You've dated for only 2 months. You can afford to live! where you are now, but not with him. You don't have to disadvantage yourself to benefit him, he needs to work his own accommodation out. Do not move in with someone you've only been dating 2 months.
This guy right here. You allowed your mother to ruin your wedding and didn't stand up for your wife on your wedding day? What did you expect? You allowed your narcissistic mother to ruin the day you and your wife planned together for a long time, and you expect her to be happy with you? Then you have the nerve to say YOUR WIFE may just be bipolar? Take some responsibility for your actions and what YOU ALLOWED TO HAPPEN! I wouldn't want to be married to someone who did that to me or have children with them. What's going to happen if you have kids? Your mom will want to have a relationship with her grandkids. How's that going to work when you just let her ruin your wedding and now your wife, you wants NC with your mom? This problem isn't going to go away. You let your mom ruin your wedding, and you think you're just going to change proven behavior patterns you have with your mom, now that you have kids? Your mom ( and you) already showed you and your wife that she can and will do what she wants, regardless of the collateral damage done to your marriage! But you made sure you left your wife to go say goodbye right after she pulled that? You just showed your wife that your mom can do anything she wants and that in the end, who is more important.. But as long as your mom got some nasty text messages, you showed her and put your foot down…..
He is a grown man. He should know better. From what I know you won't be able to change him. People only tend to change those bad habits when they are really in trouble. So as long as you are together, he will have someone safe and won't change.
Ohhh! Thanks for clarifying. I’m really sorry this happened. I hope you guys can work it out
You've dated for only 2 months. You can afford to live! where you are now, but not with him. You don't have to disadvantage yourself to benefit him, he needs to work his own accommodation out. Do not move in with someone you've only been dating 2 months.
I feel he deserves better than me though?
Why?
This guy right here. You allowed your mother to ruin your wedding and didn't stand up for your wife on your wedding day? What did you expect? You allowed your narcissistic mother to ruin the day you and your wife planned together for a long time, and you expect her to be happy with you? Then you have the nerve to say YOUR WIFE may just be bipolar? Take some responsibility for your actions and what YOU ALLOWED TO HAPPEN! I wouldn't want to be married to someone who did that to me or have children with them. What's going to happen if you have kids? Your mom will want to have a relationship with her grandkids. How's that going to work when you just let her ruin your wedding and now your wife, you wants NC with your mom? This problem isn't going to go away. You let your mom ruin your wedding, and you think you're just going to change proven behavior patterns you have with your mom, now that you have kids? Your mom ( and you) already showed you and your wife that she can and will do what she wants, regardless of the collateral damage done to your marriage! But you made sure you left your wife to go say goodbye right after she pulled that? You just showed your wife that your mom can do anything she wants and that in the end, who is more important.. But as long as your mom got some nasty text messages, you showed her and put your foot down…..
If you’re infertile, why are you using condoms?
He is a grown man. He should know better. From what I know you won't be able to change him. People only tend to change those bad habits when they are really in trouble. So as long as you are together, he will have someone safe and won't change.
What are the cultural expectations for the two of you, if this were to proceed?
Wouldn't that be a bit creepy
If he tries to talk to you again, ask him how his wife is. He'll get the message.
Not your circus. Not your monkey. He's a grown ass adult. It's all on him. Go full no contact and move on.