Well firstly we’re both lesbians hahah but I thought another person was a possibility too but I know her schedule she wouldn’t have the time imo she barely had time for me when she was putting in effort. But who knows
It's really odd that you don't like his answer. He said why he initially saw you as special. He can't love all of you right away because he didn't know all of you yet.
Never take st Johns wort with antidepressants without medical advice. Combining them like that can cause serotonin syndrome if people don’t know what they’re doing or what signs to look out for.
As an alternative medicine st Johns wort is one of the only ones that works well to the point it can be dangerous mixing it with actual SSRIs.
If so, I strongly urge you to go to therapy. I was sexually abused as a child and didn't beging to fully heal until I went through it. Learning to trust after assault of any kind is incredibly difficult, but with time and self-care (real kind), it can be done.
Real self-care is loving yourself, respecting your boundaries, protecting yourself from those that hurt you. Basically taking the care of yourself you wish others showed you.
I’ve been on the planet a while. We all have stuff. The magic comes when we address that stuff. I was one of the 2 people I knew that had the childhood everyone should be so lucky to have. My stuff was alcohol. I’ve been sober 23 years. We all have stuff. Most of us. Your insight is amazing. See a therapist and address your stuff that you got from growing up witnessing a dysfunctional relationship. I promise you that it will make your good life become great.
I saw that the nhs don’t specifically advise to disclose but I feel that if I was in your place I could not trust the person in question and I would find not telling from the very outset as quite a dishonest move.
Good for you, but no, asking 30 people some questions isn't science. I have a PhD in a biomedical field.
What I’m saying is that given the outlines of these studies, one can infer the points I outlined earlier.
No, inference is BS science. You need to explicitly show that cuddling with friends makes better people by some measure of “better”. In fact, what you need to do is a randomized interventional controlled trial. Take a bunch of friend groups. Randomly shuffle them into two groups, cuddlers and no cuddlers, and measure changes in behavior before and after the intervention and between the control and intervention group. Done. That's the experiment.
I’m really sorry that you don’t get to be held. You seem really bitter about it, maybe you just need one of your homies to hug you and tell you it’s gonna be okay.
Lazy and stupid people lash out with personal attacks hoping to substitute them for logical arguments.
Also, a hug isn't cuddling….. I got no problem hugging my homies… but thanks for making stupid assumptions… seems a habit…. bye now.
Well firstly we’re both lesbians hahah but I thought another person was a possibility too but I know her schedule she wouldn’t have the time imo she barely had time for me when she was putting in effort. But who knows
It's really odd that you don't like his answer. He said why he initially saw you as special. He can't love all of you right away because he didn't know all of you yet.
His answer is totally valid.
Never take st Johns wort with antidepressants without medical advice. Combining them like that can cause serotonin syndrome if people don’t know what they’re doing or what signs to look out for.
As an alternative medicine st Johns wort is one of the only ones that works well to the point it can be dangerous mixing it with actual SSRIs.
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You're a good man. Art is extremely naked as a business and the high majority fail to turn a buck, it's neither of your fault.
Does redacted mean rape or assault of some kind?
If so, I strongly urge you to go to therapy. I was sexually abused as a child and didn't beging to fully heal until I went through it. Learning to trust after assault of any kind is incredibly difficult, but with time and self-care (real kind), it can be done.
Real self-care is loving yourself, respecting your boundaries, protecting yourself from those that hurt you. Basically taking the care of yourself you wish others showed you.
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I’ve been on the planet a while. We all have stuff. The magic comes when we address that stuff. I was one of the 2 people I knew that had the childhood everyone should be so lucky to have. My stuff was alcohol. I’ve been sober 23 years. We all have stuff. Most of us. Your insight is amazing. See a therapist and address your stuff that you got from growing up witnessing a dysfunctional relationship. I promise you that it will make your good life become great.
I never said that. But it is exceedingly rare
I saw that the nhs don’t specifically advise to disclose but I feel that if I was in your place I could not trust the person in question and I would find not telling from the very outset as quite a dishonest move.
Why do you have a dead bedroom? This seems like a pretty crazy idea of you aren’t having a good sexual relationship.
Can you get to the Philly bus terminal? I will reserve you a ticket….
Good for you, but no, asking 30 people some questions isn't science. I have a PhD in a biomedical field.
What I’m saying is that given the outlines of these studies, one can infer the points I outlined earlier.
No, inference is BS science. You need to explicitly show that cuddling with friends makes better people by some measure of “better”. In fact, what you need to do is a randomized interventional controlled trial. Take a bunch of friend groups. Randomly shuffle them into two groups, cuddlers and no cuddlers, and measure changes in behavior before and after the intervention and between the control and intervention group. Done. That's the experiment.
I’m really sorry that you don’t get to be held. You seem really bitter about it, maybe you just need one of your homies to hug you and tell you it’s gonna be okay.
Lazy and stupid people lash out with personal attacks hoping to substitute them for logical arguments.
Also, a hug isn't cuddling….. I got no problem hugging my homies… but thanks for making stupid assumptions… seems a habit…. bye now.
Yeah, I guess you’re right about that. A small kiss with friends has always been ok with me, but french kiss is way too much to be a friendly kiss.
Really your hypothetical situation is below me, because it's also below OP and has nothing to do with their situation
DIVORCE HIM. Why would you wanna be with someone who doesn't even care how much physically and emotionally you're hurting?