laws, they have never used or threatened violence verbal or physical against me. My husband was raised that only pieces of shit raise their hand against women and should not be treated as people.
Last but not least I am sorry for the grammar, maybe you figured out already from the story but I am neither from an English speaking country nor do I live! in one.
Will I get banned from the sub for saying you need to take a long walk on a short pier? Or will the mods agree that telling you you don't deserve the air you breathe is justified after you told a scared victim that they deserve to be raped?
Please die.
Was she having a tattoo in unsanitary conditions? Even if it were from tattoo, it means she has in all likelihood chosen some less than professional tattoo artist.
Interrogate her about places she has tattoos from. If it is from a single place, you should obviously do something about it to make it public.
Of course, she could be just cheating, in either case leaving her is justified. Even if you were to believe she has not cheated, she should own up to her actions and support you in trying to out places where she has gotten tattoos from for being a health hazard.
If she isn't willing too, and isn't mad on them in general, it's because she has cheated. If she has gotten tattoo from some randy in random place… It is absolutely her fault to give you hepatitis B, o with it what you deem fit.
So this confirms two things:
1) they do hang out.
2) he's not shutting down a girl who's clearly coming on to him.
She’s jealous. Dump her because her personality is fugly.
am i wrong in any way and what am i learning here? please
Run. Your relationship couldn’t possibly be more unhealthy.
Ummmm… many, if not most of us, had to take care of ourselves before we were rounding the corner to 30. I know it stings but she’s not wrong. You really have no life experience that many of your peers (maybe not your friends) have. Your girlfriend is 5 years younger than you but has a lot more experience. She wants to be your partner, not adopt you; so that’s why she wants you to learn. She doesn’t want to take over for your folks, and I can see why she’d be worried about that.
He may have been a gifted kid if he's a top level physicist. He could have been pushed very hot or abused as a kid.
Maybe start the conversation off with what his vision for the kids education would be, that way you know what you're agreeing to. Use that as a conversation starter.
If you think sex is an important part of a relationship and she doesn't, you should not be dating.
This is what my abuser told me. The age gap was much smaller than yours but still fucked up (18 and 25…I was barely out of high school a month). Don’t fall for it, he’s grooming you. No offence in any way but you’re not more mature. I thought this way too, but I changed so much since 18 it’s crazy.
I’m sorry you’re in this situation. He’s using his age and position of power to get to you. You need to find a new teacher. A man that betrays his family, and creeps on women half his age, should be given a wide berth.
Ew you’re fucking weird
Easy – divorce now – do not fall for this break bullshit. And with the length of time that you have been married you might be able to get an annulment.
She wants to be independent fine.
Separate all finances – she doesn’t get anything from you.
I’m guessing that she’s still in your home, while you are staying somewhere else. So stop that. Go back home and kick her out – independent people do not sponge of others.
There’s nothing gay about platonic love between men.
As long as balls don’t touch.
I think you need to find something more interesting to do with your time so you’re not obsessing over whether a text takes 5 minutes or 5 hours to get a reply. That’s a sign you’re very bored.
You should see a vet for the urinating problem. Cats will go places besides there box for a lot reasons.
My cat Patches has to have medication before any major life changes. Otherwise he is easily upset and will start peeing in soft surfaces.
You know what, you’ve just described exactly my mind. I have BPD, so this is common, but I 100% see this and understand. I already feel better. Thank you endlessly for your reply
She's just trying to one up OP
That bit is not what OP presented. That is what you added on your own.
What advice are you seeking? Why is it awkward with the age difference?
I trust him. But exactly my point. He can party but he can’t take out time for me. He says i value you no matter if we are not talking much. Bt i can’t see it at all. I am not his priority
Block him. He's threatening your life, girl! Forget the gifts he's just doing that to keep you in his clutches. Get a restraining order block him on everything and stay the hell away from him.
He cheated on you. If you're OK with that, by all means, find a way to move forward.