How many times do we see a woman’s “gay best friend” get defended on this sub? Suddenly a guy has a gay best friend and he’s a scumbag??? Some of you guys don’t even try to hide your double standards.
If you keep landing with Narcs you’re likely codependent. Get away and try to take your kid with you else he be damaged. But then get help, you gotta fix whatever it is that draws you to these women. God’s Speed!
There's nothing “strange ” about it. He's behaving as a typical abuser would do- alienating you from “your” people while portraying a different image to “his” people so that even of you try telling any of his friends or family the things he's done, they won't believe you. This is not a man who “loves” you OP. Please don't blind yourself to reality. Leave now when you can.
NTA for now but YTA to yourself if you continue in this horrendous relationship.
You guys are way too old for this kind of shit. Use a fcking condom.
Children make mistakes, adults make decisions.
I just think that none of this makes sense, therefor he must be leaving out some details.
If I was married my wife would be invited. My married friends are the same way.
How many times do we see a woman’s “gay best friend” get defended on this sub? Suddenly a guy has a gay best friend and he’s a scumbag??? Some of you guys don’t even try to hide your double standards.
I think wanting to take a break is bs.
She probably wants to break up, but not sure how to break it to you.
If you keep landing with Narcs you’re likely codependent. Get away and try to take your kid with you else he be damaged. But then get help, you gotta fix whatever it is that draws you to these women. God’s Speed!
Take a trip without him. Don't wait for him. Go live life.
There's nothing “strange ” about it. He's behaving as a typical abuser would do- alienating you from “your” people while portraying a different image to “his” people so that even of you try telling any of his friends or family the things he's done, they won't believe you. This is not a man who “loves” you OP. Please don't blind yourself to reality. Leave now when you can.
NTA for now but YTA to yourself if you continue in this horrendous relationship.