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A year and a half? A year and a half? Honey I'm so sorry that you are going through this, but he had a full relationship beside yours for half of you relationship. What? Even if you give him a chance, he would probably do it again, he has done it before and you didn't even know.
Just think about that, let it simmer a little bit
Please work in yourself and your self-esteem, and lose the boyfriend
You can love someone and still walk away. The situation with your girlfriend is messing up your mental health. Walk away, somewhere there is a better partner for you.
The real answer was a that OP needs to force his ex to pay child support. That money can go towards their kids fund
Tbh, you may well be right đ
But it mainly signifies a culture right? Like, Iâm from a âworking classâ background technically, but anybody would probably guess Iâm middle class based on the cultural stereotype. So do you act particularly WASPish?
A boundary is something that you say this is something that I v can't deal with. Like, for example, drug use, cheating, you saying no, etc. By not doing anything the first time he crossed your invisible line, he realized you weren't going to. Same with you threatening to leave. You made the threat, he continued what he was doing, and you stayed, so note you are begging him not to make you feel uncomfortable. He's not going to change. You didn't say what those boundaries are. If they are that important that you, would threaten to leave, don't threaten. Walk away without another word.
Your gf has serious issues that need to be addressed ASAP. If she manipulating you by throwing a toddler tantrum or doing stupid things like hiding your phone that's bad enough but also physically restraining or even hurting you is an absolute no-go. Do not go over to her place anymore, meet in public places and tell her to get therapy. She is not right mentally.
Donât be a backup plan shut the door and go NC. You heal faster and she wonât be in control if the roller coaster
No I donât say it to test her. She will say something seems off with me and if Iâm feeling sad Iâll tell her thatâs why but I should just say Iâm acting this way because Iâm sad and this is why. Youâre right but Iâm not trying to test her or anything like that.
As an immigrant: fuck no. Fuck fuck no. Cancel this immediately.
Ummmm âŠ. Hey OP, Your husband is a closet gay.
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At the beginning of our story, I've made it very clear to her that sex was an essential part of a relationship for me, and she told me that the same was for her. Mind you, it was the beginning, so we were having sex all the time, a lot of time was that drunk sex when you lose all inhibitions, so it was great (for example, we would go home, she would push me against the closet, get on her knees and give me amazing bj). Even now, it happens at times, but we're not really going out anymore, and furthermore, I would like for it not to happen just if we're drunk. (So, maybe she just has to losen up a bit, might be some mental barriers) As I mentioned in the post, we also had virtual sex a couple of years ago that we both utterly enjoyed, and there was a talk to do it again but never happened. I sat with her and talked about how these things would spice up our sexual life and keep the fire burning hot, like receiving a nude while at work and such. I just don't want to fall into the routinary sex, that is what I feel is ending up happening. I desire her and love her too much to just fall into the have sex once-twice a week, then it becomes once, then once a month, etc. loop. I am sure she's not insecure, I don't want to share any personal info but she does a job that requires stage presence, etc. I am not asking to have it all solved, but what is the problem in sharing some tits/pussy pics with me every once in a while? This is what I fail to understand, and I don't feel I want to pressure her too much because it's just wrong, but from my point of view, especially since we are together since so long, sexuality should be lived freely.
Um so what the heck happened that night and why does your dad want you to return to the house? And why won't you go to the house to see him?
I meant take out the pads after her cycle is completed. Not daily.
I would also feel a little broken in this situation. But I am a bit biased. My ex has done a lot of things based on what is expected but not what I would like. I had lost any good expectation of him someday.
I recommend to be honest with your partner Ask about they intentions and expectations and also talk about your. Maybe it was just a honest mistake, maybe they don't understant you.
Appreciate the effort but be honest to get to the root of this situation.
Ty!
Get over it or move on. This is on you, not her. Youâre entitled to feel how you feel, but if you let it affect the relationship then youâre the issue.
He probably says this so your self esteem is too low for you to leave him
My husband and I both work outward facing jobs that use up all our energy for people and chill at home with our cat and little family. Weâre not big on socializing outside of work and keep it that way but our values align here. We both need recharge time in our home and put our family first. If you donât want any of this, then Iâd meet with a financial planner to meet your personal goals and a therapist to deal with any anxiety around remaining single.
Please update us!!! Live! your life, Honey, and don't ever let someone control you again!!!
Yes men are sensitive, the secret is out.
I am completely baffled why it would bother you at all.
You don't understand basic jealousy?
i'm with him because i love him, just want to reiterate that i don't want kids and he'll never get that chance, even though he's tried to convince me. he definitely asks for permission about my body but at this point i just dye my hair if i feel like it or get a tattoo because i keep having to remind myself he needs to just suck it up and love me for me
This is literally a Degrassi plot. Is that you Clare?
You're not even responding to the things I wrote. No, quitting isn't impossible. It was quite easy for me and I didn't need to use any kind of remedies for it. However, comparing nicotine addiction to learning a language is one of the dumbest things I've seen on Reddit.
This, tbh
You're thinking too much about this early stage relationship and you're giving her friend far too much time in your head.
You're not really too old for this woman. The age difference is not terrible. You are in different stages of life I suspect – you might still be in school yourself but still – you're more mature than she is.
Why didn't you stand up for yourself against her rude friend? you could have done so politely and said something to the effect of 'She and I do not have to answer to you regarding our relationship. Were one of my friends to treat her the way you're treating me in a similar situation, I might reconsider that where that friend actually stands with me.'
Conversely, the girlfriend should have done a better job of standing up for you and herself against her rude friend.
I totally feel that, I'm hypervigilant about a lot of stuff due to bad relationship experience, I guess for me, I really identify with someone who lashes out and my partner has had to talk about it with me and it's still a work in progress, in my case its absolutely not ill intentioned and not even something I realized I was doing. I'm a bit self involved but definitely not to the point of being narcissistic
I also creeped his profile and his fiancé does in fact seem like she's often really overwhelmed and not able to cope with stress well (which was my problem too)
I get the impression mental healthcare is really inaccessible
Gotta be careful with giving her a warning potentially. That could give her time to make up a crazy story to her fiancé, lying that her ex is jealous and insecure. And try to get the fiancé to block her ex on social media.
You need to finish high school.
Does he get any financial/legal/immigration benefits from your marriage? Like if you are a citizen and being married he becomes a permanent resident?
If you are afraid to talk to him about it – hire a private investigator. In a week you will have your answer.
I would also suggest to talk with several relatives/friends about it, to ask their opinion and for safety reasons. I am concerned that your husband is involved in something fishy and is taking advantage of you.
If you decide to talk to him – know that you have a right to know what is going on. Write down all the facts and talk about them, it is not one or two, it is his lifestyle. He cannot blame you that you don't trust him – he is destroying your trust by lies. Don't let him gaslight that you are hurting his feelings, it is the opposite here.
the fact that you led with “i am non conformist” strikes me as reaching for an excuse for a fear of commitment, as, after almost 3 years, commitment should be forthcoming Even gaining weight might be a way to give him an out
So you've now discovered you can't count on this guy in medical situations. Don't forget it, it's one of the many experiences you'll have with him that you'll ultimately use to decide whether he'd make a good life mate or not.
I agree, but itâs also such a rare thing in small retail or food places that it catches you off guard. This one seemed to have pretty accurate info about names of employees and managers. Knowing that, Iâm kind of glad she isnât working there anymore.
Well, you donât get to tell him what he does with his body, but you do get to decide that his issue is one you do not want to continue dealing with. Clearly he does not want to have surgery so your options at this point are to deal or to break up.
Do other people know about this yet?
sure is! i kept it a secret per his request for 2 years until i was old enough for it to not be rlly weird. i always end up going back to him. ive experienced better but i always want him at the end of the day. idk im in therapy for it i swear
Why, oh, why would you continue to date this person?? And want to procreate with him? What would be on the “pro” list that could overcome this avalanche of cons???
He actually asked the ex for me to come for Easter brunch (first time being kind of invited to a family thing!) and she never responded to the text so he said that was a ânoâ for me and left it at that.
Did yall establish that he wasnt to have contact with her prior?
If she had been honest with you about what happened… maybe… but if not for Tom then you would never have found out.
I donât understand why you have put up with any of this more than a week
my husband also loves his video games, and tonight i set his headset and controller up for him, so he could just close out disney+ and open up his game after he got our toddler to bed. he was over the moon lol