My ( 38F ) partner ( 34M )of 3 years doesn’t let me use his phone or laptop. Items came to a head and am snooped.

He' t never let me use their phone or laptop through the relationship, but I never particularly cared. I have my own. Things changed this past 7 days though.

We' ve been housesitting together in an area that has no cell service. The other day I' d neglected my phone at my location, so I had no way to make contact with anyone. I asked your pet if I could use his mobile phone to sign into messenger and quickly send a message to a friend of my own who I was meeting afterwards. He was sitting over the couch opposite me making use of his phone and he informs me that I can use the laptop computer in the office. Thos laptop belongs to the owner of the house. I' deb already explored that choice and told my boyfriend there was a password onto it. He then said he' deb find his old ipad tablet and I could use that. WHILE HOLDING HOS PHONE 2 FEET AWAY FROM ME! I actually let that go.

Yesterday evening, I pointed at his laptop and said that I' d like to print a number of things. He immediately informed me that I should use the laptop in the office. I again told him that it was password shielded. He says, " I can body the password out. " I again left it alone. Later, he calls the homeowner in PANAMA AND NICARAGUA , where they' re on a break to get the password for their laptop computer….. while his laptop sitting right there on the table. I informed him that the situation was really fucked up and went to bed.

This morning I chose to take my things and go back to my place to consider things. He was at the office. I was packing my some misconception and grabbed a grocery store bag that I thought experienced my books in it. It didn' t: it had a small laptop and a few collapsed pages of paper. I actually pulled out the paper and it also was a list of his passwords.

I sat and considered this for three hours plus whether I should/would snoop. I finally did considering the past week. One of the security passwords opened the laptop and…. there was nothing nefarious on it. Opened his two emails… nothing. Facebook…. nothing.

The reason why was he so insistent on keeping these things private? Obviously, I need to leave your pet because I totally violated his privacy… but exactly why wouldn' t he just let me use the stupid notebook or phone?