You like them – but you feel like the relationship is one sided.
You feel like they don’t like you. So you don’t actually like them as much as you want to.
Stop trying so nude.
Go find people who you enjoy hanging out with, because you like their company and they make you feel welcomed. People who enjoy your company and you enjoy theirs.
Hmm I should’ve clarified. I felt weird because as soon as we woke up he asked me when I was leaving…I told him I’d go home in an hour if that’s cool. He said yeah. That’s why I felt weird! He didn’t rush me but he definitely wanted me gone. I also didn’t need him to beg for approval or anything lol I was just trying to read the room.
Also “wild and unrestrained.” We didn’t do anything that I wouldn’t normally do during sex. It was just shocking to come from him.
Anyways, the next day I told him how I felt in the morning and he agreed that he was trying to rush me out of his house and apologized for rushing, he just really had to poop and was embarrassed to do it in front of me AHAHA. We went on another date on Wednesday and we’re hanging out Friday too. Thanks for your read of the situation but it worked out lol
I've only just started a job that I am satisfied with. That's what's prompting the upcoming move. Prior to this I'd worked construction for a decade. Even with that I still, in my opinion, did my fair share, I wouldn't and still don't leave, every domestic responsibilitiy to her.
I hear what you're saying though. Those are good questions that I'm going to need to delve deeper into with her. Thank you.
OP you did this to yourself when you stayed with a guy who said he would fuck another woman anytime she liked. He didn’t respect you then and he doesn’t respect you now. Why don’t you respect yourself and find a better person to spend time with?
She is a lunatic, and all the people who are gassing her up in this comment section are brain dead who can’t see this situation for what it is.
You like them – but you feel like the relationship is one sided.
You feel like they don’t like you. So you don’t actually like them as much as you want to.
Stop trying so nude.
Go find people who you enjoy hanging out with, because you like their company and they make you feel welcomed. People who enjoy your company and you enjoy theirs.
Maybe have a look at @mending.me about the sexual coercion. She left her husband and has quite a nice community and discussion on the topic
Agreed.
Hmm I should’ve clarified. I felt weird because as soon as we woke up he asked me when I was leaving…I told him I’d go home in an hour if that’s cool. He said yeah. That’s why I felt weird! He didn’t rush me but he definitely wanted me gone. I also didn’t need him to beg for approval or anything lol I was just trying to read the room.
Also “wild and unrestrained.” We didn’t do anything that I wouldn’t normally do during sex. It was just shocking to come from him.
Anyways, the next day I told him how I felt in the morning and he agreed that he was trying to rush me out of his house and apologized for rushing, he just really had to poop and was embarrassed to do it in front of me AHAHA. We went on another date on Wednesday and we’re hanging out Friday too. Thanks for your read of the situation but it worked out lol
I've only just started a job that I am satisfied with. That's what's prompting the upcoming move. Prior to this I'd worked construction for a decade. Even with that I still, in my opinion, did my fair share, I wouldn't and still don't leave, every domestic responsibilitiy to her.
I hear what you're saying though. Those are good questions that I'm going to need to delve deeper into with her. Thank you.
Everyone else read that in the tone he meant it. He clearly didn't say “allow” as “permission”, chill tf out
OP you did this to yourself when you stayed with a guy who said he would fuck another woman anytime she liked. He didn’t respect you then and he doesn’t respect you now. Why don’t you respect yourself and find a better person to spend time with?
She told him from the beginning she wants to get married and that’s something important to her?