Our girlfriend (23F) can’t grasp the fact that I (24M) can not afford to keep going out.

I’ve talked with the girl multiple times on how we need to attempt to have more at-home dates. Items that would help me get back on my feet after needing to spend a lot of money on several personal stuff. Every time we hang out, she proceeds to ask to get food (even though it’s just quick food), wants to go to the shops, grab snacks, or head out for treats. I maintain saying how I can’t be spending money on things like this particular since I have to pay off personal stuff along with my vehicle payments, insurance, rent, phones, and school. I love her to death and she’s an amazing girl. I just dislike how she keeps telling hang out and proceeds to request things like that. I feel like she isn’t taking me serious when I talk to her about it. I’ve had really bad stress and depression because of how broke I am and she’s aware yet doesn’t listen. I have no clue how many times I gotta keep telling her when this keeps up Dont really want to resort to breaking up just to save my money.

Modify: thanks to all of you for your words I appreciate everyone’s point of view and thoughts. Just make sure you stop dming me feedback about women needing to be dominated and that they’re just about all meant to be disciplined. I was right here just to get opinions not to pay attention to your rants about exactly why women don’t deserve something ?

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