Interesting how you can insinuate that I am “the worst” after such a brief encounter. Quite hypocritical of you, since that is basically the same thing you initially came here to berate me for.
He is not that oblivious! You are letting him get away with being a shitty partner. Speak up, call his ass out and stop putting up with his BS. He knows damn well what he was asking for when he asked for the extra stitch and he knows damn well you aren’t cleared for sex but is still pressuring you! Shut his ass down and make sure he is pulling his weight with taking care of the baby!
It is something that people who have respect for others do not need reminding that it is a requirement in a relationship.
You do not have this guys respect, or he doesn't understand respecting others, which is also not your problem but his. He should have learned respect early on in life, from parents, peers etc, that isn't about porn that is about his lack of respect for you.
Your problem is to quit seeing him safely and carefully.
Love bomber for sure, probably emotionally unstable and blurts shit like that out to anyone he “connects to” when drunk. You dodged a bullet, this guy sounds super manipulative and unstable.
She needs to communicate if you’re going to make an informed decision. Your partner is suppose to tell you everything. If she doesn’t tell you I would seriously reevaluate her trust in you etc.
Whether you want to admit it, whether she wants to admit it, it’s simple. If she is at a stage that she wants to still be exploring her sexuality then she’s not ready for a monogamous relationship. End of. She should go off and explore her sexuality, but she should do it as a single woman.
Now if you want to turn the relationship into an fwb type of an arrangement where she gets to go out and fuck other girls with the possibility of you getting some threesome action, then fine. But if you consider yourself to be monogamous then there is no “opening things up once”.
Get out now, get way from your verbally abusive asshole of a boyfriend. He's not going to change, he's just going to keep ripping you down. Get out now.
In an earlier post she said ages 4&6
Interesting how you can insinuate that I am “the worst” after such a brief encounter. Quite hypocritical of you, since that is basically the same thing you initially came here to berate me for.
He is not that oblivious! You are letting him get away with being a shitty partner. Speak up, call his ass out and stop putting up with his BS. He knows damn well what he was asking for when he asked for the extra stitch and he knows damn well you aren’t cleared for sex but is still pressuring you! Shut his ass down and make sure he is pulling his weight with taking care of the baby!
Do you know what consent is? Or bodily autonomy?
It is something that people who have respect for others do not need reminding that it is a requirement in a relationship.
You do not have this guys respect, or he doesn't understand respecting others, which is also not your problem but his. He should have learned respect early on in life, from parents, peers etc, that isn't about porn that is about his lack of respect for you.
Your problem is to quit seeing him safely and carefully.
Love bomber for sure, probably emotionally unstable and blurts shit like that out to anyone he “connects to” when drunk. You dodged a bullet, this guy sounds super manipulative and unstable.
You don't rebuild trust you broke. It's gone, you destroyed it by cheating on her.
She needs to communicate if you’re going to make an informed decision. Your partner is suppose to tell you everything. If she doesn’t tell you I would seriously reevaluate her trust in you etc.
My thoughts…. Did he try to fuck her? ?
Because she's controlling your emotions.
Whether you want to admit it, whether she wants to admit it, it’s simple. If she is at a stage that she wants to still be exploring her sexuality then she’s not ready for a monogamous relationship. End of. She should go off and explore her sexuality, but she should do it as a single woman.
Now if you want to turn the relationship into an fwb type of an arrangement where she gets to go out and fuck other girls with the possibility of you getting some threesome action, then fine. But if you consider yourself to be monogamous then there is no “opening things up once”.
Get out now, get way from your verbally abusive asshole of a boyfriend. He's not going to change, he's just going to keep ripping you down. Get out now.