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You're dealing with some residual trauma from a previous relationship. It's not you being insecure, you're just working through some very serious shit.
I had some hang ups about texting and I brought it up with my partner maybe 2 months in.
I get your point. It was a very heated discussion. I'm still on the fence though.
Ohh did I tell that my partner threw all the nice memories from our engagement weekend in the dirt by shouting- “take the ring back. No I'm not joking, I don't want a partner who doesn't let me have an opinion.”
Like ouch, way to go! ??
My partner did apologise after that but this “right of opinion crap” has been the center of many arguments in the past too.
Yeah, I think I will ask my boss to separate our schedules best as possible. I will have to work them occasionally though. And yes, she's very petty, however I would like to think she isn't doing any of this out pf pettyness.
Honestly does she have social media? Any posts with friends or family? Find a way, some way, to reach to to someone and tell them she’s threatening to end her life, and then leave her.
I’ve been in this situation before and it’s incredibly difficult to leave, but finally I found a way to tell his mom what he was saying he would do to himself if I left, and once I told someone I felt I could finally leave.
You can also call the police, I believe, and tell them you know someone who you are concerned will end their life. The police can often intervene (depending where you live!) and inform the family, take other steps, etc.
You are working loads of hours, you have a newborn baby and you have an ex-fiancé who is being high maintenance and gunning for a fight. She may have PND but that does not excuse her behaviour.
She is just gunning for you and I do not think at this point in time, that anything you do will be right, in her eyes.
You’ve apologised. Give her space and just help with childcare and household stuff. Do this for the time being.
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But even how you wrote this, you are still jealous and untrusting. What are you trying to fix? You or the relationship? Because those are different things. You went wild? How? Screaming? name calling? You need to be fixed.
thank you so much, this really helps and I'll definitely give it my best shot! i struggle with getting my thoughts and feeling into words but you've explained them in such a way that makes it really easy to convey and understand! I really appreciate the advice
It sounds like he is manipulating you. He does it when he messes up because he has an unhealthy relationship with alcohol. His crying and begging to him now puts you as the AH if you don’t forgive him in his mind. It’s his way to move his indiscretions on to you vs accepting his mistake and changing his behavior.
This time you didn’t fall for it- you said enough is enough and I’m not the only one seeing your behavior. Seeing his original way to control you isn’t working, he’s trying something else.
Call for a welfare check and leave it at that. He most likely didn’t do anything and blocked you to make you worry so again, you feel guilty and now he’s controlling the narrative by making himself a victim.
You don’t need someone like this in your life, and your life gets much easier when you go no contact with people like this.
I would do it, but I would progresively start paying more attention during sex and daytime to the friend than to the wife, slowly show her how her stupidity ruined the marriage and how she became expendable.
Experts recommend at least a year before moving in with someone with kids. It takes a long time to get to really know someone, and to know if your relationship is likely to last (as you're seeing now). It's not fair to the kid to allow them to get attached to someone who might not be around long.
Would his mother consider trading with your boyfriend so that he owns the house and she lives in an apartment, in exchange for living with his brother?
You're dealing with some residual trauma from a previous relationship. It's not you being insecure, you're just working through some very serious shit.
I had some hang ups about texting and I brought it up with my partner maybe 2 months in.
Oh you should definitely tell her. Just let her down easy.
he cheated and he lied. that is a fact.
he loves you ? possible, but it doesn't suffice. YOU doesn't suffice him.
I get your point. It was a very heated discussion. I'm still on the fence though.
Ohh did I tell that my partner threw all the nice memories from our engagement weekend in the dirt by shouting- “take the ring back. No I'm not joking, I don't want a partner who doesn't let me have an opinion.”
Like ouch, way to go! ??
My partner did apologise after that but this “right of opinion crap” has been the center of many arguments in the past too.
Do you guys remember the post about the girl who made fun of her boyfriend for being a rapper live!?
What if this was her??
I asked and she said she doesn't have it (spent it). I asked what did she spent it on, and she said she spent it to buy stuff for our son.
Point is: Once money is gone, you cannot take it from an unwilling person such as your partner – they will always cook up excuses.
Yeah, I think I will ask my boss to separate our schedules best as possible. I will have to work them occasionally though. And yes, she's very petty, however I would like to think she isn't doing any of this out pf pettyness.
Honestly does she have social media? Any posts with friends or family? Find a way, some way, to reach to to someone and tell them she’s threatening to end her life, and then leave her.
I’ve been in this situation before and it’s incredibly difficult to leave, but finally I found a way to tell his mom what he was saying he would do to himself if I left, and once I told someone I felt I could finally leave.
You can also call the police, I believe, and tell them you know someone who you are concerned will end their life. The police can often intervene (depending where you live!) and inform the family, take other steps, etc.
I just feel exhausted for you, reading all that.
You are working loads of hours, you have a newborn baby and you have an ex-fiancé who is being high maintenance and gunning for a fight. She may have PND but that does not excuse her behaviour.
She is just gunning for you and I do not think at this point in time, that anything you do will be right, in her eyes.
You’ve apologised. Give her space and just help with childcare and household stuff. Do this for the time being.
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That is a red flag doesn’t mean Op still isn’t crazy
But even how you wrote this, you are still jealous and untrusting. What are you trying to fix? You or the relationship? Because those are different things. You went wild? How? Screaming? name calling? You need to be fixed.
thank you so much, this really helps and I'll definitely give it my best shot! i struggle with getting my thoughts and feeling into words but you've explained them in such a way that makes it really easy to convey and understand! I really appreciate the advice
Are you assuming my babies pronouns!?!?
It sounds like he is manipulating you. He does it when he messes up because he has an unhealthy relationship with alcohol. His crying and begging to him now puts you as the AH if you don’t forgive him in his mind. It’s his way to move his indiscretions on to you vs accepting his mistake and changing his behavior.
This time you didn’t fall for it- you said enough is enough and I’m not the only one seeing your behavior. Seeing his original way to control you isn’t working, he’s trying something else.
Call for a welfare check and leave it at that. He most likely didn’t do anything and blocked you to make you worry so again, you feel guilty and now he’s controlling the narrative by making himself a victim.
You don’t need someone like this in your life, and your life gets much easier when you go no contact with people like this.
You're literally 34. Grow up and have some decency.
I would do it, but I would progresively start paying more attention during sex and daytime to the friend than to the wife, slowly show her how her stupidity ruined the marriage and how she became expendable.
Yes. I try to help where I can. Obviously I don’t just atm money to people because where do you stop.
This is a husband issue. Not a you issue. Kick him in the balls every 4-6 hours for the next week or two so he doesn’t feel left out poor baby. Ugh
true, hope he finds better
Experts recommend at least a year before moving in with someone with kids. It takes a long time to get to really know someone, and to know if your relationship is likely to last (as you're seeing now). It's not fair to the kid to allow them to get attached to someone who might not be around long.
Would his mother consider trading with your boyfriend so that he owns the house and she lives in an apartment, in exchange for living with his brother?
If she did this, how would you feel about it?