Me personally (24F) am getting dubious of my husband (25M) on what he does every Saturday night (Update)

https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/10w7aim/me_24f_am_getting_suspicious_of_my_husband_25m_on/

• This is an up-date for the post I produced yesterday on Reddit wondering people what my husband might be doing on Saturday night time every week.

• Just to address some issues quickly.

• We have a shared accounts in terms of fiances which nothing is up with in anyway.

• I have talked together with his friends and as I mentioned before they just really feel generic and don' capital t seem to want to talk to me since they never engage with me and when they answer myself they keep it short. Could be that is how they are however it all just feels unusual to me.

• We online in the Holland and not in the U. S i9000.

• He or she met these new friends after having met associated with his old drinking number of friends.

• I have talked with my husband twice on what he is in fact doing when he goes drinking with them all the time and am haven' t gotten any important info outside of just consuming at the bar and then going to a friends house until they stop drinking response.

• The friends of his dress casually. No suits or even anything like that. Make of that will what you will too.

• When he goes out he always uses money and it is like 30 : 50 bucks normaly that he brings. Though if this individual doesn' t drink more when I went with them this individual couldn' t possibly utilize it all up unless they are buying for them as well.

• He has experienced no problems going on holidays but if I ask whenever we can go on a Saturday to do something together it consistently is a week in advance as well that he can do so and yes it probably has been about 6 times last year that he did so. Otherwise we do stuff on Friday' h. He is also kinda reluctant to do so if it is not a vacation.

• Their friends have never really been IN our house as they always stand by the front door. They don' t seem to care to be in the house whatsoever.

• My husband is a design worker, the other 3 are IT. Engineer. And a father. No strange jobs or anything like that. Or a work that would require them to function Saturday or Sunday.

So after a lot of recommendations I went with the safest but also not really harming my husband in any way shape or form one. Which was also one of first things recommended which was checking for any addresses on the search engines maps and seeing in case there was anything on there.

When he was asleep I took his telephone from the nightstand and went into the toilet and locked the doorway of said toilet, after that opened the app only to find nothing on it. If there was anything ever on it was probably erased or dropped to time in some sort of up-date or something. So that was no use.

I searched some more until I discovered a navigation app which i don' t remember viewing the last time I had their phone (about 2 months ago. ) I opened up the app up and sure enough there were about 20 locations searched for along with one marked. As in saved location for quick access. Most of the places were normal places you should go to though or locations where I know he informed me he would go for work. Or even a bar I know they go to " supposedly. "

The ones that actually caught the eye where 5 odd ones, and 1 of these was the marked one. The 4 searched for ones had been of random houses one to two hours away from us. In really small places I didn' t even know existed or barely remembered at all. I have no clue why these locations were looked or if he went there of what his business there could be if this individual did go. So that was really odd.

The noticeable place was in the woodland not too far from here. It really is about a 20 minute drive give or take. We have been there on multiple occasions but I don' capital t know why he would have 1 marked for navigation. He knows the woodland pretty well because we have gone numerous times with only the two of us or along with friends so I have no clue what navigation could help him inside a place like that. It seems to become a little outside of where the center of that forest should be. Maybe I' m really anxious at this point but it didn' capital t seem to make much feeling to me.

Anyway, not more than that of use I could find in the phone, so I took the phone and put it right back in the nightstand. As far as I can inform he was still sleeping soundly. He always was obviously a heavy sleeper.

While i woke up he was gone off to work and I am now writing this just having finished cooking for the day. He will be house soon from the gym. About 30 minutes.

I am convinced that If I still want to do a lot more I may have to either employ a PI, or attempt to track them with a system or follow them me personally. Though that will have to wait until Saturday to make any progress.

I have also not found anything that can indicate a different phone, bank account, or anything suspicious on our computer. So once again right now I am at a dead finish.

If any of you have any suggestions. I' mirielle all ears I guess…

TLDR: Am suspicious associated with what my husband does every Saturday night. (Update)