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  1. Never said the incidents were not a big deal or random…but OP said its happened 3 times…so it is factually correct that it happened a “handful” of times.

    People are often deeply flawed. Yes it’s gross, concerning, and needs to be addressed. I don’t think it warrants immediately leaving her partner though.

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  3. This is very helpful, thank you very much.

    If I do get a chance, I know it will be long and hard to get anywhere near where we once were. I want it more than ever, it’s really a shame it took this to open my eyes to what was going on.

  4. Why play games? Just move out. He wont respond to your “ultimatum” because he doesn’t want you to move out. It’s part of his power games. He wants you there to control.

  5. You need to learn to set some boundaries for yourself. You know asking these questions is bad for you and for the relationship. So set boundaries for yourself and do what is best, which is to allow yourself to feel curious without asking for the details.

    Personally I would see it as a red flag to be asked such intimate details about past sexual experiences.

  6. You need to protect your daughter and draw boundaries with these people. She will remember those snide remarks.

  7. You should try to have a heart to heart conversation with him, and tell him that you care about your relationship, and what you like about him

    Give him something that is concrete to build trust on : It can be anything as long as it's something he can tell himself “yeah, she like me for this reason, so it doesn't matter if I tell myself I'm boring sometimes”

  8. Now I am sad. Because I read the book, or thought I did, and thought it was good, or thought I thought it was good.

  9. Hmmm I see what you’re trying to say, but I respectively don’t agree with the analogy.

    To be clear, the term “walls” has been used by both her and myself. We have discussed this, and she has said at times “my walls have come down a bit”.

    Do you have some relationship advice beyond your stance on walls?

  10. Sure, it’s risky behavior. That’s why you wrap it up. If you’re going to continue casual dating with sexual contact it’s a good idea to get regularly tested. Sorry to be the one to tell you this.

  11. You're too young to get married anyway.. the person you are changes at least 3 times throughout your 20s lol.

  12. Not sure of the specifics, but you are legally married right? Get a lawyer first. Even if all the assets are in her name, don't you have some right to them?

  13. Sounds like she gave you the perfect gift for her birthday. She's showing you what all the red flags look like that you need to avoid in any future relationships. Study them well, because she's absolutely full of them. If you ever go on a date and they remind you of this ex, GTFO

  14. Fair points. To clarify we have both only seen 1-2 people outside of the relationship during these six months since it has not turned out to be as “necessary” as we originally thought, but you are right in that we have treated it like a band-aid. Mostly me. The incompatibility comes mainly from my bad self-image and his past experiences of only dating cis men. I thought that if I “allowed” him to have me and the sexual satisfaction he wanted from cis men, he would be happier. I was mainly looking for validation, and once I did it one time, I haven't felt like looking again. He saw two people, did not feel particularily more satisfied and has not been actively looking either.

    Communication has been one of our strongpoints in my opinion, I try to be open about my issues and the cause of my actions as much as I can, and he tells me when he needs more space or help with communicating what he wants to say.

    We have rushed things, that is undebatable. He appeared into my life just as I was about to move out from my mom's house, and I naturally begun to spend so much time with him that I basically lived with him from that one-month point, but officially at the three-month point. Still, probably far too early. It was convenient and pleasant at the time.

    Our entire relationship screams of first teen love because it is. We are still in love though, and even though at least statistically it is not likely to last, we really hoped to be the exception. We probably won't be, and that makes me really sad.

    Thanks for the input, I'm sure you're right.

  15. We've been together 7 years, communication isn't an issue which is why we are able to be so honest with each other about things being disgusting.

    I've already told her that her teeth will rot & it literally takes a few minutes before bed to maintain this level of health. She doesn't do it because she can't see a consequence, her teeth are fine & she gets to just jump into bed at night so she sees no issue.

  16. My guess is that he is as mad at himself as he is with you. You way overstepped. She was 92. But. He didn’t have to stop calling. He made that choice. This is just going to take time.

  17. If you want lip fillers, get lip fillers. But when/if he leaves you because he's no longer attracted to you, take comfort in knowing you've got temporarily big lips.

  18. You’ve gotta take the smart phone and the car away. If their doesn’t work you’ll have to get a divorce and get custody.

  19. Edit: I'm not asking about priority, I'm basically asking if you had to map the relationships out in your life, who would precede who?

    Personally, this sounds like a fairly toxic mindset that could lead to some issues. Humans shouldn't be ranked, especially when talking about those who are important to one's life. At the end of the day my partner, friends, family, pets, children, are all important to me, and I would do my best by all of them when possible. I would not literally map out my relationships like some corporate ladder that everyone is on…

    Personal experience; my mom always jokes about how myself or my brother move up and down on her “ladder” when we do things. We both know it's a joke, and I seriously doubt she's actually got a mental ladder that we are on, but it always kinda rubs me a lil wrong when she makes those jokes…

  20. he’s a misogynist, what else is there to say? he don’t like women as people and it sounds like he has a lot of contempt for you in particular. that’s not how you deserve to be loved

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