The just be direct with him and say I don’t know how this is going to work if we don’t have better communication. Don’t let it stagnate because we all know where that’s going then
Your post history is all over the place. You post as different sexes, different ages, different languages. I think, from some of your posts, that you need to speak to a professional therapist who can help you with much deeper issues than a broken relationship.
Yes if there are zero messages they have been likely deleted.
However, why do you tolerate her presense. If ypu believe your bf would cheat with her given the opportunity then you shouldn't be with him. If you believe she would try to seduce your bf wrte they slone you should make them seeing each other a dealbreaker. Your inaction has led you where you are right now.
Your bf has created a ridiculous argument about nothing. He should be grateful that you are doing all that you do instead of arguing over petty things like you carrying something. You don't have any fault in this, so no you do not need to be considerate of his feelings here, he needs to be considerate of you and what you doing AND your feelings.
You need to file a police report, and you need to get out of this relationship. NOW.
Same
If your dad is also a big burly guy then I reckon a therapist would have fun with this one
The just be direct with him and say I don’t know how this is going to work if we don’t have better communication. Don’t let it stagnate because we all know where that’s going then
I’ve been there. But you will get through it. Feel free if you need someone to talk to to reach out!
Your post history is all over the place. You post as different sexes, different ages, different languages. I think, from some of your posts, that you need to speak to a professional therapist who can help you with much deeper issues than a broken relationship.
Yes if there are zero messages they have been likely deleted.
However, why do you tolerate her presense. If ypu believe your bf would cheat with her given the opportunity then you shouldn't be with him. If you believe she would try to seduce your bf wrte they slone you should make them seeing each other a dealbreaker. Your inaction has led you where you are right now.
If you consider it over literally just end it if it’s too hot ghost her idc torturing yourself further for no reason
Where/how are these interactions taking place?
100% abuse.
This is non consensual sexual contact.
Unacceptable
Its more than likely true ask to see her phone guarantee she deleted the messages
OP really said “I can accept racism, sexism and hanging with rapists, but texting another woman is where I draw the line.”
Your bf has created a ridiculous argument about nothing. He should be grateful that you are doing all that you do instead of arguing over petty things like you carrying something. You don't have any fault in this, so no you do not need to be considerate of his feelings here, he needs to be considerate of you and what you doing AND your feelings.
Stop letting him walk all over you.
It's a deal breaker for me. It's disgusting. You can't live! like that.
Maybe this guy is a dumbass, or maybe he wants to hurt her self-esteem
It ranges from dumb jerk to negging, idk where he falls on that scale but none of it is good
I would not be ok with my spouse viewing me on the same level as any children we have together…