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Changes are something you need to be making over time. While your progress with change based on your second update is admirable, it is also reasonable for her to not trust those changes. I’m not married (I pretty much am but anyways), but I had a similar issue when I was in a previous relationship. Changes that I needed to make were discussed, but I never made them until he left me. I was able to convince him to try again, but that trust, that belief in me was gone. Everytime I made an action that was similar to something I was supposed to have been working on, you could see the list tick down in his eyes. You have to also look at it from her perspective. You obviously don’t consider her intelligent or that she has value based on your rather skewed ideas on worth based in degrees or income. It seems like those comments are coming from a place of frustration right now, but you clearly hold resentment, and she probably does too. It’s probably better to just end it as amicably as possible and continue working on yourself as that will help with the mental state of going through losing your partner. But frankly, sounds like neither of you have really had a partner for a long time
I mean, you can't force it if she doesn't want to. From the sounds of it, sounds like she is set on not wanting to remain married because she wants to create a new one with a woman.
Now you are onto something about a new type of “marriage.” I actually have a friend who is “married” on paper, and they still on-line together in the same house, but they are not together. My friend (female) goes out and has random sex often meanwhile her partner does his own thing. They have 2 kids so that's why they have their arrangement because according to her they coparent very well. She never said if the kids know but with how often she's gone I assume they have to know.
You can try and propose an arrangement like that but I'll tell you this…..you have to let go of your feelings for your wife for that to work. It won't be easy, because you're basically going to know when your wife is going out on dates. It definitely isn't for the faint of heart, it's going to test your abilities to set aside your personal feelings for your kids.
Why weren’t you at the party… Could the reason you weren’t the becthe reason she didn’t call you and drag you out of bed to come get her… I’m talking about you weren’t there because you had to get up early… Sounds like maybe her parents did a good job raising their daughter. Respectful enough to not bother you and responsible enough to not drive.
This could’ve been a “my gf died driving home drunk” post
I think you should tell her how happy you are that she was responsible enough to not drive drunk. I bet the guys were good guys and didn’t let her drive. There are actually good friends out there. Be trusting but mindful
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You also don’t act like a child. It’s a New Years Eve party. People kiss there. If you have no reason to mistrust someone apart from that, this isn’t a blazing sin.
If she kisses people whenever she goes out, okay. Make some changes.
Also, if your self-esteem can’t handle when she kisses somebody else, don’t play spin the bottle. But let her know BEFORE the party.
Why are you only contemplating ending your friendship? This girl has no interest in friendship she wants to be in a relationship with you. Are you aware that she’s likely going to drive your girlfriend away by insinuating something is happening between the two of you at some point? Honestly, if someone I was in a relationship with told me their friend wanted to be with them and tried to break us up and is still friends with that person I’d no longer be in the relationship.
I think of it as someone you can talk to who won’t judge you, isn’t emotionally invested in your situation, you won’t burden with your problems (which can happen with friends) and they don’t go tell everyone. I think most, if not all, people would benefit from at least a little therapy.
When this baby you’re carrying now comes, you need to do your best. Your best is not sticking around with someone who might get high and violent around you and your baby. This is not safe.
Please just think it through. Play devils advocate and really think about the worst situation possible. Just think for a moment he really hurts your baby, would you be able to forgive yourself for putting you and baby in that position? Would you be okay with it if he causes shaken baby syndrome? If your perfect little angle gets severe brain damage and then has a very tough life thereafter? These are the things that happen when you are sleep deprived, and then mix it with drugs etc.
Yes you can tell your husband to not drink or to not do drugs, but you cannot physically prevent it from happening. You need to be honest with yourself. Do you 100000000% believe he will never take drugs again??
I was absolutly floored by both responses. This man is sexually assaulting his own fucking wife. Couldn't IMAGINE what this man has done or what he's capable of doing solely based on his comments.
Can you not hear how insane you sound? Should I let me girlfriend break up with me? Because I don't think she actually wants to break up with me despite having very clearly broken up with me.
For a 34 year old man he sounds extremely childish (like who gets their parents to do their laundry for them at that age?? JC!).
It is concerning that he would rather lie about endless little things rather than choosing to grow up and better himself or least just be honest about who he is.
Tell him in very clear terms that if he continues to lie about small things then you are done with the relationship.
The biggest Red flag is the fact she hid this from you for so long. What else can she be hiding? I mean if she would have told you at the beginning maybe you wouldn't have a relationship with her or maybe you would. I suggest you don't bottle this up and speak to either your wife or someone professionally.
Get an automatic litter box. Use sand like litter vs clay. The cats are likely going outside of the box because it’s not being cleaned frequently enough.
And then you just avoid the cats.
You don’t just decide they’re inconvenient and drop them at the shelter—if your local shelter even has space. Ours won’t even take in strays as we are too full.
Changes are something you need to be making over time. While your progress with change based on your second update is admirable, it is also reasonable for her to not trust those changes. I’m not married (I pretty much am but anyways), but I had a similar issue when I was in a previous relationship. Changes that I needed to make were discussed, but I never made them until he left me. I was able to convince him to try again, but that trust, that belief in me was gone. Everytime I made an action that was similar to something I was supposed to have been working on, you could see the list tick down in his eyes. You have to also look at it from her perspective. You obviously don’t consider her intelligent or that she has value based on your rather skewed ideas on worth based in degrees or income. It seems like those comments are coming from a place of frustration right now, but you clearly hold resentment, and she probably does too. It’s probably better to just end it as amicably as possible and continue working on yourself as that will help with the mental state of going through losing your partner. But frankly, sounds like neither of you have really had a partner for a long time
Sherry honestly sounds like she's having some sort of mental breakdown. Might be worth having a good heart to heart with her
If your love fades over a superficial reason, your love was never that deep or true to begin with, and in that case, you'd be doing them a favor.
I mean, you can't force it if she doesn't want to. From the sounds of it, sounds like she is set on not wanting to remain married because she wants to create a new one with a woman.
Now you are onto something about a new type of “marriage.” I actually have a friend who is “married” on paper, and they still on-line together in the same house, but they are not together. My friend (female) goes out and has random sex often meanwhile her partner does his own thing. They have 2 kids so that's why they have their arrangement because according to her they coparent very well. She never said if the kids know but with how often she's gone I assume they have to know.
You can try and propose an arrangement like that but I'll tell you this…..you have to let go of your feelings for your wife for that to work. It won't be easy, because you're basically going to know when your wife is going out on dates. It definitely isn't for the faint of heart, it's going to test your abilities to set aside your personal feelings for your kids.
How old are you
Then provide validation? It's pretty simple. If you can't don't be with her?
They've been broken up a minute and you have been together 28 seconds. You are rebound. Dump her and let her sort it out.
Why weren’t you at the party… Could the reason you weren’t the becthe reason she didn’t call you and drag you out of bed to come get her… I’m talking about you weren’t there because you had to get up early… Sounds like maybe her parents did a good job raising their daughter. Respectful enough to not bother you and responsible enough to not drive.
This could’ve been a “my gf died driving home drunk” post
I think you should tell her how happy you are that she was responsible enough to not drive drunk. I bet the guys were good guys and didn’t let her drive. There are actually good friends out there. Be trusting but mindful
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You also don’t act like a child. It’s a New Years Eve party. People kiss there. If you have no reason to mistrust someone apart from that, this isn’t a blazing sin.
If she kisses people whenever she goes out, okay. Make some changes.
Also, if your self-esteem can’t handle when she kisses somebody else, don’t play spin the bottle. But let her know BEFORE the party.
u/ebbie45 has lots of resources that can help you.
Why are you only contemplating ending your friendship? This girl has no interest in friendship she wants to be in a relationship with you. Are you aware that she’s likely going to drive your girlfriend away by insinuating something is happening between the two of you at some point? Honestly, if someone I was in a relationship with told me their friend wanted to be with them and tried to break us up and is still friends with that person I’d no longer be in the relationship.
When a person like this shows you who they are, believe them.
Invite him for a threesome?
I have and I've left that's what this posts about!
This is my new favorite saying.
I think of it as someone you can talk to who won’t judge you, isn’t emotionally invested in your situation, you won’t burden with your problems (which can happen with friends) and they don’t go tell everyone. I think most, if not all, people would benefit from at least a little therapy.
Because it's helpful? Because it almost never makes things worse?
This is the weekend we wouldn't have been together anyway… yes. This is putting things into perspective.
Just okay attention to this for a moment.
When this baby you’re carrying now comes, you need to do your best. Your best is not sticking around with someone who might get high and violent around you and your baby. This is not safe.
Please just think it through. Play devils advocate and really think about the worst situation possible. Just think for a moment he really hurts your baby, would you be able to forgive yourself for putting you and baby in that position? Would you be okay with it if he causes shaken baby syndrome? If your perfect little angle gets severe brain damage and then has a very tough life thereafter? These are the things that happen when you are sleep deprived, and then mix it with drugs etc.
Yes you can tell your husband to not drink or to not do drugs, but you cannot physically prevent it from happening. You need to be honest with yourself. Do you 100000000% believe he will never take drugs again??
So you're telling me that this man has had the same phone for 8+ years?
I was absolutly floored by both responses. This man is sexually assaulting his own fucking wife. Couldn't IMAGINE what this man has done or what he's capable of doing solely based on his comments.
In three years this is the first red flag? Or have you ignored red flags and proceeded to walk into the fire?
That’s just not something you do to someone you love. I don’t think this relationship is salvageable.
Can you not hear how insane you sound? Should I let me girlfriend break up with me? Because I don't think she actually wants to break up with me despite having very clearly broken up with me.
I had to double check the age on this one. Nuts!
She couldn't get a new bf at her age.
For a 34 year old man he sounds extremely childish (like who gets their parents to do their laundry for them at that age?? JC!).
It is concerning that he would rather lie about endless little things rather than choosing to grow up and better himself or least just be honest about who he is.
Tell him in very clear terms that if he continues to lie about small things then you are done with the relationship.
You are clearly gaslighting him
Could be as serious as gastrointestinal bleeding
The biggest Red flag is the fact she hid this from you for so long. What else can she be hiding? I mean if she would have told you at the beginning maybe you wouldn't have a relationship with her or maybe you would. I suggest you don't bottle this up and speak to either your wife or someone professionally.
I wouldn't give the dog food anymore and your boyfriend needs to start training the dog more to not be aggressive.
Get an automatic litter box. Use sand like litter vs clay. The cats are likely going outside of the box because it’s not being cleaned frequently enough.
And then you just avoid the cats.
You don’t just decide they’re inconvenient and drop them at the shelter—if your local shelter even has space. Ours won’t even take in strays as we are too full.
If you decide the cats have to go, rehome them.