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The process goes like this. First, be attractive. Then, if the people who approach you are attractive, say Yes. If they're not attractive, say No.
Does his behavior genuinely bother you or do you think you should be bothered by it, but don’t actually mind it?
Dude , walk right up to her stupid ass and say I have money now will you date me sarcasticly Fuck that girl dude.
The idea is to CONSISTENTLY GET HER HELP. I’ve been down the road multiple times with my husband. It’s not one try and quit!
Not untrue. He sounds like he might need to check his bias.
I don't think it makes any difference. Waiting a while might weed out guys who only want sex, but having sex with someone genuinely interested in you won't make them less interested.
Thanks. He doesn’t use dating apps so I have no idea, but entirely possible. Is there any way to salvage the friendship?
Girl, wake up. He's abusive. What do you want uour daughter to learn, that she has to beg to have medicine when she needs it and that a loving husband will yell at her and treat her like a maid? If not for yourself, leave for your daughter. And none of that “I'm a Christian, so I cannot justify divorce”. You are putting the opinion of a sky daddy who may or may not be real over your very real child.
Why does he do those things that look like dating, if he doesn’t have feelings for me?
Because he enjoys being with you? I mean what you described is also done between friends…
What should I do now?
You take him by his word and move on completely.
Srsly, he's double your age….no decent 40 year old would go after a 20 year old….and the whole “maybe in a few years” doesn't sound any less creepy.
This is reminding me of another post where the man was posting his girlfriend was masturbating right in front of him and denied it. I though it was a sleep thing. Like she’s doing it in her sleep,
Personally I am against the grain on this one.
Fantasy =/= reality. Sometimes the things that turn you on are nothing similar to the things that you want to participate in sexually.
As an example, I’m into amateur cheating porn. It really turns me on to imagine someone cheating on their partner. Likely this is rooted in myself having been cheated on by previous partners and attempting to retake control of those emotions. Does this mean that I’m into getting cheated on, or that I’d love for my current partners to cheat on me? Fuck no.
Writing things down as a way to express fantasies is not uncommon and is, in my opinion, completely harmless.
I would also like to point out that it’s really amazing to me that everyone responding with strong criticism of the boyfriend in this scenario is just completely glazing over that OP fucked around and found out. Why is it okay for OP to be snooping through things without permission just because OP “has nothing better to do”? People have a right to the concept of freedom of privacy in their own thoughts, whether their thoughts are written down or not! If this was a journal instead of a handmade booklet (and what exactly is the effective difference in those things?) I wonder what the responses would be.
Ultimately if reading these things has given you “the ick” then it is what it is, but I personally believe it’s sort of wrong of you to go digging through his personal writings and now be considering punishing him for them. Context is pretty important in these sort of situations. From your description of the booklet it was obviously something private/personal and you chose to read it anyway.
My feeling is that you fucked around and found out. If you want to end the relationship over that – well of course, you can end a relationship for any reason at any time. But it’s not like you found links to bootleg snuff films in his browser history. You found something that he channeled some sexually themed fantasies into years ago, and there’s no guarantee that they’re even his actual sexual fantasies as you have provided that he is a writer and it seems that it is a work of fiction depicting fictional characters. Maybe if it was written from his perspective, or included actual people from his life, but since it seems to have been mostly a creative writing exercise…
I think that you should not have read it. That’s my take. I think you had every opportunity to stop reading it once you realized what it was, but instead chose to continue even though it was pretty obvious that this was not intended to be read by “just anybody”.
I would also include that while these sort of themes may seem pretty extreme to the uninitiated, almost every example you gave is so laughably boiler-plate when it comes to a genre like hentai, for example, that you could probably pull up the top videos on hanime.tv right now and watch 3-4 of them and basically see everything you listed as examples.
Good luck!
This guy shouldn't have gotten a second date let alone be four months of your time. He's a horrible boyfriend. Tell him he can go out with whomever he wants because you're dumping him.
And then they stand there all fuzzy because gosh he thinks I'm so mature. But it will only seem like a compliment to someone who's not fully grown like kids and very young adults like OP
A woman just 5 years older would never be over the moon if someone told her how mature she seemed, she would most likely just think that it was an odd thing to say. .
Exactly. I guess it's that opening part I need and when to bring it up. The fact that I had to ask reddit is ridiculous because I'm making it a bigger a deal than it is. Lol
He told you he has a habit that would make you break up with him if you knew what it was and you still married him?
Fuck that guy.
I remember seeing the movie 500 days of summer where this happens (with more context) and I remember my already insecure ass thinking ‘new fear unlocked’
Damn, I can't be objective here because I'm very similar in my thinking to you and how you approach things like that.
OP- Horrible question, I apologize, was the fact you were raped as a child a turn on for him, and you never knew it? Are you a petite woman? Young looking? You know porn isn’t a normal thing. It’s not OK to cut back on it. Especially if he wants to work with children. Oh, a different type of porn? No. I’m sorry for you and what you’re going through.
He pays for “everything” only if she's a SAHM raising their kids.
You look joyous and radiant in that photo. Don’t let him rob you of that.
He doesn’t have the appreciation, respect, self-assuredness, or maturity for a relationship.
I would suggest you start with both of you getting some smart watches, then after a week or 2, compare the sleep data it collects. If it shows he's sleeping when he thinks he's not, or that he's in the wrong phases of sleep often, such as his sleep walking incidents, maybe given his medical mind, he'll be willing to look into it?
A perfect plan!
“this just isn't who I am”
Dude you need to reckon with the fact that this is who you are and be better. Don't hide, accept it and then change.
Don't blame alcohol. Don't blame your buddy. Own your mistakes and be better
It’s simple. RACIST pos all of them.
I dated an Indian lady once and lost friend after friend because of it. She was beautiful and I was white. People had opinions. I told them all to go f themselves and never looked back.