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Ok, more direct approach. Her feelings about him telling her no to sex are not more important than his feelings in the actual saying no.
Take the crying completely out of it. This is one partner using every manipulation at their disposal to try to shame their partner into sex. If you don't see the issue there I don't know how else to broach the topic.
She’s not 18 lol he just deleted a post about wanting to date a 17 years old
Thanks very much. I imagine this kind of advice on this sub is quite rare, but you seem to understand the nature of how I'm feeling. Thank you
There is nothing to feel guilty about. Time is limited and priceless and he was wasting your time and not valuing it. Waiting and waiting and waiting is actual a very valid reason to break it off and fair. You have your own life and limited time. Someone who doesn't respect that and takes it for granted will make anyone feel upset. One of the things a lot of people take granted is other people's time. You can never get it back and it can never be made up.
I kind of figured, it’s just naked for me because my boyfriend and I really want to move forward with things like get married and have kids and I would like my mom to be apart of it but with the way she’s acting it’s starting to feel like it won’t be that way… my oldest brother doesn’t even talk to her anymore, he cut her off about 9 years ago. I’m really trying to prevent that type of situation.
Sadly I think you are correct.
She did bring up concerns with me when I started this relationship. As my partner works FIFO I was driving him to the airport twice a week. I also agreed to take on and look after his gorgeous Labrador while he is working away. My mum thought he was taking advantage of me. Which I never felt in my relationship. I can see why she may have some concerns though, but I did address these with her.
are you stupid
You don’t have to open the door to uninvited guests
Thank you for the advice, tbh that's not really my speed so you're probably right, It's probably best to date someone else then.
You two don't seem to communicate that well. Working together moving towards marriage is great, but that's not what he's doing. He's letting you know that he's keeping you at arms distance until you perfect yourself, which is bizarre, since he also talks about you getting pregnant.
I'd back way off this relationship until we had a dozen more conversations about our relationship and each of our expectations for the future.
And for God's sake, don't get pregnant!!
How do you tell if someone is genuinely remorseful or just remorseful about getting caught? Legit curious what to look for
Yup.
“My life is so naked now that I made terrible selfish decisions that led to a totally predictable outcome! Please feel bad for me!”
Well the arrangement was inherently risky, relying on one income is naked when the work is casual in nature and with cost of living what it is. Part of the planning needs to be around what would happen if he lost a job etc. but also, sounds like he hasn’t found a job that he is happy doing (I get the feeling he hates that point system, does he hate warehousing too? I know other stuff might not be available but the sheer soul crushing-ness of doing something you hate for years on end is real. People say the end justifies the means but what if the means destroys your mental health before you can even get to the end?) and I don’t know how long your school is, but it’s really really nude to make sacrifices for years to be the sole breadwinner, especially with all the added stress of the pandemic. Especially if things are coming to a head in such a way that he thinks you might walk before he ever gets his turn to go to school, maybe he has lost motivation for the plan that you both made. I’m sorry if all this sounds mean but where I on-line it’s just not possible to have an arrangement like you guys have when the work is casual, it’s just too risky and usually ends up exactly where you are, taking payday loans or using credit. Cost of living is simply too high, wages are simply too low. People in general fluctuate in their health and motivation and desires. I think what I’m getting at here is, maybe the ‘problem’ is not him or you but actually that the arrangement you made is really idealistic in the current state of things. Not everyone can hold down a full time job and that’s not actually a flaw per se, just an incompatibility with the society we have. Full time work is damaging for many people and it’s not a personal failing to not be able to conform to that. So taking on financial responsibility for two people if he feels like that was probably not a good move on his part. But Instead of getting frustrated with each other, get frustrated with a society that doesn’t allow for single income households anymore. I would probably think to have a talk with him about whether he is still happy with the arrangement you made. If he says he is then he needs to be responsible about pulling his end of the bargain. Even if he does hate it sometimes because life is not a cruise either. But make sure that the bargain itself is realistically possible otherwise you’re setting yourselves up to fail.
Unless you're ok with sharing her, it's over.
This is a really good explanation. The stuff I look at on porn site bares no relationship to what I do irl. I mean nothing close! I'm not into anything multiple partner irl but like it in porn. Weird but true. And yes I've been offered but turned it down. I'm a me and my hubby kinda woman and even before I was married was no different. I bet OPs bf would be horrified her mind has gone there but as a good mum you unfortunately have to think the worst to protect your kids. He possibly stopped last year as he thought how it could be perceived and didn't want that. Just a thought. I think a simple, non confrontational conversation would be an idea just to clarify the matter would be a good idea though.
Once it's over he doesn't speak of what happened. Only when it happens again he says “we can't do this every time”. I try to explain that it's coming from him so if he doesn't want it he needs to stop reacting that way. But that doesn't work either.
I also tried asking him if this is maybe about his mom but no response.
That's a lot of words to say you still can't explain why it's wrong.
Thank you i have the same thought, if you’re lucky enough to have someone doing your washing then at least do your bit by making sure pockets are clear otherwise it’s just lazy
You're a tool, sorry if that's harsh, but she has you wrapped around her finger. Look at your dumbass consoling her when she is the one when wronged you. Break up with her and block her
She was a bad friend and bad girlfriend and you fucking sucked here. Making out with a girl who's taken. Grow up. Don't go back, move on and do better and find better people.
Honey leave. He is being abusive. He is purposely trying to isolate you. He already isolated you from your friends and family. He made sure you didn’t finish your degree and made sure you missed all of those opportunities. Now he is trying to get you fired from work so you will be completely dependent on him and then lower your self esteem by making you feel like it’s your fault you got fired. You don’t feel like he is suffocating you he is doing it. The only thing your doing wrong is that your not leaving him. But he is a horrible husband and person. If he is this controlling with you imagine what’s going to happen if you have kids with him?
It's really only this one thing that's not compatible and it's because of the distance – it's why I don't do LDR but his trip was arranged before I met him.
I will definitely keep it in mind as time goes and see if it does get worse.
I honestly don't mind him not being a big texter when he's home because I'm not a big texter. We just see each other often (usually weekends). But since we can't just hang out, it's our only communication. I'd be happy if he just asks for a call every now and then instead of leaving it on me. But it's awkward being on facetime and nobody is talking and when I ask questions he doesn't say much
So he knew it was so wrong that he believed you would break up with him if you ever knew, and yet he did it anyway and kept doing it. Doesn't sound like he value the relationship much or respects you as a person really.
Easy. Stop bragging to your boyfriend every time someone hits on you. Problem solved.
Her story sounds right. Honestly I see no rrason for suspicions here.
I’m all up for “insulting” pet names, especially if it’s an inside joke. Hell, “you’re a piece of shit and I can prove it mathematically” or different pejorative adjectives flying about to the rhythm of David Bowie’s “Rebel Rebel” is a daily occurrence. It’s fine if people find it weird, we laugh about it but I’ll admit it’s easy to cross the line. Which is where your story ties into mine. The moment one of us doesn’t like the tone of voice of the “insult” or it’s just too much, it’s fine to say “heyy!” and it’s followed by an immediate apology. That’s how we both know that the joke just went to far which, honestly, is to be expected when inspired by Ted Lasso you just yell “oi wanker, want breakfast?” and consider it cute af. Bellend? My favorite word in the world!
Your bf says he’s joking but he’s not. He does consider you all the things he calls you and continues to belittle you. He gets off on your pleas to treat you better. He enjoys your tears and suffering. No amount of explaining will get him to “understand” your point of view because I can reassure you he understands it. He just enjoys where you’re at. He is an abusive jerk and you need to get as far away from him as possible, as quickly as possible.
Take this from me. I know dark humor and deprecating jokes. I on-line this everyday and I enjoy it. But when it’s really meant as a joke, one look is enough to communicate that it has gone too far. Get away from your abuser and under no circumstances suggest couples therapy with him.
I had a friend that I had known since middle school and our friendship ended similarly, except she was being abused as well as cheated on. Eventually I brought this up to her privately and told her I’d support her through whatever she needed. She’d have a safe place to stay with me etc.
The next day she told her boyfriend and he doxxed me on Reddit and tried to convince people to send me disturbing pictures (beheadings, violence against animals, that sort of thing) for being a “feminazi”. Someone on Reddit was kind enough to message me to tell me I had been doxxed and luckily no one actually sent me any photos or did anything bad to me. I went to the friend and she confirmed that she knew it was him and she was sorry that happened to me, but she wasn’t going to leave him and thought it would be best if we didn’t talk anymore.
Six YEARS later they finally broke up and she reached back out to offer her sincere apologies that she put me through that because she wasn’t ready to hear it or do anything about it. She went on to publicly detail the abuse she had been going through in the past ten odd years. I feel bad for her but we still do not talk because I just can’t trust her to be there for me like I was there for her.
UMMMM, your partner’s decisions is what has wreaked havoc on many. And your decision to partner up with this guy who is a known cheater is causing you the stress now. Not her.
It's not expected on either side to give lavish gifts. It is nice to reciprocate when you can.
You're not doing anything wrong, but, it's not a gift competition. I'm sure he appreciates anything you get him for his birthday but you don't have to match the amount that he gave you. He chose to spoil you and it's really nice you want to spoil him back, but if you have to work an extra job just to afford to do that, it's not good for you in the long run. You can't spend your lives trying to one up each other in gifts.
I 100% get it though. I love to spoil my husband when I can, and he spoils me when he can. It's a nice feeling to be able to give someone gifts they really want and to see their faces when the gifts get opened. Just, don't wear yourself out in the process
She is controlling too. I'm not saying he isn't wrong, but her way of dealing with things is also wrong, as I said don't be in the relationship and deal with it.