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Please ask your boyfriend to see a doctor. 30K is a lot to gain in 5 years, and it could indicate a serious underlying health problem.
The other things you describe— the dirty clothes, etc.— could be signs of serious mental or emotional health challenges, especially in combination with the weight.
If you love him, you should not stay quiet about disturbing and dramatic changes like these; you should speak up, and encourage him to discuss them with his doctor.
You can also break up with him; there is no rule that says you have to stay with someone you aren't attracted to. It's possible to support a person you're not having sex with, but it's not possible to help someone who is not interested in being helped
No. She ding dong ditches houses?! She's gonna get in trouble one of these days. That's not something anyone past the age of 12 does. Even then I don't think anyone does it anymore.
The speeding by kids is even worse. One of these days she's gonna hit and kill a child. She needs to stop her shit. She's immature and dangerous. This isn't someone you build a life with.
It's not really about them dating I just feel like it's hypocritical and kinda disrespectful.
Good that you figured out the source of those feelings.
she got upset at me and started talking shit to my ex about me
That's shitty behavior from a friend.
why couldn't she have just told me?
Agreed! It would have been much more respectful. With that in mind, it seems like you have an idea of what you might want to do. Tell her that it seems like she might be interested in dating your sibling, that you don't have an issue with it, but it does upset you because it felt like she previously was upset when she thought you were doing the same thing.
Take my advice with a grain of salt. This all sounds pretty immature and the conversation I suggested requires some emotional maturity to be productive.
The fact that you’re letting your female best friend insult your wife is good insight into where you’re going wrong. If you want to stay married you need to create distance. You are in the wrong here OP.
He may or may not be buying these for someone else. If I were you I would immediately prepare for the worst. Make sure you have money stashed away, your important papers and the children’s, and a place to go or the number to the locksmith. Your relationship sounds very one sided. And buying expensive Gucci sunglasses for someone else when he can’t bring himself to buy you anything is pretty awful to be honest. I wish you the best and I hope you are in a place you can have money to support yourself and the kids if this does go down. I don’t mean to be negative but if it saves your kids and you from being out on the streets this Christmas then I think it’s important to make a plan. Take care.
if your dad is really remorseful and want's his daughter back in his life (and NOT just because he wants his grandbaby), then have him make an apology video saying everything he wants to apologize for. YOU tell your sister “dad made a video, i'm sending it to you, you don't have to watch if you don't want to, but this will shut the old man up by getting his feelings out, and we will leave everything in your hands dear sister”
then you shut up about daddy and let her decide what to do
It's not that simple. Her job got more stressful over the last month, her relationships with her parents got hurt as well. It's not something she “decided”. It happened during our dating time period. She really does need support.
I am not planning to break up with the person. Just trying to find the optimal solution. I really care about her. It's the first time I actually started thinking about the future with a person I am dating.
This is horrifying. I can't imagine someone trusting me with this level of intense emotional pain and doing what your girlfriend did. OP, you deserve better. What you've been through has been so difficult, and deserves proper support. Partners are meant to be there for you. She let you down big-time, not the other way around.
You would be surprised at how often this question gets asked. Internet mom here. You aren’t wrong. You will miss out if you never date anyone but her. 20s are a time for figuring out who you are and what you want. You decided that as a child. You describe your relationship as going pretty well. Not an outstanding review. If you’re asking for permission, I am absolutely granting it. It doesn’t make you a terrible person. I think that you will regret it if you don’t spread your wings and eventually that will end your relationship but you’ll be 32. You can definitely still live! the life in your 30s but it’s built around your career and other responsibilities. That’s when people are looking to settle down. I’ll end with this. I think it’s smart to figure out who you are in your 20s and I don’t know how you do that if you have already planned out the rest of your life with another person.
You can’t control the lies. Focus on separating with grace and on the best interests of your kids in the process. Don’t defend yourself from the allegations beyond saying they’re simply untrue and turn the topic to something else.
Do prepare what evidence you can to defend against false allegations in a divorce proceeding, however. And good luck. Your ex sounds like a terrible person.
That, I don't know. I would say before stopping this time, the last time I wasn't smoking was 2021. I didn't smoke for a while until 2022. I brush my teeth, brush my tongue, but something is still there that she can sense. Maybe it takes a while to pass.
I’m not really sure what to do now. I’m still upset. I feel unappreciated and like I’m not a priority in his life. I think we should have a conversation about expectations moving forward. I’m not really sure how to approach him with this. I know he feels bad and I don’t want him to feel even worse. Any advice on how to broach this topic would be greatly appreciated
I am afraid that I am sounding like a typical redditor, jumping to “Leave him!!” straight away.
But, this guy does not want a romantic partner. He wants a sex buddy or FWB or bangmaid that he doesn't have to do the romantic stuff for.
Look at what you said here
I asked if he forgot he said no he just didn’t plan anything.
He just apologized and said he felt really bad.
He knew! He knew this was important to you, he just didn't care. He only feels bad because you're obviously and visibly upset, which hurts his fee fees.
If you want to have a conversation, start with “how do you feel about being in a relationship with me? What do you like? What do you dislike?”
Or maybe for a different approach ask him “if you had to plan a friend's birthday, what would you do?” Hear if he's got any good ideas to celebrate his friend, if he knows what they would like to do, if he would be willing to put in the effort to make sure they had a great day. That could be very telling…
It doesn't hurt too bad, but I did end up getting it looked at. First at an urgent care and then later at the ER for a CT scan. Turns out I have a small fracture and they want the swelling to go down quite a bit before getting it looked at to see if I need surgery.
If you have a friend you 100% trust that's on her social media have them check too. It's not uncommon for the affair partner to preemptively block the spouse so they don't see their interactions
You grew up in a dysfunctional family and you're gravitating towards another. Your normal meter is severely broken if you think his mom is a “bit” controlling. If you stay with him you will always be the side chick because the main woman in his life is not you, and will it and will never be you.
Please ask your boyfriend to see a doctor. 30K is a lot to gain in 5 years, and it could indicate a serious underlying health problem.
The other things you describe— the dirty clothes, etc.— could be signs of serious mental or emotional health challenges, especially in combination with the weight.
If you love him, you should not stay quiet about disturbing and dramatic changes like these; you should speak up, and encourage him to discuss them with his doctor.
You can also break up with him; there is no rule that says you have to stay with someone you aren't attracted to. It's possible to support a person you're not having sex with, but it's not possible to help someone who is not interested in being helped
I see, thanks!
I will!! She hasn’t called yet I’m expecting it soon (:
No. She ding dong ditches houses?! She's gonna get in trouble one of these days. That's not something anyone past the age of 12 does. Even then I don't think anyone does it anymore.
The speeding by kids is even worse. One of these days she's gonna hit and kill a child. She needs to stop her shit. She's immature and dangerous. This isn't someone you build a life with.
You're already digging lol. Acrobatics stretching
What do you mean you can’t leave without a reason and she refuses to let you go?
Is the the relationship you signed up for? If not…that’s a reason to leave. She won’t let you go? You dont need her permission….
Yea I think she’s just super immature
It's not really about them dating I just feel like it's hypocritical and kinda disrespectful.
Good that you figured out the source of those feelings.
she got upset at me and started talking shit to my ex about me
That's shitty behavior from a friend.
why couldn't she have just told me?
Agreed! It would have been much more respectful. With that in mind, it seems like you have an idea of what you might want to do. Tell her that it seems like she might be interested in dating your sibling, that you don't have an issue with it, but it does upset you because it felt like she previously was upset when she thought you were doing the same thing.
Take my advice with a grain of salt. This all sounds pretty immature and the conversation I suggested requires some emotional maturity to be productive.
I'd saythe right time to say something was probably as they were about to try to have sex for the first time
The fact that you’re letting your female best friend insult your wife is good insight into where you’re going wrong. If you want to stay married you need to create distance. You are in the wrong here OP.
He’s sick and doesn’t want to get others sick. Don’t expand on that.
He may or may not be buying these for someone else. If I were you I would immediately prepare for the worst. Make sure you have money stashed away, your important papers and the children’s, and a place to go or the number to the locksmith. Your relationship sounds very one sided. And buying expensive Gucci sunglasses for someone else when he can’t bring himself to buy you anything is pretty awful to be honest. I wish you the best and I hope you are in a place you can have money to support yourself and the kids if this does go down. I don’t mean to be negative but if it saves your kids and you from being out on the streets this Christmas then I think it’s important to make a plan. Take care.
Yes then he followed me
9 hours between contacts, and you call that ghosting? OK whatever. It doesn't really sound like a very good match. Let him go.
Thank you for pointing that out. It's disheartening as a queer individual to see people disregarding that the partner is nonbinary & is they / them.
if your dad is really remorseful and want's his daughter back in his life (and NOT just because he wants his grandbaby), then have him make an apology video saying everything he wants to apologize for. YOU tell your sister “dad made a video, i'm sending it to you, you don't have to watch if you don't want to, but this will shut the old man up by getting his feelings out, and we will leave everything in your hands dear sister”
then you shut up about daddy and let her decide what to do
My husband and I have been together 18 years and neither of us would say anything like that to my parents. I would be so mortified.
It's not that simple. Her job got more stressful over the last month, her relationships with her parents got hurt as well. It's not something she “decided”. It happened during our dating time period. She really does need support.
I am not planning to break up with the person. Just trying to find the optimal solution. I really care about her. It's the first time I actually started thinking about the future with a person I am dating.
What have you put in your profile?
I changed my mind: red velvet cake with chocolate fudge icing.
Identical hair, too.
Man, all your friends are twinsies!
This is horrifying. I can't imagine someone trusting me with this level of intense emotional pain and doing what your girlfriend did. OP, you deserve better. What you've been through has been so difficult, and deserves proper support. Partners are meant to be there for you. She let you down big-time, not the other way around.
You would be surprised at how often this question gets asked. Internet mom here. You aren’t wrong. You will miss out if you never date anyone but her. 20s are a time for figuring out who you are and what you want. You decided that as a child. You describe your relationship as going pretty well. Not an outstanding review. If you’re asking for permission, I am absolutely granting it. It doesn’t make you a terrible person. I think that you will regret it if you don’t spread your wings and eventually that will end your relationship but you’ll be 32. You can definitely still live! the life in your 30s but it’s built around your career and other responsibilities. That’s when people are looking to settle down. I’ll end with this. I think it’s smart to figure out who you are in your 20s and I don’t know how you do that if you have already planned out the rest of your life with another person.
Just ask, “Hey do you know a John Doe who is married to Jane Doe?”
Some last names can be common too. It's not unheard of that unrelated people share a last name.
I just also think it's better to find out now if your family trees are connect now rather than later.
You can’t control the lies. Focus on separating with grace and on the best interests of your kids in the process. Don’t defend yourself from the allegations beyond saying they’re simply untrue and turn the topic to something else.
Do prepare what evidence you can to defend against false allegations in a divorce proceeding, however. And good luck. Your ex sounds like a terrible person.
So…. she raped you???
That, I don't know. I would say before stopping this time, the last time I wasn't smoking was 2021. I didn't smoke for a while until 2022. I brush my teeth, brush my tongue, but something is still there that she can sense. Maybe it takes a while to pass.
So he had genital warts?? Are you using protection??
I personally say return the ring, keep everything else
You live! there, you make messes, why is she expected to take on that burden.. you need her to wipe your ass too?
She hasn't opened my message for 2 days. I'm not gonna double text her. Maybe ill wait 10 days or smthn
This is the fakest story
Does she only like pictures of her ex?
Because if not, she’s just scrolling through her phone and mindlessly liking what pops on her feed.
I’m not really sure what to do now. I’m still upset. I feel unappreciated and like I’m not a priority in his life. I think we should have a conversation about expectations moving forward. I’m not really sure how to approach him with this. I know he feels bad and I don’t want him to feel even worse. Any advice on how to broach this topic would be greatly appreciated
I am afraid that I am sounding like a typical redditor, jumping to “Leave him!!” straight away.
But, this guy does not want a romantic partner. He wants a sex buddy or FWB or bangmaid that he doesn't have to do the romantic stuff for.
Look at what you said here
I asked if he forgot he said no he just didn’t plan anything.
He just apologized and said he felt really bad.
He knew! He knew this was important to you, he just didn't care. He only feels bad because you're obviously and visibly upset, which hurts his fee fees.
If you want to have a conversation, start with “how do you feel about being in a relationship with me? What do you like? What do you dislike?”
Or maybe for a different approach ask him “if you had to plan a friend's birthday, what would you do?” Hear if he's got any good ideas to celebrate his friend, if he knows what they would like to do, if he would be willing to put in the effort to make sure they had a great day. That could be very telling…
Ewww he’s creepy. He’s trying to manipulate you into doing something you aren’t ready for. Break up and find someone who actually respects you.
It doesn't hurt too bad, but I did end up getting it looked at. First at an urgent care and then later at the ER for a CT scan. Turns out I have a small fracture and they want the swelling to go down quite a bit before getting it looked at to see if I need surgery.
Damn did your mom really do that? He probably felt his personal boundaries crossed that moment.
Love yourself and take out the garbage (Dump him).
If you have a friend you 100% trust that's on her social media have them check too. It's not uncommon for the affair partner to preemptively block the spouse so they don't see their interactions
Does she have anywhere to go?
You grew up in a dysfunctional family and you're gravitating towards another. Your normal meter is severely broken if you think his mom is a “bit” controlling. If you stay with him you will always be the side chick because the main woman in his life is not you, and will it and will never be you.