So tell your bro and his girl to stay the fuck out of your relationship because at the end of the day… as long as YOU know who she is and what she’s done, then that’s all that matters. If they don’t like her then don’t spend as much time with them. I hate controlling behavior. Who are they to tell you she’s not good enough? Protect your peace and if you’re with your girl, keep it private. Too many mouths involved in things that have nothing to do with them
I'm happy for you that he's given you another chance.
Can I give you some life advice?
Get on top of your time management. It will assist in every area of your life, and bad time management can affect all areas of your life negatively. It's so beneficial.
It sounds like your boyfriend is using your eating disorder as a springboard from which he can abuse and control you. It's not healthy what he is doing to you- regardless of one person's vices, it's not justification for abuse- unfortunately, many abusers think it is.
I think you should really get serious about leaving him. Things will always “get better” but only temporarily. It shouldn't get this bad to begin with. Not in a healthy relationship.
I don't think you both want the same things in a relationship. And this particular thing, it seems, is getting close to, if not already, a deal breaker. Going back and forth trying to convince each other that the other person is “wrong” is not going to resolve this. Neither of you can compromise on your boundary over this issue. It's okay to chalk it up to incompatibility and move on. Especially since this doesn't sound healthy for the either of you, and both of you have felt like you've done everything you can/are willing to do.
she replied “I want to” and you also said “I know my GF would never cheat on me “
Are you sure about that, man?
So tell your bro and his girl to stay the fuck out of your relationship because at the end of the day… as long as YOU know who she is and what she’s done, then that’s all that matters. If they don’t like her then don’t spend as much time with them. I hate controlling behavior. Who are they to tell you she’s not good enough? Protect your peace and if you’re with your girl, keep it private. Too many mouths involved in things that have nothing to do with them
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During our dates. No really.
I'm happy for you that he's given you another chance.
Can I give you some life advice?
Get on top of your time management. It will assist in every area of your life, and bad time management can affect all areas of your life negatively. It's so beneficial.
Speak to a divorce lawyer and get the ball rolling.
It sounds like your boyfriend is using your eating disorder as a springboard from which he can abuse and control you. It's not healthy what he is doing to you- regardless of one person's vices, it's not justification for abuse- unfortunately, many abusers think it is.
I think you should really get serious about leaving him. Things will always “get better” but only temporarily. It shouldn't get this bad to begin with. Not in a healthy relationship.
He might be testing the waters.
If you don't divorce him you'll have failed your daughter tbh.
What an awful person she sounds like. You need to break up with her, this is disgusting ABUSIVE behaviour.
I don't think you both want the same things in a relationship. And this particular thing, it seems, is getting close to, if not already, a deal breaker. Going back and forth trying to convince each other that the other person is “wrong” is not going to resolve this. Neither of you can compromise on your boundary over this issue. It's okay to chalk it up to incompatibility and move on. Especially since this doesn't sound healthy for the either of you, and both of you have felt like you've done everything you can/are willing to do.
Like I said, good on you for making sure she was safe.
Thing is her multiple lies occurred before she started drinking.
Find someone who upholds you and your values
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Can you honestly imagine having kids with this AH now? Run girl.