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You’re sexually incompatible.
Don’t stay with someone whose desires don’t match yours. I was in a dead bedroom with ex husband for over a decade. I tried everything to make it work and it was incredibly damaging to my self esteem. Now I have a boyfriend whose sex drive matches mine, makes me feel desired and wanted, and we can’t get enough of each other. It’s amazing and you just need to find that person !
He's said he's working on changing so I'd give him that time to prove that. If he doesn't change past that, THEN I'd start worrying about incompatibility.
You do know that people are capable of close relationships with members of the opposite sex without having romantic or sexual feelings for each other, right?
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Tell your exfriend Kate she doesn't get to dictate other people's lives. That black people aren't the ONLY people of color and that unless your gf is actually painting her face black, then she's not doing black face because she's just very tan.
I just saw an black girl in the cosplay subreddit, she cosplayed Chun Li. I didn't immediately think to myself ” omg she's not asian!”. Instead I thought ” wow that's cool, wish I was talented enough to make a costume like that”. Race is only an issue if you make it so. So ask Kate why shes hating on your gf.
Have a private conversation with them in which you explain, that maybe they aren't aware, but you frequently see their genitals and you'd like that to stop in the common areas of the house.
I love my husband, the things that I liked about him and what I found endearing about us still held true. Me leaving was more about him being in a deep depression because of overworking himself and neglecting the relationship as well not showing me he values me, but the way he treats himself and in turn me has changed so much over the last 8 months putting me back in that position that I don’t know what is best for me.
Erm….no they're also for listening to your favourite DJs playing brilliant sets. When I was single the last thing i wanted to do at a club was hook-up. I might miss my fave track!
You need to move in with your parents temporarily. It seems like its your only option. Then figure out saving up to break the lease. Get away from this abusive AH asap. Go to a DV shelter if you need to. Look at resources available in your area
I'd ask him and let your kids know that they have to be on their best behavior..If he says no then just tell him you understand and no hard feelings. Good luck OP, you can do this IMO the only thing that holds people back on doing anything is their mind.
I understand. My wife is a medical professional. She works crazy hours. There are some weeks the kids only see her on her days off. It can be incredibly difficult to maintain a healthy relationship. The partner at home feels abandoned and the marriage becomes strained, and the worst part is there's no one to actually blame for it. At some point you just have to either accept it or move on. From what you're saying – and literally only from that, I'm not mind reading – it sounds like this might be a case where she's felt lonely and isolated, and found that attention she needed elsewhere. You may be able to salvage this, but if she's already emotionally left, well. But it still seems like having an honest conversation with her would be helpful. You can always get a divorce later.
You need to leave this man. This abuse will escalate, it already is. This isn't something that therapy can fix, nothing you say to him will get him to see sense or suddenly stop his abusive actions. You deserve better, and your kids deserve better a better role model for a father. Divorced parents are better than abusive ones. Record as much of his abusive behaviour as you can, in case you need it later
This guy is the ultimate lowest form of a human being. Theres a special place in hell for this effer, i pray that you will have the support from friends and family that will help you through this.
You’re sexually incompatible.
Don’t stay with someone whose desires don’t match yours. I was in a dead bedroom with ex husband for over a decade. I tried everything to make it work and it was incredibly damaging to my self esteem. Now I have a boyfriend whose sex drive matches mine, makes me feel desired and wanted, and we can’t get enough of each other. It’s amazing and you just need to find that person !
He's said he's working on changing so I'd give him that time to prove that. If he doesn't change past that, THEN I'd start worrying about incompatibility.
You do know that people are capable of close relationships with members of the opposite sex without having romantic or sexual feelings for each other, right?
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Tell your exfriend Kate she doesn't get to dictate other people's lives. That black people aren't the ONLY people of color and that unless your gf is actually painting her face black, then she's not doing black face because she's just very tan.
I just saw an black girl in the cosplay subreddit, she cosplayed Chun Li. I didn't immediately think to myself ” omg she's not asian!”. Instead I thought ” wow that's cool, wish I was talented enough to make a costume like that”. Race is only an issue if you make it so. So ask Kate why shes hating on your gf.
Have you straight out told her it's a turn off? Or maybe next time stop being intimate when she does this?
Have a private conversation with them in which you explain, that maybe they aren't aware, but you frequently see their genitals and you'd like that to stop in the common areas of the house.
You are a terrifying person. I truly pray no woman is ever involved with you.
I love my husband, the things that I liked about him and what I found endearing about us still held true. Me leaving was more about him being in a deep depression because of overworking himself and neglecting the relationship as well not showing me he values me, but the way he treats himself and in turn me has changed so much over the last 8 months putting me back in that position that I don’t know what is best for me.
I got the biggest ick reading that. I’m not joking, I had to stop reading to recollect myself.
Erm….no they're also for listening to your favourite DJs playing brilliant sets. When I was single the last thing i wanted to do at a club was hook-up. I might miss my fave track!
You need to move in with your parents temporarily. It seems like its your only option. Then figure out saving up to break the lease. Get away from this abusive AH asap. Go to a DV shelter if you need to. Look at resources available in your area
I'd ask him and let your kids know that they have to be on their best behavior..If he says no then just tell him you understand and no hard feelings. Good luck OP, you can do this IMO the only thing that holds people back on doing anything is their mind.
I understand. My wife is a medical professional. She works crazy hours. There are some weeks the kids only see her on her days off. It can be incredibly difficult to maintain a healthy relationship. The partner at home feels abandoned and the marriage becomes strained, and the worst part is there's no one to actually blame for it. At some point you just have to either accept it or move on. From what you're saying – and literally only from that, I'm not mind reading – it sounds like this might be a case where she's felt lonely and isolated, and found that attention she needed elsewhere. You may be able to salvage this, but if she's already emotionally left, well. But it still seems like having an honest conversation with her would be helpful. You can always get a divorce later.
You need to leave this man. This abuse will escalate, it already is. This isn't something that therapy can fix, nothing you say to him will get him to see sense or suddenly stop his abusive actions. You deserve better, and your kids deserve better a better role model for a father. Divorced parents are better than abusive ones. Record as much of his abusive behaviour as you can, in case you need it later
This guy is the ultimate lowest form of a human being. Theres a special place in hell for this effer, i pray that you will have the support from friends and family that will help you through this.
It's a big decision for no actual emotional or physical affair.
I'd give it the same consideration you gave to getting married in the first place. Not a decision to take lightly.