I imagine for people who really are polyamorous they do not feel jealousy like I did, where it keeps coming back up, otherwise how could they continue with multiple partners? Just being a monogamous kinda dude, I had to keep reminding myself I am ok with my partner being with someone else, it was just very hot. I want my partner to be all mine, to be their one and only. Just be careful OP, don’t let yourself get blindsided if things suddenly change. I love the sound of the word throuple, even if it isn’t for me lol
That's the vibe I get. It seems it's not so much OP that they consider special, it's the Christmas “event”. The Christmas party is special to them because it marks where they were introduced (apparently forgetting it was OP who introduced them) and where they announced to everyone their engagement.
Bottom line, if the Christmas party was a person, they would have invited the PARTY to their wedding and still snubbed OP.
I feel completely torn in half because I love him so much and he has such a beautiful mind when he is sober. It’s so very hot and it sucks because we have a farm together as well as 2 dogs. And we always argue and stay together because of our little farm and then things go good for a few days and then it’s back to this shit. This time feels different though because he is saying himself that he wants to stop but doesn’t know how. I always offer him help and ask how it is I can help him and when I do what he asks/suggests he gets mad and we argue.
Not for nothing but sounds like your wife might have some cluster B personality disorders. Has she been evaluated at all? I’m no doctor and I didn’t stay at a Holiday Inn last night, but so was raised by a mother with Borderline Personality Disorder and your wife sounds like my mom. Not to get heavy with you but those people should not raise children under any circumstances, I’m one of the lucky ones who only has alcoholism.
This isn’t helpful but I’m annoyed. I’m in my mid-30’s, I want kids, I have a high sex drive, I know for sure I’m straight, and men in my area are too busy playing games. ???♀️
See this is my feeling. It's just a job. I understand that there's a social stigma attached to it, but at the end of the day it's still just a job. I can see how it matters to some people if there is a specific mentality/ethical considerations (I'm sure that it would be the same conversation if a vegan was dating someone he used to work in a slaughterhouse for instance) but doesn't sound like he has any issue with it, which means it's probably a topic the've never clashed on (porn in general). It's still a job, but I could see how it could have implications on social life and personal relationships? But at the end of the day… SW is… Work.
I'm sure there are numerous jobs from our youth me and my spouse of over a decade have forgotten to tell each other about. ??♀️
I imagine for people who really are polyamorous they do not feel jealousy like I did, where it keeps coming back up, otherwise how could they continue with multiple partners? Just being a monogamous kinda dude, I had to keep reminding myself I am ok with my partner being with someone else, it was just very hot. I want my partner to be all mine, to be their one and only. Just be careful OP, don’t let yourself get blindsided if things suddenly change. I love the sound of the word throuple, even if it isn’t for me lol
You want to have kids in the next few years but live in a small apartment. How do you figure?
Terrific!!
You're emotionally cheating prior to the kiss soooo
I don't want to be with someone who hits their kid, whether or not I am present for it happening.
He’s whipped but not getting any.
That's the vibe I get. It seems it's not so much OP that they consider special, it's the Christmas “event”. The Christmas party is special to them because it marks where they were introduced (apparently forgetting it was OP who introduced them) and where they announced to everyone their engagement.
Bottom line, if the Christmas party was a person, they would have invited the PARTY to their wedding and still snubbed OP.
I don't understand….
a. Didn't look like one… what?
b. What is de question, what are you asking relationship advice for?
I feel completely torn in half because I love him so much and he has such a beautiful mind when he is sober. It’s so very hot and it sucks because we have a farm together as well as 2 dogs. And we always argue and stay together because of our little farm and then things go good for a few days and then it’s back to this shit. This time feels different though because he is saying himself that he wants to stop but doesn’t know how. I always offer him help and ask how it is I can help him and when I do what he asks/suggests he gets mad and we argue.
Yes, I chose to be shitty because I didn’t care about losing someone who didn’t love me. Never said I was forced.
Not for nothing but sounds like your wife might have some cluster B personality disorders. Has she been evaluated at all? I’m no doctor and I didn’t stay at a Holiday Inn last night, but so was raised by a mother with Borderline Personality Disorder and your wife sounds like my mom. Not to get heavy with you but those people should not raise children under any circumstances, I’m one of the lucky ones who only has alcoholism.
No one likes hateful comments.
Humans are simply not built emotionally for that kind of hate.
Step up and start protecting her.
This isn’t helpful but I’m annoyed. I’m in my mid-30’s, I want kids, I have a high sex drive, I know for sure I’m straight, and men in my area are too busy playing games. ???♀️
oh well, if she ride a black dude and get blowing 3 other guys, i'm sure the other 3 guys fuck her too
do you recall her having a sore pussy the day she came back?
she must have a hell of a sore being fuck by 4 guys that night.
See this is my feeling. It's just a job. I understand that there's a social stigma attached to it, but at the end of the day it's still just a job. I can see how it matters to some people if there is a specific mentality/ethical considerations (I'm sure that it would be the same conversation if a vegan was dating someone he used to work in a slaughterhouse for instance) but doesn't sound like he has any issue with it, which means it's probably a topic the've never clashed on (porn in general). It's still a job, but I could see how it could have implications on social life and personal relationships? But at the end of the day… SW is… Work.
I'm sure there are numerous jobs from our youth me and my spouse of over a decade have forgotten to tell each other about. ??♀️
If you want to stay with him you will need to eventually let it go. If you don’t want to stay with him then it doesn’t matter.
Also, no relationship is perfect. If everything was perfect he wouldn’t be on dating apps. No relationship will ever be perfect because people aren’t.