Sweetheart is spending Christmas with baby daddy

I' ve been dating a lady for 3 months and she has a kid 2 years old. She claims she hates the newborn daddy and that he' s always been a dead beat. And would barely watch the kid

As of recently he found out about and plus suddenly he' s been asking to see the kid more gave her money for the kid first time. He FaceTimes frequently to talk to the 2 yr old kid that doesn' to talk. The other day they were FaceTiming and she went to the basements and talked for over an hour until I got up and left.

He was supposed to take him Christmas evening for a couple times and me and my girlfriend were supposed to go on a trip outta the city for that night. But he said he' s not taking him when he discovered our plans. Next couple days she told me he asked if he can come over Christmas and sleep over Christmas Eve to see the kid open his gifts that will she got for the son. She asked me and am said im not alright with jt, she informed me next day he' s simply going to come over for the early morning, which I said I wasn' t on with furthermore. And asked if the girl wanted to spend new many years together but me and her already are

I' ve told her and indicated that I don' t think it' s ok. The lady says I wish you' d trust me. It' t not that I do capital t trust her I think the disrespectful and outta collection. I don' t try to stop the dad through seeing his son. Yet don' t want the girlfriend and him talking