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No red flag about his actions since he's not pushing really hard. But it does seem like you have a different sort of outlook than he does. Your comment on another thread about the right thing to do after sex is “get up and leave” makes it sound like you're more interested in casual than he might be.
As long as you both know what is going on, it's fine.
You might want to explore some counseling to understand these things that make you feel itchy and uncomfortable but you can't articulate.
He will just hide it better next time
And there it is.
Same though.
Look, I don't think it's rigjt for anyone to dictate what sexuality or label you're giving yourself.
However, you REALLY need to sit with yourself and examine what everyone's been telling you. If you only stayed with your partner for convenience and not really attracted to her as the woman she is then you should consider this relationship. She deserves someone who's attracted to her fully, not just because “sex with men is a hassle anyway and I don't mind being in a sexless relationship”
You're doing more harm than good and not validating her identity by insisting You're straight. You might be, but if you are then this isn't the relationship for you and it's just cruel to be in a queer relationship and keep denying it
Look, I don't think it's rigjt for anyone to dictate what sexuality or label you're giving yourself.
However, you REALLY need to sit with yourself and examine what everyone's been telling you. If you only stayed with your partner for convenience and not really attracted to her as the woman she is then you should consider this relationship. She deserves someone who's attracted to her fully, not just because “sex with men is a hassle anyway and I don't mind being in a sexless relationship”
You're doing more harm than good and not validating her identity by insisting You're straight. You might be, but if you are then this isn't the relationship for you and it's just cruel to be in a queer relationship and keep denying it
Exactly, the only time I share my location is never on snap but on my gps itself to my spouse especially if I’m out walking with our baby in the city but that’s just for safety purposes.
No no. I slept with a other girl in the early days of dating my ex. I recently slept with my ex girlfriend’s sister and I don’t feel better.
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Honestly, I don't know what to do.
I want him to own up to whatever happened, so we can talk it through and hopefully move on from it. But if he's completely refusing to acknowledge it, what can I do? I don't want to give up.
Sorry OP but this is end it instantly territory for me. The killer for me is the “I made her feel unwanted”. Always end things when people make excuses (and in particularly when they blame you ) for their complete betrayal. The cheating is unequivocally 100% on her.
With the coach v trains argument, the coach is better for both of us as the train is not likely to be running so if we want to get to where were going then the coach is the only reliable option and she doesn't mind travelling by coach as we've done it plenty of times.
When you talk about the second paragraph of your comment do you mean the comment I am replying to here or your previous comment?
I think that if you want any semblance of intimacy and respect to return in your relationship, then you need to start by respecting his after work downtime better.
Are you on any meds for your ADHD? I know the meds can be hard to stomach at times, but they could make a world of positive difference to your relationships with other people.
Does your husband often speak in harsh tones and behave in a cold, serious and distanced manner around you? When was the last time you went on a date together?
Thank you I really do too! Maybe just a short text in a couple days saying that I am here for her and understand she's probably going through something?
Girl… you're spending WAY too much emotional energy on a guy who literally does not love you. Let that sink in. You are so young, please leave him.
Explain that you want to be the one to turn him on and not the one he uses for release. Tell him this isn't a kink, he's using you to masterbate.
This is creepy AF for someone who's known him for TWO MONTHS! Its totally inappropriate for someone you've known for 6 min who hasn't actually asked you you sound neurotic and controlling to be honest- and whilst you may have some good intentions this is like… another level of red flag.
I think you approach this with vulnerability and be honest “Boyfriend, we have to talk about a troubling inconsistency because I'm not sure what it means but I know it doesn't make me feel good. I noticed that you liked (female friend's) facebook post. You've told me soooo many times that you never like anyone's posts but then you liked hers. Then you were super on top of your birthday wishes when with your male friends you do not give a fuck. I guess is there more to your feelings for female friend?”
I know you don't believe that he is cheating on you but the crux of it is that you don't want to be with someone who for whatever reason cannot be with the person they actually want to be with and so they settle for you and essentially give you less consideration as a result. Just get it on the table that he isn't being consistent and you've noticed.
I would say this to you, you are experiencing an intuition about your boyfriend. That intuition is your body's way of protecting you. Trust it.
I'm really sorry for what you're going through, and for what your sister must be going through.
As everyone has said, it sounds like your sister was raped. That's horrible.
I can't help though but to feel a bit of hope seeing everyone in the comments stand up for the woman who was too drunk to consent. On behalf of everyone who has been afraid to talk about their assault because they may not be believed, thank you.
People focus a lot on 'but I love him/her'. I think love is a choice we make every day, once the initial infatuation wears down to normality.
You need a bedrock of trust, respect, attraction and affection. You recommit to that person, every day you wake up, spend time with them, do things that matter to them, make the choice not to hurt them or leave them.
Someone who would cheat on you if they had the chance is not worth your time.
Having no partner is better than a partner who doesn't care if they hurt you and who makes the decision to put their immediate wants above your well-being.
So only insta post's or were some sent to an individual that put them out there? Either way it's a lesson to not put those out without expectations of them going world wide.
The 40s/50s house wife comparison is actually highly accurate. Women back then weren’t allowed to have bank accounts (all in the husbands name) and were forced to stay with their S/O because he controlled all the money. It’s seen as controlling and toxic now a days (rightfully so) yet, that’s what people are recommending OP do. Stay with a toxic S/O because he has the money.
Keep the dog – dump the dude
No. The answer is no.
It sounds like an absolutely horrible situation and I’m truly sorry for her.
But no, you can’t knock her out so that she doesn’t have to experience immediate stomach issues consciously. Those issues will just go away? Or is she going to wake up in a pile of shit, vomit, bruises, blood, and a concussion?
It’s full of children it seems
For some people the status is all they need to stop trying. Think of it this way, you didn't get what you needed so it ended and now you can seek it elsewhere. Another way of looking at it was it was a fling. You had your excitement but it's time to go.
She did you a favor.
This whole thing doesn't sound bad that you still have to work with her. Be cordial, civil and professional. A full on friendship isn't warranted but at the same time being nasty to her because you two separated on decent terms is terrible.
Based on what you said, you didn't leave it open ended if you were waiting for a response.
Hit him back and tell him you liked his vibe and would like to continue something with him and would like to set something up when his 'exams' are over. Word it to where you are waiting on a response.
It seems communication is poor on both sides of the opposite sex these days and sometimes one just needs to be clear and concise to get the point across.
Don't be shy!
Sounds like the lady at the bus stop, is putting distance between your husband and her. Whatever he said to her made her uncomfortable and she rather not be in that position again.
Kudos to her
You could do 2 things: Ask her what he did to make her uncomfortable (which I don’t recommend since she obviously doesn’t want to be more involved) Or I would point blank say I talked to her and now you want his pov on the situation, and see what lies he comes up with.
Well it's up to you how you take it but ask yourself if you want to be in this relationship. If you do and she does what will need to happen for you to be able to continue.
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Nah man, you’re being controlling and misogynistic for not wanting your girlfriend to describe being cream pied in detail, when she is obviously describing it happening to her before with other men. Why do you hate women?
Oh it definitely would be, but that wouldn't necessarily make her less scared of revealing herself
I understand you would be hurt but realize this is about them not about you. They are aholez to exclude you like that. But you can look at it two ways if you don't want to do no contact. Be hurt and sad, or place your focus elsewhere. Do something for yourself. Spoil yourself. Go out for coffee. Have a cupcake. Get your nails done. Let them spoil your family and you spoil yourself. I don't get many gifts as an adult now, but I spoil myself even if it's some good coffee beans.
They aren’t healthy though. There are many other variables that should be taken into consideration, but because of their past and some health scares they have had, it’s clear they are not healthy despite them looking healthy. Also- there is no reason to be aggressive or unkind, I understand it’s the internet and you’d most likely not speak to anyone this way in person, but that doesn’t make it okay for you to respond this way. I work 2 jobs and am a full time student- I think I have too much on my plate just to be complaining about something that isn’t an important issue. I only came here for constructive advice or criticism. If you’d like to rephrase your comment in a more constructive way, great. Otherwise, I think the world would be a much more pleasant place if you’d comment with intention rather than impulse and aggression. Thanks though!!!
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Find the girl that you don’t have to ask.
It's going to be hard, but extremely worth it. Just make sure you go see a therapist to examine your how you ended up in this situation so you can avoid it again. Not saying it's your fault, but it's a perfect time to look at that.
“I'm just being friendly…” sounds like the opening line to a sexual assault.