I’m (33F) on vacation with my husband (32M). He ruins every vacation…

I’m (33F) currently on vacation with my husband (32M) in Istanbul since Tuesday. For the past few days, he’s been saying he wants to go home to play EA Sports FC and he just wants to stay in the hotel room all day. He said there’s nothing to do here except see buildings, but then whines that we’ve been sight seeing everyday. I suggested some places to checkout. Today is our last full day in Istanbul and he’s been spending it all day in the hotel. He didn’t even go out to have lunch. When I told him I was hungry and suggested let’s go have lunch, he whines that I don’t understand him.

He argues that I’m not being flexible with him, but I came here to sight see and all he wants to do now is be on his phone in bed. I also work remotely, so some days during the “vacation” I’ve been working and today is 1 of my free full days. I’ve been out without him to get food and coffee today, and reflecting about our past vacations. He has done this same stint towards the end of every single vacation we’ve had (Mexico, France, and Spain). So should I just suggest that I vacation solo from now on? It doesn’t become enjoyable anymore with the same repetitive cycle.

EDIT: just a note that I was the one who paid for the vacation.

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