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Wtf is this? Why should he fix his low libido? His low libido is not his problem, but her problem
It's fine to not have a high sex drive
This sub in a nutshell
If a woman pressures a guy for sex:
this sub: He must have wanted to break all allong!!!
If a man pressures a woman for sex:
this sub: You are pig YTA, SHE DDESERVES BETTER REEEEE
That is a lot of drama for a 6 month relationship, she is using you she lives there rent free and minimal contribution, while cheating and laying, and blames you for it, wake up man!!!
If you wanted an engagement ring that you chose, you should have proposed yourself. I hate these posts by women who complain about their fiancé‘s choice of engagment ring. This ring is stunning and lovely! Big diamonds in the centre are not a requirement, just a way for the diamond industry to make more money. He had the ring made for you and it‘s personal to you.
Getting engaged isn‘t about the darn ring or what it looks like. It‘s about accepting the other person as your future spouse.
By the way, it‘s fiancé not fiancée because your boyfriend is male.
You either trust her or you don’t. You can communicate this, but expect her to question you or be defensive. If you tell her, do it after the party. Just explain you feel the way you do because of a past relationship and not at all because of her, and that you are working on ways to heal how you trust others in relationships following your ex’s betrayal. With information, maybe your gf can reassure you or be more aware of your feelings, which will help your healing. But it’s not her problem and she’s not doing anything wrong. She should never go to a party and feel guilt for going.
His gift isn't weird at all though, I actually think the jewelry is kind of tacky as a gift.
He's 19 lol. He's clearly prioritizing sex, doesn't matter what he says. Sounds like in this area you two aren't on the same page. Best for you to move on and find someone thats interested in more than one thing.
Ask mom and dad if they EVER want to have grandchildren
I think the fact that you’re questioning this shows that you know he is just using you. A year is long enough to decide if you have genuine feelings for someone. Don’t get me wrong, there is nothing wrong with two adults having a consensual sexual relationship, but if you want more, have a talk with him. I thjnk if he wants more with you, it will be obvious.
You are literally bisexual
I think you're leaving out the part where she said how much she enjoys sex, just bc you cant cum, doesnt mean you dont enjoy sex. It is extremely nude for some women to orgasm and some have a dysfunction that never allows them to experience orgasm. But again, this does NOT mean they dont like sex or have no good feelings from it at all. I did not make myself orgasm for the first time until 2 years ago and it's a lot of freaking pressure to have put on me to orgasm with a guy when I barely could do it myself up until those past couple of years. A lot of times, sex and climaxing is much more emotional and mental for a woman (not all the time but a lot of the time) and because of this mental focus needed, somebody trying to pressure you to cum for them makes it even harder and then you feel like a failure. I'm not saying that it's a man's intention to pressure a woman as I'm sure they're just trying to be more supportive and encouraging but this is really not how it's taken… at least for me and maybe for OP too. Of course he has every right to want to have a partner that he can experience an orgasm with together but hes going to have to be a lot more patient and understanding its not about him before one just starts to shame her for it
I am guessing if you do have kids he would have to pay maintenance on them if you are apart and this would be based on his income so you epund be ok.
Its a blog. People put weird shit in there. Almost always imaginary.
To me, it reads like he met someone who helped him understand and work through his fear of women? and hence be able to have a proper relationship? I dont know what 'variegatedness' is.
Ah then how are you punishing yourself?
This is what she tells you the therapist said. Either the therapist is shitty af, or they never told her that and she lied that they told her that, or she tried to give a sense to their questions. Lile they ask “why do you want to tell?” So she could reflect upon it ane go deeper into the realization. And she thought “yeah i'm not gonna tell that's proof i shouldn't”
I would think so, yes. If you want to try and salvage the relationship then you need to tell him how you feel. Tell him that by inviting himself over, you were expecting him to help comfort you. Instead he made you feel guilty/ashamed for feeling sad. Also, being drunk is no excuse for insulting somebody.
I think it’s grounds for a breakup; but you could try talking to him first.
And that's HER problem, not OPs. It's selfish and foolish of her to act this way. OP dump her already. She's ungrateful.
I recently found out that Julia and my mother have been coming over early (at 6:30) so my husband and Julia could work out together. I was a little annoyed that my husband didn’t say anything to me but he says it wasn’t a big deal, they both do hitt, it did’t even strike him as something important enough to mention to me.
Uh huh. He's sketchy AF. Ok get you a young male gym buddy the same age as Julia and don't mention it to him. Then when he finds out, tell him it didn't strike you as important enough to mention it.
On the perfume: Ask him again, and tell him he needs to answer the question. Yes, or no. Likely nothing has happened so far except him feeling turnt up by a 20s something woman. She's working out with him, likely in workout gear so he can see the outlines of her body and such.
For me personally, this is not something I would tolerate, but if you can, ok. I know my husband would not tolerate me having a young male workout buddy working out together in our home (or anywhere) either. You are allowed to have standards for what you will or will not accept in your marriage. Trust is built on each other accepting and abiding by those standards.
You should also talk to Julia. At 27 she should know better than tp go into another woman's bedroom when she is not present. Tell her to respect your privacy and not go into your bedroom. If she says she didn't go in your bedroom, then your husband needs to explain how her perfume scent got in there.
Talk to your mom, if you have a good relationship with her and can trust her. She's an older woman and has seen some things.
Actually I think this very accurately describes a traumatic response. He could not vocalize a reason because he was too panicked/dissociated/etc to really understand what was happening.
Yeah, work things out with him or find someone new. It’s only a truly open relationship if that’s what you both want. Why preserve an intimate or long term relationship with someone you aren’t happy with? I mean aside from “I don’t want to hurt his feelings” or “but I love him”. I love a lot of people I’m not intimate with. It’s okay to develop a relationship with someone more compatible.
Honestly in 48 years and 26 women, she's the first to ever break it off.
Below the last poster i explained, she called me Friday with a flat tire, I called AAA to fix it. I feel she is going to use my kindness and the fact that i care for her, to take advantage of me, without a simple thank you, or I'm sorry i couldn't accept marrying you because your Polyamorous.
youre so right. she has BPD and while i tried my best to support her and also talk thru this we inevitably broke up. i appreciate your advice
How dare you say we broke. YOU broke it. Let’s make that abundantly clear. How do you fix it? You leave and you never come back. It’s done. Let her move on. You’ve done more than enough damage.
I fail to see her mentioning he is jobless. It's only obvious for your spouse to financially contribute to your living. Now, if he is jobless, that brings more questions like, why she has been tolerating it for so long, and why she is making this concert a dealbreaker, but not his laziness.
Besides, whether they have time or not, their lack of time and energy will not magically stop affecting their relationship. This is why, for example, a lot med students end breaking up with their partners, as they need way too much time for their study to also sustain the relationship.
If you can't afford to have a relationship, do not be flabbergasted your relationship fails.
You’re clearly much more emotionally mature than he is. It’s so amusing that he says you’re ‘stunted’ for not falling for his manipulative tactics, especially since the “appropriate” reaction he claims you should be having sounds like the behavior you’d expect from a jealous, insecure 15 year old.
You honestly sound exhausting. Maybe you should leave him and let him marry someone who actually likes him.
In my younger days I stayed with many lady friends after a night out and always slept with every single one of them
Going to play on this too, not discussed beforehand seems more abusive, who does this without talking with their partner beforehand? Seems crazy to me. Tread lightly OP. To me, that’s crossing a boundary, even if you are into it, it should be discussed before he tries living out his BDSM fantasies, time and place man, know your people.
should i tell her if she wanna hang you for a coffee pointing out it’s for friendship or should i just sale her to go for a coffee?
Oh yeah I definitely got manipulated lol. I’ve been reminiscing on the times when I first met her and things have definitely changed. I guess this is a turning point for me
I would ask the mom down the street
I think for those of us that have dealt with a chronically late person, they always seem to round down. It’s a big tell when you see discrepancies, specifically in actual time vs how they describe their lateness.
Your bar for bullshit must be high. This is definitely relationship ending for most people, especially since you can’t even reason with her or help regulate her emotions. Please, do not go to dinner with your former FWB or it’ll just exacerbate the situation and “validate” her accusations.
I never cheated nor what I ever. The minute she texted another girl from my phone and claimed I was a cheater, I was done. I will not admit to shit I never did.
I went to a friend, not a girl I used to fuck.
Are you married?
What it is is a mindset. You’re “ready” to be married. For everyone, there are different markers that get them there. For many men, it is inextricably linked with the notion that you are able to provide for a family. I don’t care that it’s an outdated notion – marriage, in many ways, is even more outdated. If he gets married now, before he’s ready, how do you think that will go?
It took my first cousin 10 years to come to her senses and realize that her long time boyfriend was not interested in marrying her. She dumped him and within 3 years met and married the love of her life.
You have to figure out what's important to you. If marriage is important to you, then stop wasting your time with someone who has told you he's not interested in marriage. Life is too short to put up with someone's bullshit.
Surely you were lumbering her with anxiety not being able to pay the rent. Any reasonable person would put a place to live over celebrating a birthday
Call the police. Give them the evidence. That’s all. Nothing more and nothing less.
Leave her. Do not date people that aren't over their lexes. She is using to try to get over him, but even about that is uncommital. You are a tool to her.
Ask him his thoughts on it. It will tell you alot.
But also what tells me alot is the fact that you are walking on eggshells bringing it up. he's your partner, your equal and you should be able to talk about anything comfortably.
I've never had to say I don't think my boyfriend would hurt me. Because it's never been a possibility. You need to ask yourself why you need to say that particular phrase.