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If you seriously and honestly told him you didn't want to get engaged/married/kids for 5-10 years and he still persisted, you should have shut this down sooner, but better late than never. Great lesson learned for the both of you and I'm sure you'll both grow from the experience.
From my personal perspective that’s weird, I like to balance my sex life with my partner, she gives me head I go down on her, she wants to be on top I let her be on top, if she wants me on top I go on top, you get the idea we do what each one of us wants, don’t know if your bf is shy or just being lazy/selfish or has some kind of disgust in a sense like some ppl just hate looking at feet or something , I would just honestly talk to him and say that you want to try more things in bed that the things he does clothed you want to do actually coz it works for you, otherwise things are boring and being on top honestly is probably more exhausting for the ladies then the guys 😉 it should not be a one way system, but everyone is different, I hope you get the idea but you can probably word it better then me 😉
Good luck
Firstly, adorable.
What I'm reading from this is; You've gotten to know this guy more than previously and realized you two have a stronger connection.
Surprise – this is perfectly normal. I do think you should consider putting yourself out there for this guy if you're feeling it. You have nothing to lose here besides risking another heartache — but sounds like you've been doing that already. So why not, go for it
Good riddance.
Just rip the bandaid off and tell your bio dad. Also, I think you are worrying about this situation way too much. Don't stress about outcomes that have not occurred.
Best thing I have read in years.
This sounds like a codependent relationship. What stuck out to me is this. “I put so much time and effort into building him up and getting him to seek help.” You can't fix someone. You aren't his therapist and it sounds like all your efforts have been a waste, anyway.
You have issues with friends, so you don't want to let him go because the idea of being alone sounds awful.
This relationship is completely doomed. He didn't even have the courtesy to wait the day after Christmas to tell you this. He wasn't concerned about ruining your holiday with family. I doubt calling an escort was an impulsive decision. People usually think about doing something like that before they actually take the plunge.
he even promised well be together on Christmas
So what did you do the whole day before the business dinner? you had xmas day.
no
>>I am also an empath and something tells me that if he is actually going through a divorce it must be a really difficult time for him and if his story was true then it must be really tough and I’ll be a terrible person for me to leave him at such tough times
OP, don't tell yourself such self-sabotaging stories, OK? “I am an empath — here, walk all over me!'
Show your wife one of those fucking TikToks about the mothers of blended families becoming friends.
Oh, they absolutely deliver to your doorstep, but not being able to open the door and pay them or get the groceries inside really makes delivery services impossible unless I employ a rope-and-bucket system out of my window.
How much have you told him about how his friend treats you? What does he say when you tell him?
I’m tempted to start a BINGO board for these subs. Seriously though OP if you are reading this your husband is taking advantage of you and you are older now and less easy to manipulate so he’s throwing tantrums. Your choice to either 1. Deal with it and continue to on-line this very shitty life or 2. Cut your losses and peace out. Please please please choose the second.
Some details that I failed to list here; My divorce has not been finalized because my ex-wife has moved to another country and is attempting to delay the proceedings as much as possible, it should have been finalized 15 months ago. I didn't say I think I am going to spend the rest of my life with her, I was indicating I could see that. The statement was more to the effort of “I am getting older, I am not looking to date someone “just to date someone”, someone without a potential future, as you would when you are younger. I questioned whether she was uncomfortable which is why I backed out completely in the middle of October to see what would happen, she is the one who explicitly has reinitiated communication in December – which I lightly grazed over. She has received a new licensure in healthcare in a field that is not covered in our hospital so we are unable to promote her into as the department doesn't exist; for this reason she is moving to another company at the end of the month. Which removes my concerns of multiple other items in your list. I recognized the other employees situation which is why I don't have any communication with her at the workplace at this point. surely I could have included more of these details but the initial posting was already seeming quite lengthy. I do appreciate your feedback.
Yeah it seems a bit creepy and I guess pretty sad too somehow. I think partly its his language 'hella naked chicks' makes him sound like a big baby. I don't think most men talk like this. The ones I know certainly don't. Might comment on it but texting a friend about it seems a bit weird. What a fuck up that he sent it to you as well haha.
Up to you how to deal with it. You're allowed to be upset about it. Sounds like he's downplaying it and saying you're overreacting instead of owning up to it which isn't great tbh.
It would bother me if my partner didn't trust me enough to tell me the truth about something, it would also annoy me if my partner was unilaterally making decisions about our child that goes against what we discussed, and was unwilling to even discuss it with me.
I don’t really know if he’d know why. He can be very oblivious when it comes to social relationships (this is part of my frustration that leads me to cut ties). If it were me I would connect the dots, but it’s as if the moment a disagreement is “resolved” it ceases to exist, whereas for me they pile up and at a certain point a relationship becomes untenable.
I know what you mean about a general statement and I wouldn’t mind saying it if I knew he would take it as is instead of an invitation to ask 20 questions. He is a “needler” and asks for details almost obsessively. Im afraid giving him a bit of the truth will lead to a situation where I feel provoked to be cruel. I know that’s on me and perhaps this is just a lose lose situation.
OK so here's the update after a week or so;
I am no less confused about why she ghosted me, a few days ago she removed me from her followers on Instagram so I guess you were right about her not really liking me all along. But she opened my messages yesterday, and she still follows me? So more than anything else I'm just confused. I really don't understand why someone would go through all the effort of going on not one, but two dates, and then agreeing to a third if she really just wasn't into me. Why go through all that? Why blatantly lie and put me through all that? And why not just break the news to me like a human instead of just never speaking to me again? I really couldn't say and at this point I am not sad anymore I'm just really angry, because that's such an unnecessary and mean thing to do! I would've wanted to be friends with her too, if she did break it off instead of just leaving me hanging with no warning. I had known her for more than a year before we dated so I really can't fathom why she would treat me like that.
Oh well, I guess there's nothing more to do for me except move on from her with a bad taste in my mouth. Thank you for all your advice!
She wasn’t your girlfriend, you knew her for a week. For fucks sake, you ruined the relationship before it even started.
does anyone have any advice for dating someone when they are really stupid?
Yes – I'd tell your girlfriend to break up with you.
I would just from her reaction alone. I don't think its ok for other people to hear about a private matter but I understand why she's doing it.
Break up, go to therapy.
He had sex before you. Fact of life. Nothing to be hurt about. If you didn’t want that you should have waited for a fellow virgin. You didn’t do that. Time to accept your decisions.
Tell him what you told us
Bro, you really need to outline how much kids matter to you.
You weren't kidding, and you weren't “being mean”. Those are feelings you really hold and you need to process them.
If your SO doesn't want kids, it is most likely she won't change her mind. It is also that having kids is very unfortunately something that impacts women exponentially more than men. It is HER body that will be changing- most likely forever. From major life altering issues like Hips being displaced/pelvic floor prolapsing, and her walk/exercise being impacted, to small like a c-section scar. She'll literally bear the physical consequences for each child she has.
Most women statistically also do the majority of mental load housework, childcare and childrearing. Women statistically give up their careers as well as their traveling ideas.
If she's worried about any of the above, what are YOU doing to reassure her, op?
IF that doesn't apply to her, and she just doesn't want kids, then you're out of luck.
What are you willing to give up for raising kids and helping her heal from childbirth if she “changes her mind”?
So many posts on here lately about couples dating for years, engaged, married, without being on the same page 100% about having a family. Blows my fucking mind.
Probably because he has a large penis and she is using that as the basis of his nickname.
You did nothing wrong. People can be arseholes. She’s being one, sorry. I’m 46 yrs old and now on-line a life not allowing a partner to treat me like an arsehole when it’s unwarranted. When they do, well they find themselves back in the dating pool. Again, you did nothing wrong. Her actions are selfish and ungrateful. Sorry bud but unless she apologises and means it I know what I’d be doing.
Let it go Do you
I guess I want to hang on because those feelings of wanting to date others went away. I haven't had them for a year. I'm thinking maybe I have just been causing him pain with my fears including the past ones.
You need to stop listening to anything she says. What she says and does are not based on reality or what's best for anyone but herself. She will say anything to convince you that you should stay in this awful situation. She will do anything she can to make you feel like you're being a stupid, hateful, terrible person by leaving (even though she says you treat her so badly!). You need to ignore her.
It’s actually insane that your partner is dating someone an entire decade younger than them, then accused YOU of being a pedophile. She’s protecting.
Are you me? It's been two years since i broke up with her.. Yet.. I think about her almost every hour of the day. Getting with my new girlfriend since has helped the healing process, but no matter what I do, I can't help but dream and think about my ex to the point that I wake up feeling like “shit.. Do I still love her this much?”
Time heals but this one will take forever. It sounds like you were in love too. Try to focus on your current life and the old one will fade in time. Personally when I remembered her last year, it hurt inside, but now I just smile at the memories when they float by.
That’s how I read it too
YES! Be an adult and take care of yourself first. Don’t demand your bf take care of you.
…are you sure I'm not?
Thank you, I appreciate it lol I’ll have to think for awhile but I’m going to do my best. It’s a really scary thing tbh
Wild situation to end up in, only time I really saw ex's is when they came to visit my dad's funeral which was a very odd line up of introducing them all to my wife and kids ? I can't imagine inviting any of them to my wedding.
That was my first instinct too. Pay back is a bitch. However, (and this is where I struggle) if she was charged and put in jail I would be taking my children’s Mom away from them and I couldn’t do that without it hurting my soul. She may be a miserable person who showed her true colors after 14 years, but how would it affect my children! They are the most important in my life now that we split. As much as I want to see or make her struggle there has to be a different way.
Make a speech? Is that a thing there? Husbands arent required to do that here.
Dump him.
I get why you feel the way you do OP. But you need to let your friend pursue this other girl.
You guys have been talking since november and playing games instead of just talking to each other.
From your post, you did drunkenly tell him how you felt. He asked for clarification when you were sober. You clarified. He asked you why you would tell him that. He did not reciprocate those feelings. It sounds like he seemed confused and uninterested.
This other young lady is not you. She's a different person, and whatever they have between them is nothing like what you thought you had with him. She may like similiar things or behave in a similiar way sometimes, but those similarities do not mean he secretly likes you. He likes her. She's valid. The length of time they've talked doesn't matter. They like each other and that's for them to navigate on their own.
He's telling you about this other person because he's letting you know he's shut the door on your flirting/romantic interests. He's letting you know he feels for someone else. It doesn't matter if he used to flirt with you or if you two talked longer. You guys spent months in a state of “haha just kidding….unless?” and nothing came from it. He confessed, you rebuffed. You confessed, he rebuffed. You guys spent all that time giving each other mixed signals and ultimately letting everything fizzle out. He's not wrong for moving on from a situation that was rocky and uncertain.
I know it doesn't feel great. I don't want you to feel ganged up on or like your feelings don't matter. Your feelings are valid. But you can't call dibs on a human being. That's not how it works. If you spend all of your time waiting for the other person to be a mind reader, you'll always end up feeling let down. It's great you finally told him to an extent, but that's not a conversation you have when drunk. When you clarified, he was pretty clear that he wasn't interested anymore. If he wanted something more with you, he wouldn't be giving his time to someone else.
Be happy for your friend, even if it sucks. Don't talk poorly of this other person, don't compare yourself to her (even if that's easier said than done), don't wallow in what ifs and maybes. Chalk it up to a lesson learned and maybe in the future if you're both single and still feel the same you can broach the subject again. For now, I think it's best you let this one go and try to move on. Sometimes things just don't work out. This is one of those things.
He then says that he wants to breakup and I find it ridiculous that the relationship is going to end over something so small when we were doing good.
Were you actually doing good? Sounds like two back to back fights over nothing. He sounds like an ungrateful idiot. Regardless of the quality of the new headset, he should at least acknowledge the gesture. Either way, doesn't sound like a great thing going on here between you two.
Look big dog block her everywhere go no contact it’s the best for you. Also for you and everyone else let’s stop being willfully obtuse about the situation. They recently broke up after years of being together she slept with a dude he’s been wary of for a while and its the same dude she assured him wasn’t an issue. She definitely gaslit the fuck outta him bout it. It is what it is, but naked damn stop giving the same generic ass comments asking this young man not to be hurt. He’s human. Again tho dude seriously gonna contact block etc she doesn’t exist to you anymore.
I wonder if he is starting to have dimentia or Alzheimers.
Changed behaviour at his age is usually a sign of something like that.
The gravity of doing something like looking at engagement rings probably spurred her to make this decision, because she was nearing the “point of no return”, so to speak.