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I like that you're arguing law with a lawyer. Pretty smooth-brain move.
Moving out hurts your case.
Your wife wants to have her boyfriend in your house with your kids. You should probably be a little upset about that.
Absolutely, but those members of the tribe should be people who want to participate, not have the role forced on them. And if the daughter wants a tribe, why is she living in a little nuclear family situation where she and her husband are the only adults? There are so many intentional communities these days full of children where everyone helps in the parenting. They could do that. Not force it on someone who doesn’t want to be a part of it.
Don’t you deserve better?
He's not going to stop, and he's threatening you to keep you around, emotionally blackmailing you into doing what he wants with the threat of self-harm and your own guilt. If he's threatening to harm himself again, I'd straight-up call a mental health service and leave. If he's going to harm himself, that's well above your paygrade, he needs professional help. If he's saying it to keep you around, that's abuse and abhorrent.
He hasn't just cheated once, this is an ongoing affair and it doesn't have to be purely physical to be cheating. He's made no attempts to reassure you or help the relationship, he's just trying harder to hide the cheating. He's going to continue to pour honey in one ear, and poison in the other.
You deserve someone who loves and supports you, who respects you and your body.
I'm glad you were able to make a proper decision and not use the situation to manipulate him into a position of being controlled. Women that entrap men with pregnancies are some of the absolute worst type of women. Selfish, manipulative, and downright stupid for not realizing how much it will negatively effect all parties involved. Bordering on psychopathic bebavior honestly.
Since you reaponded to me OP, I just wanna say your boyfriend should follow what the top comment says and lawyer up and get a paternity test done immediately. Block the harasser and only respond through your lawyer/if she contacts yoir lawyer.
If this woman is crazy enough to harass you guys this much and she has had feelings for your boyfriend for ages, who knows just how far she will go. At best she will just continue to harass you through messages, and at worst she will show up wanting to do grave bodily harm to you and your boyfriend, so it's best to get this situation of paternity resolved immediately.
I wish you guys the best of luck in your situation and hope everything gets cleared up amicably.
You don’t see the relevance in the age gap is what’s so funny. The rest of us who do have been in or seen this movie before. It’s relevant. As someone else noted her brain is still developing but she’s smart enough to manipulate you.
I wouldn’t be too quick to dismiss it, seen plenty of “found out my Boyf is married, should I tell his wife” posts on here and everyone saying to do it anonymously. I’d do some digging then confront and see his reaction
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Exactly. She hasn't given us any other warning signs etc. about him being creepy or acting interested in her daughters, and as you mentioned, the “barely-legal” genre is pretty unavoidable in porn. Based on comments, the reputation of this sub has once again proven to be well-earned imo.
My view is that most people are able to separate reality from fiction. There are a lot of women like reading smut stories with some “alpha-male” who basically sexually assaults them and then totally takes control of their lives. Yet I somehow doubt that most women would actually want to find themselves in that situation. Someone's porn preferences generally don't mean much (assuming that it is legal etc. ofc).
That being said, If OP's gut is that he may be attracted to her daughters, that is something else entirely. And even if it almost certainly isn't a real violation of her trust, she may feel like it is anyway. Broken trust is a relationship killer.
And so, even if it seems like a weak (and likely unfounded) reason, if his having watched barely-legal style porn makes her uncomfortable in their relationship and she no longer feels comfortable with him around her daughters, and makes OP unwilling to trust him moving forward, then she should consider moving on or going to therapy/counseling with him.
He does have a right to express needs in a relationship. He did it very poorly, and should have communicated like an adult. But he doesn't have to stay if it's not going at a good speed for him, just like she doesn't have to if it's not going at a good speed for her
I never wanted to settle down in my home town, I was just brought back here because that’s what he wanted. If it didn’t cost so much and I had a vehicle I’d try to go. I don’t have those things. Getting a job that he doesn’t know about is difficult on its own too.
Yeah. Are the flowers a bit too much tho?
We had discussed that he would not be selling his house, as he has nearly paid it off, and it would stay in his name only. It could then be income producing if he rents it out. We both thought this was agreeable. I have not ever owned my own place. He wants to pull out crypto because all of the houses he likes are all beyond what we could afford on our salaries alone. I made up a spreadsheet and we could have paid off a 830k loan in less than 10 years, by covering the minimum repayment using my salary and he would withdraw enough crypto over those years to still keep his overall income under a certain threshold for tax purposes in order to make extra payments. This would work out to us both paying around the same into the new house. However, I would have only some left of my salary and he would have all of his so he would have more disposable income than me. It’s all moot now anyway as I’ve driven an hour to my mums and not going back unless it’s to get my stuff or he makes some big changes.
That’s not a boundary, that’s him being controlling. He’s either misunderstanding it or using that word to make his stupid rule sound ok. It’s not ok. It’s like asking a sexual assault victim what she was wearing when she was attacked. The blame doesn’t go on the woman, the blame is on the man who SA’d her.
I bet if you start thinking about it, you’d be able to think of a lot more ways he’s strict or controlling.
He was 15 when you met. He still acts that way. You don’t deserve to be controlled.
By keeping it to himself he has exposed all the children in his family to a dangerous sexual predator and he doesn't seem to see anything wrong with this. You handled it just fine, apart from where you haven't reported what you've been told about this man to the police.
You can't help a person that doesn't want help.
You can only either be there for them or not be there for them.
Sadly there's a vague line between being caring and being an enabler.