I’ve been married for ten years. My husband will straight up tell me when he doesn’t like how I’ve done my hair. But he’s not going to treat me like shit because of it. He doesn’t like me wearing pony tails all the time (when I had long hair) or having my hair straighten since I’ve cut my hair shorter. there’s opinions and then there’s being a dick because you don’t like something trivial. Dude needs a reality check.
It almost seems like there’s a type of man that gets cheated on over and over again, in all of these posts. They’re always willing to give another chance. She knows you’re a doormat and has no problem with wiping her feet on you.
I know, it must be very hot to wrap your head that people are ok that their partners have had past sexual relationships before. OP even responded to you boomer lmao
Piano teacher here. Banging students is not part of regular lessons. I have zero issues with age gaps in relationship but this gives me the ick. There is already a power difference in a teacher/student situation like lessons. Do you know his other students? I'd ask them if they get the same attention or vibe. As to his family… letting them know may save another student from predation. Either way, get a new teacher and focus on the music.
He is going to kill you. If he chokes you (or has ever tried to choke you) then statistically, escalation to attempted or completed murder is imminent. You need to run.
I would not do that at work, he doesn’t have time to respond or process and will want to talk about it more.
Cancel the Sat dinner, just talk to him the day before after work or whenever you can after work in person before the date.
Make sure there is a lot of time though. Talk it out.
I’ve been married for ten years. My husband will straight up tell me when he doesn’t like how I’ve done my hair. But he’s not going to treat me like shit because of it. He doesn’t like me wearing pony tails all the time (when I had long hair) or having my hair straighten since I’ve cut my hair shorter. there’s opinions and then there’s being a dick because you don’t like something trivial. Dude needs a reality check.
It almost seems like there’s a type of man that gets cheated on over and over again, in all of these posts. They’re always willing to give another chance. She knows you’re a doormat and has no problem with wiping her feet on you.
Punch Bob.
I know, it must be very hot to wrap your head that people are ok that their partners have had past sexual relationships before. OP even responded to you boomer lmao
Piano teacher here. Banging students is not part of regular lessons. I have zero issues with age gaps in relationship but this gives me the ick. There is already a power difference in a teacher/student situation like lessons. Do you know his other students? I'd ask them if they get the same attention or vibe. As to his family… letting them know may save another student from predation. Either way, get a new teacher and focus on the music.
He is going to kill you. If he chokes you (or has ever tried to choke you) then statistically, escalation to attempted or completed murder is imminent. You need to run.
Why would you want to move past this?
Just move past this man. Put him in your rear view mirror.