Breaking up with my (22F) bf (24M) over his political views

My boyfriend and am have been together for over two years. He has always had some pretty conservative views, but lately I feel like they' ve taken a change for the worse. Myself, I sit somewhere in the middle of the particular political spectrum, I consider some policies on both sides, but both sides may take it too far sometimes imo.

Lately, my bf has been making nonstop humor making fun of liberals. He constantly pesters myself about people being able to recognize as whatever they like and how he doesn' t want his children raised like this. He keeps sending me videos of people stating " I identify because correct" to win an argument (I guess as some kind of satire). He repeatedly introduces the case of someone being fired for addressing someone by the wrong pronouns (without recognizing that it wasn' t a car accident, but repeated harassment). My very own views here aren' capital t the ones in question, but I simply feel we should all try out our best to be accepting of everybody. People choosing to use they/them pronouns doesn' t impact me negatively, I will normally try my best to become accommodating.

We discussed moving to the US later on (we' re in Canada) and I told him I actually wouldn' t want to live! in a state where child killingilligal baby killing is outlawed because We don' t support those states. He said individuals are the states with 0 income tax so that' h where he wants to be and am shouldn' t let my personal feelings get in the way.

Recently we had a disagreement about something entirely on a different topic when I let him know I wasn' t happy with something, and his response had been, " and I think my taxes money shouldn' t be provided for guys to cut their own dicks off but that' s life". To be honest this infuriated me.

I simply don' t know if this is the kind of person I wish to be with anymore. It feels strange to throw out a good otherwise happy and healthy relationship over something like this, but I can' big t stand the level of absolutely bigoted views he has adopted recently. He is otherwise a kind plus compassionate person, he has also never shown any signs of racism, homophobia, or anything similar, and he is not a religious person either therefore i know it' s not coming from that. Just these few topics for the past couple of months. I always shut it lower when he starts up yet I just don' t understand what to do anymore. Reddit, please help me on if this will be the right decision.

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