Our (24F) best friend (24F) called me a ped*phile. How can all of us still be friends after?
My best friend and I have known each other since we were 9 and have been attached at the hip ever since. We’ve consistently said we’re like sisters that just met afterwards. We’ve had a fair reveal of fights, but we’ve always found each other by the end. However I don’t know whenever we can come back from this. Here is what happened:
A week ago I was at her and her fiancé’s (29M) apartment and we had been hanging out having a good time. The discussion changed to what celebrities all of us found cute and then we might agree or disagree plus laugh about it. She after that took her phone out there, showed me a TikTok plus went “Okay this guy is definitely popular right now, what about your pet? ” I went “He’s hot, but not my type” and her jaw dropped and said he had been 10/10 to her. We were laughing about it until she stated his age in his biography. She looked at me and said “Since when had been you a ped*phile? He’s just 20” before I could reply she continued with “You would never date a guy young than us, right? ” I was really taken aback the situation and said “I mean right now I don’t wish to date anyone. But ultimately yeah I would be cofortable with dating a guy younger compared to me, but within reason like maybe a few years like older than me” she appeared me up and down and proceeded to go “That’s disgusting. ” I used to be flustered and feeling harm so I replied back “You know what? Keep that exact same energy with Matt after that. When you guys started relationship you JUST turned 18 and he was 23” she ceased and said “Get away. ”
I left feeling, upset, embarrassed, and angry. It feels like she was the one taken aback by this tiktokers age group and turned it upon me. I’ve never seen her this out of personality and she hasn’t spoken to me since. I’ve texted and called and it’s quiet. Am I not viewing something? Is there any way in order to salvage our friendship? Really dont want to lose her, yet I am really hurt she’d talk to me like this.
TL; DR My best friend called me a ped*phile after I (24) believed a tiktoker (20) had been attractive. She is no longer speaking with me.
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