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Do you not see how concerning it is that your wife is literally picking the longest possible option and giving absolutely zero compromise here?
I don't understand this stuff at all, like marriage existed loooong before Christianity was invented. And the bible literally says you can beat your slave, just not to death or then you should also be punished. So why on earth if they do not follow these ridiculous things, do they follow the belief that they cannot celebrate you marrying someone of the same sex?
The bible barely even references same sex relationships, like 7 verses in total where it's glossed over. The only thing even getting in the way of this is purely that the bible calls marriage a union between a man and a woman… that's it. And there was a long period of history where women were basically children when they were married to much older men… and that was also fine and totally Christian at the time. Now it's not, thank god.
Marriage existed before Christianity, is in loads of other cultures and religions and not defined by that single one. Tell him you're not having a Christianity/biblical based marriage, you're having a legal one. Like the majority of the world's population who aren't Christian. Gender doesn't even matter, if you're not Christian, your marriage has absolutely nothing to do with Christianity.
I'm sorry your friend is basically being shit, I hope you can move passed it at some point and just celebrate with the people who don't care about this type of stuff, and that are also important in your life.
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^ shes also one sided they both agreed to cut off ppl they had a history with he cut off multiple ppl she kept this dude around and got defensive when asked bc she knew she broke the agreement and intentionally withheld info bc of it. Which also shows hes more important to her than what her and op have going on. I would bounce its only been 3-4 months its not to deep to just leave i always feel ppl like this never will have a serious relationship lol.
Sounds like you’re going to need to go through the process of adoption. Even if it may be difficult, I’m confident you can get it done
This doesn't shift the blame away from your husband by any means. But this was a calculative move by your friend.
No one has messages, even the same handset, from 2014. Do you have messages in your phone from 9 years ago?
She didn't tell you when this was happening, she didn't tell you – hey OP, the guy you're about to marry has been professing his love for me dont marry him. Wouldn't you have done that for your bestfriend?
I can bet at that time she was already in a happy relationship and that's why she didn't care much about you or your husband
She has always been the pretty friend who gets all the attention. Now she is divorced and her formally 'less pretty' friend (you, sorry) is happier and in a more stable relationship than her. She had yo come claim it.
I think you should discuss this with your husband, if you haven't already, that she came into your lives to ruin it and see what he says.
And OP, for the sake of your own sanity you need to kick this man out of your house and get some space. Atleast go to a lawyer's consultation to see what they say. You dont need to stay in this prison
No. You really don’t know them that well. Going to visit for brief spurts along with communicating is also not knowing them pretty well.
Don’t delude yourself. I say this as someone who has been in a similar situation. Take this slow. Take some time to be sure you and the kids are in a good place both mentally and physically/financially.
It’s nice to have a person who is totally in your side. One you can bear your soul to and only get positive feedback from. It’s euphoric and something to look forward to and you never feel alone.
Be realistic. There is a huge difference between chatting/texting and an actual in person relationship.
I’m not saying it can’t work or it’s bad. I totally am not. Just be aware and don’t let the good feelings blind you.
If you have a mental disorder that doesn’t mean you need to be stupid
This guy is a a fool dump him and get the man you deserve I honestly doubt you haven’t already thought of this
God I gotta remember when I have kids to warn them about old creeps like this. I'm so glad my mom taught me common sense.
Yep. Troll. Ewwww.
If people kill them selves over trauma all the time, IE images in there head from bad experiences how am I being dumb? My friend killed himself after the things we had done and seen fighting overseas. I'm thinking of the general aftermath of the situation. I gave a general rundown of my perspective, not the whole thing. We will both have to deal with the trauma after the event it's not one sided and it's not a competition. It's not anymore trauma for her as it is me or vice versa, it's the same trauma. It's a bad situation for both people and treating the trauma is not easy and i acknowledge that. Idk, maybe the army made me a mad man or something for being able to ask questions like this to anyone. We in the service have talked like this all the time but I'm learning that civilians are not ok with questions like this and I apologize for making anyone feel weird or mad or anything, that wasn't my intention. Just a yeah I would or na I wouldn't, but I understand everyone seeing be as dumb or unreasonable or unlikable or any other thing that could be said. Idk I'm just a guy on the internet with a dumb question.
Has he started watching anyone like Jordan Peterson or any of those other “self-help/pick-up/business gurus”? They’re all incredibly misogynistic and encourage abusive behaviors like “testing” your partner.
I can’t believe OP is even considering taking him back! Making someone cry because of a normal bodily function (& exposing it – who are these people??) just sounds cruel and unhinged. A boyfriend should stick by your side no matter what. It’s very concerning that your boyfriend didn’t even have your back. Either dump his stuff out or get yourself out asap. People are like their friends, & his friends are awful. Can you imagine them at your wedding someday? There are SO many more fish in the sea OP!
This response is kind of confusing. Of course men are allowed to have likes and dislikes, boundaries, and so on.
But she knew early on that he didn't like it. He presented it like being indifferent with a preference not to do it, though he didn't mind if it made her happy. He changed that to revealing he hates it. Personally, I would feel disgusting receiving a sex act that someone hated. I would also feel humiliated and betrayed, because I would have never let the guy do that if I knew he hated it — like it sounds like he actually has some disgust with it.
And it is also not true that he doesn't mind doing it to see her happy. This is a very vulnerable act and she should have been informed that this was what he was actually thinking so she could make an informed decision.
I am pretty comfortable making this distinction because I have also has sex acts I didn't mind but wouldn't choose to do if the other person never suggested them, and things I hated. I mean it kind of also puts OP in a position where, especially if she has experienced SA, it would not be unreasonable to feel gross feelings like she was forcing herself on this guy even though she wasn't. And it doesn't sound like she was demanding he do it now after he revealed he hated it, just that she had tried being intimate in general, unless I misread.
They're not compatible, but I'd leave him anyway unless this relationship is beyond amazing other than this thing.
First things first:
Making sexual jokes about a heavier girl at work does NOT mean he likes her.
Quite the contrary!
One doesn't make jokes if one likes.
Don't get stuck on weirdo “logic”.
Second:
If YOU aren't HIS type, then HE isn't yours.
Guys into random other girls than you are no guys to stay with.
That's a nonono. And likely a start into abuse.
“If you only…. (got heavier/ slimmer/ taller/ smaller/ had more boobs/ had less boobs/ had green eyes/ had blue eyes…..) I would like you” …
That's the name of the game.
Setting parameters to fulfill only the abuser is the judge of!
Stay clear of people of that kind.
Just turn around and block him. Don't even argue! It's not worth it and only leads you into being hurt!
Honestly, why date someone who’s last ex was a drug dealer who went to prison? Tells you what her judgment is like.
Came up with a name but it might be a case that you described where it’s a different person
“I don’t ask him to pick me up nor does he offer to.”
Yeah, why would he? That would double the driving, and therefore double the carbon emissions and time anyone needed to be on the road (and quadruple the person-hours spent in transit, since it also doubles the people travelling).
If you don't want to drive all the time, have him come to your place sometimes. Or hire a taxi. You're an agentic adult who has a car – you don't need people to drive you around.