As people already said, you do have too many kids. Unless you are a billionaire and on-line in a castle with all your wives and kids, there is NO WAY you are actually attending to all your kids needs. Being a good dad is only about getting your kids the latest toys if they ask for it. They need Dad constantly whether they ask for you or don’t. You should be witnessing their first steps, their falls, the fights, the cries, the first heartbreak, first pyjama party etc.
You should know about all their medical conditions, their interests, their day at school, their friends name. And there is absolutely no way you would know about any of this for each of your kids.
You might think you’re doing well but your children will grow up without their biological father by their side. You should have thought less about dipping your d*ck everywhere and thought more about how to provide a healthy and stable life for your offspring.
I do also think that this is a problem , albeit not as much with women, in general relating to pregnancy and child birth. Lots of women are also misinformed or uneducated on what to expect . One of the big issues is staying up to date, both my mother and mil had very outdated information and where quite shocked by a lot of what we had to do and prepare for.
Lots of women will obviously go to their mothers for advice, but considering those mothers are often 20-30 years removed from caring for an infant, it’s very common for it to no longer be relevant. Everyone should do their own research, stay up to date and listen to your medical professionals .
Appreciate it bud, half of my thought is ending this one for good for the amount of disrespect she is showing me in 2 months, atm i am just still feel sad of missing her. I just need a push from community for which road i should take ?.
Why would you have no value as a human being? Your value has nothing to do with the number of people who you have had sex with, nor is it related to why you had sex with those people. Far more important is how you treat people, and how you care for your family.
I’m sorry that happened i hope he learned a valuable. Lesson here in how to communicate and not be abusive, I’m glad he opened up, best of luck to you both moving forward
If you want space why are you calling him at 10:45?
She’s seeing someone
As people already said, you do have too many kids. Unless you are a billionaire and on-line in a castle with all your wives and kids, there is NO WAY you are actually attending to all your kids needs. Being a good dad is only about getting your kids the latest toys if they ask for it. They need Dad constantly whether they ask for you or don’t. You should be witnessing their first steps, their falls, the fights, the cries, the first heartbreak, first pyjama party etc.
You should know about all their medical conditions, their interests, their day at school, their friends name. And there is absolutely no way you would know about any of this for each of your kids.
You might think you’re doing well but your children will grow up without their biological father by their side. You should have thought less about dipping your d*ck everywhere and thought more about how to provide a healthy and stable life for your offspring.
I do also think that this is a problem , albeit not as much with women, in general relating to pregnancy and child birth. Lots of women are also misinformed or uneducated on what to expect . One of the big issues is staying up to date, both my mother and mil had very outdated information and where quite shocked by a lot of what we had to do and prepare for.
Lots of women will obviously go to their mothers for advice, but considering those mothers are often 20-30 years removed from caring for an infant, it’s very common for it to no longer be relevant. Everyone should do their own research, stay up to date and listen to your medical professionals .
You’re right 🙁 thank you for your advice and I think it’s time to do like you say and move on. There’s always time to find other people
Appreciate it bud, half of my thought is ending this one for good for the amount of disrespect she is showing me in 2 months, atm i am just still feel sad of missing her. I just need a push from community for which road i should take ?.
But did your ex let her do that? No he always refused and showed you every conversation. It's not on her its in you
Sure. Once right after, once at 2 years, and once at 5-10 years.
All these can be finely calculated using actuarials, which would be great.
Reddit isn’t showing me any additional comments that have been made. Wish I could see the advice!
It’s one thing to be private.. another to lie
Why would you have no value as a human being? Your value has nothing to do with the number of people who you have had sex with, nor is it related to why you had sex with those people. Far more important is how you treat people, and how you care for your family.
I’m sorry that happened i hope he learned a valuable. Lesson here in how to communicate and not be abusive, I’m glad he opened up, best of luck to you both moving forward
Omg another fake bs story about girls craving giant dicks. Using words like “cum” and “cock” are such dead giveaways. Be more creative next time.