New idea: Find the latest girlfriend on social media. Create a packet of evidence with his dating history, how he dumps all his girlfriends when they become too old, and YouTube videos/websites about why this type of relationship is wrong and what grooming is. Send the info to them via an anonymous account. Act like you know nothing. Rinse and repeat with each new girlfriend. It may not work right away but at least you can plant a seed of doubt in their heads.
I agree it was weird for her to ask him to not use condoms without disclosing that. Even if condoms make literally no difference and he is at zero risk of developing cervical cancer, I agree it could have been brought up then.
But like…..zero. Zero risk of cervical cancer for him. And he’s probably already had it and passed it along. And he’ll probably get it again. Your own post saying that some people would be uncomfortable with it is exactly why. They have no reason to be uncomfortable. They’re ignorant.
I really don’t agree that people should have to disclose HPV.
I wouldn’t say it’s necessary to lay out your entire past. But having your wife’s hot videos live! can have an effect on your business and social life. I think it’s a bit unethical to not bring that up so they know what they are getting into
Aside from that, my main concern wouldn’t be so much the nudes… my concern would be her lack of vulnerability
No, you don’t HAVE to tell your partner everything. But from my experience, getting vulnerable and sharing things from our past, allow us to deepen our intimacy and strengthen our connection
If she’s still carrying shame about that part of her life, I would want her to be able to get vulnerable and authentic with me so I could be there for her and we could reach a place of empowerment around it
Holding things in like that don’t allow for as much growth in my opinion. And the only reason I get into a relationship is to give, and to grow together
I actually know someone named Seamus. He's a firefighter, so now all I can picture is him throwing around flaming bottles of alcohol making tropical drinks. ?
This comment is so true that it is hilarious. ???
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Thank you so much for sharing this take. Your question hit me naked. I’ll have to think on it. I’m pretty sure this will be the case, sadly
New idea: Find the latest girlfriend on social media. Create a packet of evidence with his dating history, how he dumps all his girlfriends when they become too old, and YouTube videos/websites about why this type of relationship is wrong and what grooming is. Send the info to them via an anonymous account. Act like you know nothing. Rinse and repeat with each new girlfriend. It may not work right away but at least you can plant a seed of doubt in their heads.
Time to go. Your soon to be ex is an ass
I agree it was weird for her to ask him to not use condoms without disclosing that. Even if condoms make literally no difference and he is at zero risk of developing cervical cancer, I agree it could have been brought up then.
But like…..zero. Zero risk of cervical cancer for him. And he’s probably already had it and passed it along. And he’ll probably get it again. Your own post saying that some people would be uncomfortable with it is exactly why. They have no reason to be uncomfortable. They’re ignorant.
I really don’t agree that people should have to disclose HPV.
I wouldn’t say it’s necessary to lay out your entire past. But having your wife’s hot videos live! can have an effect on your business and social life. I think it’s a bit unethical to not bring that up so they know what they are getting into
Aside from that, my main concern wouldn’t be so much the nudes… my concern would be her lack of vulnerability
No, you don’t HAVE to tell your partner everything. But from my experience, getting vulnerable and sharing things from our past, allow us to deepen our intimacy and strengthen our connection
If she’s still carrying shame about that part of her life, I would want her to be able to get vulnerable and authentic with me so I could be there for her and we could reach a place of empowerment around it
Holding things in like that don’t allow for as much growth in my opinion. And the only reason I get into a relationship is to give, and to grow together
Last night I saw his friends and his brother texting on their group chat
Do you not allow your boyfriend privacy?
They don’t know me
Why do you care so much about the opinions of people who don't even know you?
I actually know someone named Seamus. He's a firefighter, so now all I can picture is him throwing around flaming bottles of alcohol making tropical drinks. ?