She is clearly not being honest with you. I would deal with this by immediately withdrawing any affection and therefore “distance” a bit on my own. If there is any attraction—let he come to you.
You need to stop chasing and frankly, “run cold”. If possible, move out to another room or sleep on the couch. Pick up a new hobby. Buy yourself something nice. Start working out. Do whatever you can to look your best. Best case, she comes around. Worst case, you get yourself ready to open/drop new drawers.
Can you get the kids then tell him via telephone? Might be best to get the cops involved. He might find out at a doctor appointment or something. This will not end well and he will find out at some point between now and when the baby arrives because I expect the kid to need HIV meds for a period of time. This ain’t good at all but thank you for looking out for the guy.
You either grow up and love him for who he is and respect his body or you move on. Some people go bald, that's a fact of life and if that bothers you so much then leave the poor man be. I will never understand this shallow behavior as long as I online.
The most respectful, understanding thing you can do is leave her alone. She’s made it clear she wants space. Perhaps it would be good to find a new hobby or activity to dive into and distract yourself with. I know it probably sounds impossible in this moment but, try not to reach out to her again. I feel for you as 9 years is quite a long time but, I understand the need to develop independently, as well. Let her be & focus on filling your time with something productive. Best of luck
I find, in general, that it's not even worth “confronting” people who are assholes, because they'll twist themselves into knots trying to make your objection to the assholishness the problem? Just give her the slow fade & def. don't help her anymore! The audacity of this girl.
I wish. Just found out there is an app that can recover the photos but he switched us carriers and got us new phones! My ability to get definitive proof is literally zero ☹️
I don’t get why you lied about cheating on your girlfriend? Does your friends cheat on their girlfriends is that why you lied? Like this isn’t making any sense. Just tell her. You were quick to tell a lie so tell the truth now.
He needs to be held accountable. That’s sexual assault AND psychological abuse! That poor 16 year old doesn’t know better yet, but she will. What a creep!!! Please don’t excuse his predation.
Call the police. They’ll investigate more and certainly find more evidence too
You were so young when you started dating that you had no chance to develop your standards. Whether he wants to marry or not, at 28 he is who he is. If you ask him to get his shit together he may change momentarily to not lose you, but will revert back soon. If you move out of his parents place, your role will be to replace his mom, he doesn’t want an equal partner. Not only that, at 28 he shouldn’t be having tantrums over misunderstandings like that, also he shouldn’t be projecting his own insecurities as assumptions of what you may or may not want. Nah, he is dead weight
Not triangle face, I hate triangle face. I scares me.
She is clearly not being honest with you. I would deal with this by immediately withdrawing any affection and therefore “distance” a bit on my own. If there is any attraction—let he come to you.
You need to stop chasing and frankly, “run cold”. If possible, move out to another room or sleep on the couch. Pick up a new hobby. Buy yourself something nice. Start working out. Do whatever you can to look your best. Best case, she comes around. Worst case, you get yourself ready to open/drop new drawers.
Don’t be a doormat for the dishonest.
Good luck. ?
Can you get the kids then tell him via telephone? Might be best to get the cops involved. He might find out at a doctor appointment or something. This will not end well and he will find out at some point between now and when the baby arrives because I expect the kid to need HIV meds for a period of time. This ain’t good at all but thank you for looking out for the guy.
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Did you even read the post?
“Doesn’t change anything “ I’m not going to fuck a teenager and P.S my goddamn house was broken into
You beat cancer and he's being a douche?!… what the hell?
Update 1: “Most want her to join us.”
How many of the most offered to pay for him? If not their opinion is irrelevant.
You either grow up and love him for who he is and respect his body or you move on. Some people go bald, that's a fact of life and if that bothers you so much then leave the poor man be. I will never understand this shallow behavior as long as I online.
The most respectful, understanding thing you can do is leave her alone. She’s made it clear she wants space. Perhaps it would be good to find a new hobby or activity to dive into and distract yourself with. I know it probably sounds impossible in this moment but, try not to reach out to her again. I feel for you as 9 years is quite a long time but, I understand the need to develop independently, as well. Let her be & focus on filling your time with something productive. Best of luck
I find, in general, that it's not even worth “confronting” people who are assholes, because they'll twist themselves into knots trying to make your objection to the assholishness the problem? Just give her the slow fade & def. don't help her anymore! The audacity of this girl.
I wish. Just found out there is an app that can recover the photos but he switched us carriers and got us new phones! My ability to get definitive proof is literally zero ☹️
so she punches you in the head, you call her out on it, then she steals your car.
call the cops, dude. grow a spine
I don’t get why you lied about cheating on your girlfriend? Does your friends cheat on their girlfriends is that why you lied? Like this isn’t making any sense. Just tell her. You were quick to tell a lie so tell the truth now.
He needs to be held accountable. That’s sexual assault AND psychological abuse! That poor 16 year old doesn’t know better yet, but she will. What a creep!!! Please don’t excuse his predation.
Call the police. They’ll investigate more and certainly find more evidence too
You were so young when you started dating that you had no chance to develop your standards. Whether he wants to marry or not, at 28 he is who he is. If you ask him to get his shit together he may change momentarily to not lose you, but will revert back soon. If you move out of his parents place, your role will be to replace his mom, he doesn’t want an equal partner. Not only that, at 28 he shouldn’t be having tantrums over misunderstandings like that, also he shouldn’t be projecting his own insecurities as assumptions of what you may or may not want. Nah, he is dead weight
You’ll be happier if you break up now.