It's going to happen, so the more you wait, the more damage he's going to do. Update if you end up going the route of the mother.
If you don't call the police, that's your choice and your right. The less you do, the more he gets away with though. If you're OK with that, then do nothing.
I highly urge you to teach this child that he can't be treating anybody this way though. What if he tries for somebody more vulnerable, maybe younger? What if he gets worse because he knows he can get away with it?
nothing bad was said about him, except by psycho cat lady, but the basic perception of the group, apparently, is that any guy who gets put on the page is a cheater.
Tell him to get some help or you’re leaving, and stop allowing your be to abuse his animal. Call animal control and have an investigation done or record his behaviour. You’re enabling him by not doing this.
Actually not applying for a declaration of paternity protects the position of his client than applying would. It doesn't seem like he wants to be connected to this woman. Restraining orders are not easy to get in NZ and the threshold for criminal harassment is high in order to obtain a restraining order.
As someone with a high libido, I personally don't think you guys are compatible, sexually at least. I just got divorced after 11 years for this very reason. It will always be a point of contention for him and will cause constant arguments and resentment. Thankfully you are only 3 months in.
Observation is a much better source of knowledge about another's character than the answers to questions. In the early stages of a relationship nobody knows if the other person is answering questions truthfully or if the answers are designed to further some personal agenda. Keep your eyes and ears open. Be observant, not suspicious. Best wishes.
Unfortunately, you don't know what means ” be careful” in your age. No offence, it's just a lack of experience.
The fact you were in a previous abusive relationship makes you even more vulnerable.
Fine, I’ll do it myself.
It's called revenge porn. It's illegal.
It's going to happen, so the more you wait, the more damage he's going to do. Update if you end up going the route of the mother.
If you don't call the police, that's your choice and your right. The less you do, the more he gets away with though. If you're OK with that, then do nothing.
I highly urge you to teach this child that he can't be treating anybody this way though. What if he tries for somebody more vulnerable, maybe younger? What if he gets worse because he knows he can get away with it?
I think that all makes a lot of sense. That’s some good advice
Fuck her and dip bro
yes and no….
nothing bad was said about him, except by psycho cat lady, but the basic perception of the group, apparently, is that any guy who gets put on the page is a cheater.
So he was damned just by being posted on it.
Tell him to get some help or you’re leaving, and stop allowing your be to abuse his animal. Call animal control and have an investigation done or record his behaviour. You’re enabling him by not doing this.
Actually not applying for a declaration of paternity protects the position of his client than applying would. It doesn't seem like he wants to be connected to this woman. Restraining orders are not easy to get in NZ and the threshold for criminal harassment is high in order to obtain a restraining order.
As someone with a high libido, I personally don't think you guys are compatible, sexually at least. I just got divorced after 11 years for this very reason. It will always be a point of contention for him and will cause constant arguments and resentment. Thankfully you are only 3 months in.
No he wanted to report the car as stolen
I’m sure you have a lot of nice reasons to stay together but based on your post she doesn’t sound like a keeper.
Observation is a much better source of knowledge about another's character than the answers to questions. In the early stages of a relationship nobody knows if the other person is answering questions truthfully or if the answers are designed to further some personal agenda. Keep your eyes and ears open. Be observant, not suspicious. Best wishes.
I guess that conversation will happen if my result comes back positive
Thank you! I’m so upset he has this power on me