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  1. Is he in treatment? Being the other half of someone who is bi-polar is not something to take lightly. With treatment and therapy they have a good chance of a “normal “ life, without they will struggle through life some make it some do not. If YOU are considering a life with this person you need to educate yourself about this condition. Life in a bi-polar relationship can be very stressful and not everyone can be successful as a bi-polar person other half. You need to make a decision soon about IF YOU are willing and able to do the work that He will need. I spent 19 years trying to help my Bi-polar ex-wife. Don’t walk into this blind or thinking you can make him better ( you can’t) it takes prolong professional help to resolve the issues and on going professional help to keep them on track. And even if you do everything right, it can still fall apart.

  2. We both suffer from depression and mental illness but no I don't think she'd do something like this in sound mind. Its just a thought I had that I can't shake

  3. Put the energy back into yourself 🙂 independence and confidence are more attractive than a pretty face.

  4. Leave. This is one of those posts where commenters say leave and it's warranted. Do it quietly and when he's not around. Get what you need, get your daughter and disappear.

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  6. With the traveling example, it's not to do with convenience I just didn't want us to book train tickets for the trains to not go ahead due to strikes which are happening most weeks now so I suggested an alternative

    In the examples of her saying what she wishes would happen, she tends to start a conversation with “why cant … happen or why can't they do … etc” and I'll just answer the question pretty much. I'll say why it doesn't happen. I tend to agree with what she wants but I just point out reasons they don't happen. It's not about proving her wrong it's more about explaining things to her.

    There are other topics but off the top of my head I am struggling to think of specific examples.

  7. Truth sets you free. You don’t need to shout it from the rooftops but do not lie or sugarcoat it. It’d be better for everyone if they knew he hit you.

  8. Nobody works that much unless they feel forced/entrapped into it. I know you say you help out, but working that many hours is too much for anyone to handle. Your husband is going to get a heart attack or anueurysm at this rate from overwork!

    Why can't you work? It wouldn't surprise me at all if your husband wasn't turning down these excessive hours because he feels like he has no choice but to support you all with the salary he gets from it.

  9. I don’t think she’s not human. She’s just a human that’s taking full advantage of her enabler. You’re working 2 full time jobs to support a glorified piece of furniture. If the roles were reversed and it was a man sitting around doing nothing while his girlfriend worked 2 full time jobs it would be look at as a form of abusive. If it’s really a problem then stop enabling it.

  10. That makes a lot of sense actually! The pressure to define oneself. I've never considered it from that point of view…that a person can still feel pressure after coming out. I don't really have contact with LGBTQ people (I live! in a small country and LGBTQ people tend to be reluctant to come out publicly here) so I don't know much and the coming out thing is always portrayed in the media as pure relief for the person who's coming out. Thank you for taking time to reply to me. I learned something today.:)

  11. You may just be mimicking/recreating your mother and father's relationship. Very common. You're taking your mom's role and putting him in your dad's. What was your dad like? Your mother's constant criticism is normal to you. It's not normal to him, and perhaps to many of your past partners. If that isn't what he expects from a relationship, and it sounds like not from your description of his family of origin, it's going to cause strain.

    The possible trouble is that you may feel uncomfortable in any relationship where you can't criticize your partner. Your parent's dynamic is the baseline to you- you're supposed to nitpick, and he's supposed to get tired of it and leave, just like your parents. How many times has this approximately played out, as you've mentioned past partners complaining about it?

    My advice would be to see a therapist. This dynamic could be deep deep deep in your psyche and will take a lot of effort to address- the kind of long term self work it pays to have an expert to share the load and benefit from the expertise of. Good luck.

  12. Oh, I wholeheartedly agree about the “daddy issues”-term. I think it's victim blaming af. My dad traumatising me and it making me vulnerable to new predators is not on me… But idk. He never even had sex with me back then, and the touch we did share was fairly innocent. There was this crazy chemistry and we got along as we had so many shared interests, the same twisted sense of humour… And just clicked. I look younger now than I did then – addiction took it's toll on me and a couple of years clean did the trick.

    Neither of us has ever had a healthy relationship… He hadn't been clean for that long either when we met.

  13. I didn't say HE didn't sound clingy or immature or irrational.

    He should go do that.

    He should go to therapy for his obvious insecurities on this subject.

    I was merely stating a possibility.

  14. Really? So if it was a cheaper hotel, you would be fine with it? The cost makes it worse, but unless she has a threesome in mind, “can I bring a friend” completely changes it from a romantic trip to a friends trip, regardless of the cost. Five months into a relationship, that's not merely inconsiderate, it's a relationship-killing kind of selfishness that hints that she isn't that into you, but likes your money and the things it buys.

  15. And after you tell him this, tell your husband to mind his own marriage and keep his nose out of theirs.

  16. Consent can be withdrawn at any time, even partway through. However, I’d really not do this

  17. Okay? I'm not going on that trip to that place because a year ago she mistreated me, used me, and cheated on me and I'm not going to force myself to endure any more humiliation associated with that.

    Not just any trip with her friends, if they wanna go somewhere else I'm down as fuck. Hell, I'll drive.

    You must be forgetting, I'm forgiving her for being a terrible person in the past. She cheated, lied and manipulated me. In 2 years, I may be feeling better. I know it's not a permanent feeling. I just know right now I'm not going.

    I can forgive her but we still need to work on things. I might forgive her, but I still know have self worth.

    She accepted the rules of our new relationship and our boundaries. We both don't have to do this. She's free to do as she pleases.

  18. I have never in my life had unsend that many texts, def fishy….

    He said those were accidental texts sent when his phone unlocked while it was in his pocket.

    why didn't she replay w what's w all the weird messages? or something along those lines.

    trust your gut. also why act suspicious if nothing is going on?

  19. my job pays 9 (vag) to 12(C) weeks for maternity leave. Fathers get up to 9 weeks. You have to file FMLA/Short term disability. Short term will pay 70% and my company will pay you the remaining 30%. Ive Spoken to two mothers and 1 father coworkers, they said it was the easiest process they have done. Dr fills out the paper work and Hr approves it pretty quick. usually a 24 to 72 hour turn around. only thing is you have to be able to meet FMLA so at least 1 year employment

  20. Um. Maybe he's just not that attached to his phone, particularly during work.

    Him saying he was really busy when you suggested “hanging out”, and taking a little longer to reply to text messages does actually suggest that things had been ramping up at work.

    Why didn't you reach out and try to organise something during the week after, instead of ghosting him? Suggesting to “hang out” is not organising to do something, btw.

    Why would he tell you he's interested if he's not? Particularly after you ghosted him? How did you end up talking again after the break?

    Maybe he likes you, but he thinks you're a bit clingy, or he's trying to get to know you but not rush things. Maybe he just has a different idea about how often people need to text, when they're still just talking or seeing eachother, but haven't got to bf/gf yet?

    NGL, 3 or 4 texts a day would be my limit if I was working full time, especially if it was during a busy period. I don't even look at my phone when I'm working, unless I'm on a break.

    I think you should talk to him about it, but you do seem pretty insecure.

  21. LOL…! I’m NOT from a conservative background and am pretty sexually open, and the moment my partner starts glazing over telling me about how great some other dude’s dick was and how great he fucked her, that would be instaneous end of the relationship. Instadump.

  22. We decided it was best to stop the relationship as neither of us could change plans and norther wanted LDR.

    You both had plans to stop the relationship. They were clearly understood by both parties.

    Then you both had wishy-washy plans and “hypotheticals” about staying together. but never clarified that you weren't breaking up.

    Hell, she even asked you what you wanted on the way to the airport and you still didn't clarify that you want to stay together.

    So, it's reasonable to think you're broken up. Doesn't matter if you're dog-sitting or whatever- friends do that. Doesn't matter if you pined for her ever day for hours. Doesn't matter that you wouldn't have opened a dating app. You are not her. And you didn't want to stay in a committed relationship with her.

    Go ahead and feel bad if you want to. Or you could choose to feel good about the fact that even though you broke up with her that she didn't date anyone else. But regardless how you feel, you need to improve your communication with her and stop testing her.

  23. I think both of you should seek some therapy and both of you probably need to re-evaluate your relationship. It seems rather apparent that you have some insecurities that you're unable to work through, without trying to control his behaviours in order to make yourself feel better.

    Men masturbating is a healthy thing to do, and what we do while we masturbate is honestly none of anyone's business. My guess here is that he does know why he reads these comics, but because you are the way you are, he doesn't want to tell you those reasons, he also feels shameful about a perfectly normal act and when you caught him doing this, he downplays the extent of it in order to lesson the impact.

    You honestly have two options. Either don't control him and allow him to control what he does or doesn't do or end the relationship.

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