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In My relationship, we haven't had sex for our 1st year together by choice. I wanted to feel each other out first and see if I love him. After a year, we started doing things but idk if there was a lust period tho. We are genuinely in love with each other so sex feels like love than last.
True, but he could have done without rubbing his fuck time with friend in his girlfriend's face like that. That was info she did not ask for or needed to know in order to understand this was a close friendship. It hurt her very much and was disrespectful of him.
Ive had only 3 gfs. 2 of them enjoyed anal when prepped for it completely(of course). Do your research. Find out how to put yourself in the best position to enjoy it physically and mentally. I didn't know i was into “butt stuff” until I proceeded to nut in the girls ass whos the one who like showed how to do it.
And good lord it felt so fucking good. Hand over my mouth typer orgasm cuz i was so loud when i was “finishing ” sorry for the graphic description judt saying. I didnt know i was going to like it. But idk it was so tight and felt so good lol
This is a common reaction autistic people get when they try and balance eye contact. In high school, generally not from 30somethings. Usually at that point, women are much better at delineating between someone who is legitimately checking them out and they need to be alert versus someone who is just awkward, and I would expect someone who’s known you for almost a decade at least to err on the side of honest lack of awareness.
You could talk to her, but comments like that suggest she would be incredibly dismissive.
Funny. I was in a somewhat similar situation a few months ago. I’ve been looking for a new friend for a while and finally met someone I was compatible with. It was a guy (let’s call him Geoff). Geoff was hilarious and I got along with him great. I also decided to avoid telling him about boyfriend just to experiment.
Normally I talk about my boyfriend a lot. We’ve been together for almost 4 years and are definitely serious about each other. However, I wanted to see if maybe by not mentioning him, this guy would continue talking to me and meeting for study sessions.
After three days of consistently meeting up after class and texting sporadically, I casually brought up how I was looking forward to my boyfriend coming into town. Literally as soon as I mentioned him, Geoff was dead silent and the conversation just died. He stopped talking to me after that.
I totally get why she doesn’t want to talk to you. Sometimes wanting a friendly connection is too tempting to immediately ruin. However, she isn’t doing herself any favors by excluding you from their conversations. My boyfriend is a huge part of my life. All of my friends have met him and we all hang out together when we can. Considering she’s your fiancé, I’m going to assume you guys are equally as involved in each others lives if not more.
Excluding you doesn’t just mislead the guy, but it deluded her into thinking Jeff is a friend. He’s not. If he truly is a friend, then he’ll stick around after finding out about you.
Honestly if I were in your position, I would’ve gotten upset a long ass time ago. If I’m to marry my partner, then he should have no reason to feel any sort of shame to mention me in conversation. Especially since in this case your fiancé is going out of her way to essentially exclude you from her friendship with Jeff.
Talk to her. Ask her why she’s so keen on maintaining this friendship when she can’t even be open about her relationship with you. A friendship built on lies is barely a friendship in my opinion.
First you don't want to know anything, start to poke around anything and now started to feel weird because of the knowledge you got.
Then you get all jealous, just to bring up a FFM threesome to make it somehow even?
Why do you care what she did as a single? She chose to be in a relationship with you, and the common thing is not wanting to sleep with others while in a monogamous relationship. So no threesomes, swinging and stuff. Why does this bother you?
Your feeling of betrayal is actually fear. Fear, you'll be abandoned. Fear that you've wasted time. General anxiety.
Your insecurities are normal and could happen in any relationship. It's that you don't feel good enough. The reason/s why don't matter. Could be anything: hair, body weight, height, education, etc. The world wants you to believe you aren't good enough. It sucks. Talk to a therapist and work on those feelings for You. You'll be happier.
As to the sexuality of your partner: Almost every Bi person ends up with a man or a woman. If they are monogamous, they end up choosing a partner and going about their life. Every couple trades in the possibility of other options when they commit to a partner. Your challenges aren't new. If your partner is happy with you, they are happy. Don't let sexuality be your excuse to self-destruct the relationship.
Either commit to your current relationship or move on. The excuses or reasons a relationship ends generally don't matter. The relationship is either healthy and happy or it's not. You need to decide what is right and healthiest for you. Its time to make some serious choices about what you can handle. What you want and need in your relationship. Don't blame it on anyone. It just is. Life and relationships are difficult. It's time to make a choice and move forward.
I'd highly recommend that you start speaking with a mental health therapist. It will only be a good thing. You will be happier and healthier regardless of who your partner is. Focus on being healthy and happy. It's the only thing that matters in the end.
Some people like him begin making their partners feel they're nuts or off balance early on. Often when victims of abuse look back after they're out of the relationship, they can identify red flags and abusive behaviors. It can be very difficult to see it when in the relationship. You think that if you could just figure out why they're being unfair or irrational, or convince them you're not doing what they accuse, you can fix it. But when they don't want you to truly do either, there's no meeting of the minds.
OP probably need to divorce her in order to regain his self respect.
He was hurt, betrayed, felt insecure, miserable, jealous, suffered for so long … In his mind it was for the kids but that's just an excuse because he didn't have the courage to leave for some reason. The kids would be better with happy divorced parents than with miserable parents.
OP is still trying to be a “nice guy” but he deserves better!
OP stop playing games (kids, her mental health, what people will think, what they'll say, who is going to be blamed… ). Get some courage to love yourself first and do what you should have done many years ago! You suffered alot already!
Also, divorce will not make anyone happy but at least you can get your self respect back, and knowing your self worth you can decide how to move on with your life.
Once free, all options are open, even the crazy one like being back with her…
Firstly cut him from your lives. Secondly see if your wife wants to press charges (if charges can be pressed at all) Thirdly ask your wife why she had the photos at all. If she didn’t send them to you, why did she take them?
And the third point is probably the most important. As if she didn’t send them to him, didn’t send them to you, who did she send them to?
Something fishy is going on. No woman that is absolutely innocent in this would want things to be swept under and still be friends. Those photos were supposed to go to someone and it was not you. Time to have a serious conversation with a legal professional and get some real answers. I am sorry this happened to you.
I suggest loveafterporn subreddit for better support in this area. But as another person said – if this boundary is important to you than you either enforce it or relax it. You can tell your boyfriend if porn is important to him than he can have all the porn he wants but you won’t be continuing a relationship with him. I personally do not want to be with someone who enjoys watching other people fuck and getting off to it or following OF models, or paying for subscription- just none of it. You aren’t alone.
“Umm, this seems like it's developing into more than just a casual relationship. What do you think about it?” Taking you to Coachella seems like more than kazh to me.
Yes! Also keeping a house “spotless” has so many meanings. Is she expected to be cleaning the baseboards everyday? Is one speck of dust too much? People forget that, depending on the size of a space, cleaning takes a while, especially if you are deep cleaning, and things get messy just from everyday life, and OP mentioned they have a dog which drastically increases the amount of mess.
If OP is struggling with her mental health there are probably days where she struggles to get even her basic tasks for herself done, and it might be nude to do every dish or make sure every bit of hair is vacuumed. And that's OK! No one is at 100% all the time.
I understand that she is the “homemaker” and is expected to take care of everything, but even at my full time job, I'm not always at my best, some days I do worse than others, and I have days I take off from work.
If her husband truly cared about her he'd be inquiring into her well being instead of withdrawing and punishing her for not living up to his standards.
You are only 21 and you need to get a job for your own sake. Build skills and be able to take care of yourself if your relationship with your husband doesn't improve. And definitely don't get pregnant.
This is a him problem not a you problem. Is he a miserable/dour person in general? Does he not want you to feel happy about anything? Your attitude seems pretty normal to me, I wonder what the true reason is that he doesn't like it.
All these kinks… I don’t want to go there… If it was my ex I’d be like ok, maybe you should get a mistress. Or ok, maybe you should just get a mail order bride. Or ok, maybe let’s just break up, I wouldn’t put up with it even if you paid me…
Get the lawyer now. Get everything about your kids' custody formally on paper, because believe me, even with the best intentions no one will be hauling 4 kids cross-country every month especially once they become school aged. If she moves away with your permission like that, you'll be seeing them rarely.
Get the custody hammered out before she moves away; or rather, before the children leave the jurisdiction.
It also eventually catches up with you. If you are very obese at 25, your body is young and resilient and can very often adapt. Stay that way until you're 50, you are going to start to see major health issues (joints, possible diabetes, blood pressure issues…) as well as the toll of years of stress on your body.
Your dad is a real man. He’s facing the nude shit to take care of his family. Kudos. Take the test. Your results will be in your medical record. You don’t have to look at it now, but you’ll have it if you need it. Good luck.
I agree with what others are saying. It’s not like this business is dying cuz it’s brand new and has barely had time to built a decent reputation. Also volunteering 8 hours a week on one day for that many years is a lot. Taking care of a newborn for 8 hours straight isn’t at all like asking someone to watch a dog or cat for 8 hours straight. Newborns are far more complicating. Also with others and you saying that his reason of absence is for a dying business with workers who constantly act like lunatics over money…not a good combination, especially if his siblings are lazy as hell or have a shitty work ethic that will make him take on everything or far more than he should…for free. I’m all for volunteering cuz I do it myself at an animal shelter, but to do it for people like his family, it’s not worth it in my opinion
In My relationship, we haven't had sex for our 1st year together by choice. I wanted to feel each other out first and see if I love him. After a year, we started doing things but idk if there was a lust period tho. We are genuinely in love with each other so sex feels like love than last.
She sounds like a keeper.
True, but he could have done without rubbing his fuck time with friend in his girlfriend's face like that. That was info she did not ask for or needed to know in order to understand this was a close friendship. It hurt her very much and was disrespectful of him.
If it’s his daughter then I don’t see a big deal if not that’s super not ok
do not drop it
Ive had only 3 gfs. 2 of them enjoyed anal when prepped for it completely(of course). Do your research. Find out how to put yourself in the best position to enjoy it physically and mentally. I didn't know i was into “butt stuff” until I proceeded to nut in the girls ass whos the one who like showed how to do it.
And good lord it felt so fucking good. Hand over my mouth typer orgasm cuz i was so loud when i was “finishing ” sorry for the graphic description judt saying. I didnt know i was going to like it. But idk it was so tight and felt so good lol
This is a common reaction autistic people get when they try and balance eye contact. In high school, generally not from 30somethings. Usually at that point, women are much better at delineating between someone who is legitimately checking them out and they need to be alert versus someone who is just awkward, and I would expect someone who’s known you for almost a decade at least to err on the side of honest lack of awareness.
You could talk to her, but comments like that suggest she would be incredibly dismissive.
Her responses to your questions reek that this is a troll post
Your husband sounds like a real piece of work.
IDK why people are trying to make op not be with her, let the trash be together so they don't hurt anyone else
You’ll have to work this out if things get more serious. It sounds to me like you guys need to figure out how serious you are right now.
Funny. I was in a somewhat similar situation a few months ago. I’ve been looking for a new friend for a while and finally met someone I was compatible with. It was a guy (let’s call him Geoff). Geoff was hilarious and I got along with him great. I also decided to avoid telling him about boyfriend just to experiment.
Normally I talk about my boyfriend a lot. We’ve been together for almost 4 years and are definitely serious about each other. However, I wanted to see if maybe by not mentioning him, this guy would continue talking to me and meeting for study sessions.
After three days of consistently meeting up after class and texting sporadically, I casually brought up how I was looking forward to my boyfriend coming into town. Literally as soon as I mentioned him, Geoff was dead silent and the conversation just died. He stopped talking to me after that.
I totally get why she doesn’t want to talk to you. Sometimes wanting a friendly connection is too tempting to immediately ruin. However, she isn’t doing herself any favors by excluding you from their conversations. My boyfriend is a huge part of my life. All of my friends have met him and we all hang out together when we can. Considering she’s your fiancé, I’m going to assume you guys are equally as involved in each others lives if not more.
Excluding you doesn’t just mislead the guy, but it deluded her into thinking Jeff is a friend. He’s not. If he truly is a friend, then he’ll stick around after finding out about you.
Honestly if I were in your position, I would’ve gotten upset a long ass time ago. If I’m to marry my partner, then he should have no reason to feel any sort of shame to mention me in conversation. Especially since in this case your fiancé is going out of her way to essentially exclude you from her friendship with Jeff.
Talk to her. Ask her why she’s so keen on maintaining this friendship when she can’t even be open about her relationship with you. A friendship built on lies is barely a friendship in my opinion.
It seems like you need to get over yourself.
First you don't want to know anything, start to poke around anything and now started to feel weird because of the knowledge you got.
Then you get all jealous, just to bring up a FFM threesome to make it somehow even?
Why do you care what she did as a single? She chose to be in a relationship with you, and the common thing is not wanting to sleep with others while in a monogamous relationship. So no threesomes, swinging and stuff. Why does this bother you?
Thank you, that helps a lot
People question themselves all the time.
Your feeling of betrayal is actually fear. Fear, you'll be abandoned. Fear that you've wasted time. General anxiety.
Your insecurities are normal and could happen in any relationship. It's that you don't feel good enough. The reason/s why don't matter. Could be anything: hair, body weight, height, education, etc. The world wants you to believe you aren't good enough. It sucks. Talk to a therapist and work on those feelings for You. You'll be happier.
As to the sexuality of your partner: Almost every Bi person ends up with a man or a woman. If they are monogamous, they end up choosing a partner and going about their life. Every couple trades in the possibility of other options when they commit to a partner. Your challenges aren't new. If your partner is happy with you, they are happy. Don't let sexuality be your excuse to self-destruct the relationship.
Either commit to your current relationship or move on. The excuses or reasons a relationship ends generally don't matter. The relationship is either healthy and happy or it's not. You need to decide what is right and healthiest for you. Its time to make some serious choices about what you can handle. What you want and need in your relationship. Don't blame it on anyone. It just is. Life and relationships are difficult. It's time to make a choice and move forward.
I'd highly recommend that you start speaking with a mental health therapist. It will only be a good thing. You will be happier and healthier regardless of who your partner is. Focus on being healthy and happy. It's the only thing that matters in the end.
Some people like him begin making their partners feel they're nuts or off balance early on. Often when victims of abuse look back after they're out of the relationship, they can identify red flags and abusive behaviors. It can be very difficult to see it when in the relationship. You think that if you could just figure out why they're being unfair or irrational, or convince them you're not doing what they accuse, you can fix it. But when they don't want you to truly do either, there's no meeting of the minds.
Godspeed OP. Glad you got it off your chest.
OP probably need to divorce her in order to regain his self respect.
He was hurt, betrayed, felt insecure, miserable, jealous, suffered for so long … In his mind it was for the kids but that's just an excuse because he didn't have the courage to leave for some reason. The kids would be better with happy divorced parents than with miserable parents.
OP is still trying to be a “nice guy” but he deserves better!
OP stop playing games (kids, her mental health, what people will think, what they'll say, who is going to be blamed… ). Get some courage to love yourself first and do what you should have done many years ago! You suffered alot already!
Also, divorce will not make anyone happy but at least you can get your self respect back, and knowing your self worth you can decide how to move on with your life.
Once free, all options are open, even the crazy one like being back with her…
Firstly cut him from your lives. Secondly see if your wife wants to press charges (if charges can be pressed at all) Thirdly ask your wife why she had the photos at all. If she didn’t send them to you, why did she take them?
And the third point is probably the most important. As if she didn’t send them to him, didn’t send them to you, who did she send them to?
Something fishy is going on. No woman that is absolutely innocent in this would want things to be swept under and still be friends. Those photos were supposed to go to someone and it was not you. Time to have a serious conversation with a legal professional and get some real answers. I am sorry this happened to you.
I suggest loveafterporn subreddit for better support in this area. But as another person said – if this boundary is important to you than you either enforce it or relax it. You can tell your boyfriend if porn is important to him than he can have all the porn he wants but you won’t be continuing a relationship with him. I personally do not want to be with someone who enjoys watching other people fuck and getting off to it or following OF models, or paying for subscription- just none of it. You aren’t alone.
“Umm, this seems like it's developing into more than just a casual relationship. What do you think about it?” Taking you to Coachella seems like more than kazh to me.
Yes! Also keeping a house “spotless” has so many meanings. Is she expected to be cleaning the baseboards everyday? Is one speck of dust too much? People forget that, depending on the size of a space, cleaning takes a while, especially if you are deep cleaning, and things get messy just from everyday life, and OP mentioned they have a dog which drastically increases the amount of mess.
If OP is struggling with her mental health there are probably days where she struggles to get even her basic tasks for herself done, and it might be nude to do every dish or make sure every bit of hair is vacuumed. And that's OK! No one is at 100% all the time.
I understand that she is the “homemaker” and is expected to take care of everything, but even at my full time job, I'm not always at my best, some days I do worse than others, and I have days I take off from work.
If her husband truly cared about her he'd be inquiring into her well being instead of withdrawing and punishing her for not living up to his standards.
You are only 21 and you need to get a job for your own sake. Build skills and be able to take care of yourself if your relationship with your husband doesn't improve. And definitely don't get pregnant.
Dump her. Also, don’t worry about your junk. You’re above average, bro.
This is a him problem not a you problem. Is he a miserable/dour person in general? Does he not want you to feel happy about anything? Your attitude seems pretty normal to me, I wonder what the true reason is that he doesn't like it.
All these kinks… I don’t want to go there… If it was my ex I’d be like ok, maybe you should get a mistress. Or ok, maybe you should just get a mail order bride. Or ok, maybe let’s just break up, I wouldn’t put up with it even if you paid me…
I don't have CFS, but he's a bit exhausting.
Call his CO and tell them what he did.
Get the lawyer now. Get everything about your kids' custody formally on paper, because believe me, even with the best intentions no one will be hauling 4 kids cross-country every month especially once they become school aged. If she moves away with your permission like that, you'll be seeing them rarely.
Get the custody hammered out before she moves away; or rather, before the children leave the jurisdiction.
Two years in sure IS early.
Not being married may be another point that makes him feel uneasy.
And: currently a bank has gone bankrupt. He may be afraid of economics and the investment market, as verly likely you would have to finance.
Which, to a certain point, is a game of hasards.
It also eventually catches up with you. If you are very obese at 25, your body is young and resilient and can very often adapt. Stay that way until you're 50, you are going to start to see major health issues (joints, possible diabetes, blood pressure issues…) as well as the toll of years of stress on your body.
So true and I am not a millionaire because I choose not to win at Mega Millions lottery every week.
It's probably an extreme level of Autistic burnout mixed with severe depression. This isn't uncommon in undiagnosed/unaware individuals with Autism.
I know, right. One that’s been around for 3-4 years apparently.
Your dad is a real man. He’s facing the nude shit to take care of his family. Kudos. Take the test. Your results will be in your medical record. You don’t have to look at it now, but you’ll have it if you need it. Good luck.
I agree with what others are saying. It’s not like this business is dying cuz it’s brand new and has barely had time to built a decent reputation. Also volunteering 8 hours a week on one day for that many years is a lot. Taking care of a newborn for 8 hours straight isn’t at all like asking someone to watch a dog or cat for 8 hours straight. Newborns are far more complicating. Also with others and you saying that his reason of absence is for a dying business with workers who constantly act like lunatics over money…not a good combination, especially if his siblings are lazy as hell or have a shitty work ethic that will make him take on everything or far more than he should…for free. I’m all for volunteering cuz I do it myself at an animal shelter, but to do it for people like his family, it’s not worth it in my opinion
Why don’t you want to be romantically involved with someone who likes you