Pics are. People also are but the one in the Christmas light example in particular, was still friends with her and having met him, he would try to fuck literally anything and everything he can get. He was trying to hit on girls the entire time we were there, aside from my gf – probably because I was there.
Info: When you were upset while golfing did you say “I don't wanna talk about it now maybe later because we're golfing now” or sis you just have him try to ask you about it the whole time?
This is a situation where I support some kind of ultimatums. “Hubby, you seem depressed. I will help you get treatment but will you please talk to me about why you are worried about getting treatment?If you had an onset of diabetes, you would need insulin and healthy food and I wouldn’t be able to accept you risking your health and our lives together by refusing treatment. I know you don’t like this situation or feeling this way but we have to face it together. If I make you an appointment, will you go?”
If no, “If you don’t get treatment this month, I’ll be going to stay for a weekend at my sister’s/friends or asking you to go stay at your parent’s to think about next steps, because I need you to be getting external support in order for us to be ok.”
For me that would be a total relationship killer. You love me and my dog. I have the sameish situation as you. My 3 yo dog has been my life and whoever gets to be on my life has to love her or at least put up with her. Any abuse to her I take it personal and I hvae zero tolerance for people who don't respect animals, much less my doggo.
The social media algorithms could be an indication, but not definitive.
What else is she doing differently lately to give you a gut feeling she’s cheating?
Don't go digging through the dumpster behind one's house hoping to find leftovers.
Love the one you're with.
Yeah, paid vacation is valuable. Idk if I would even take vacation to do a better paying job elsewhere. Time off is important.
Pics are. People also are but the one in the Christmas light example in particular, was still friends with her and having met him, he would try to fuck literally anything and everything he can get. He was trying to hit on girls the entire time we were there, aside from my gf – probably because I was there.
Info: When you were upset while golfing did you say “I don't wanna talk about it now maybe later because we're golfing now” or sis you just have him try to ask you about it the whole time?
This is a situation where I support some kind of ultimatums. “Hubby, you seem depressed. I will help you get treatment but will you please talk to me about why you are worried about getting treatment?If you had an onset of diabetes, you would need insulin and healthy food and I wouldn’t be able to accept you risking your health and our lives together by refusing treatment. I know you don’t like this situation or feeling this way but we have to face it together. If I make you an appointment, will you go?”
If no, “If you don’t get treatment this month, I’ll be going to stay for a weekend at my sister’s/friends or asking you to go stay at your parent’s to think about next steps, because I need you to be getting external support in order for us to be ok.”
For me that would be a total relationship killer. You love me and my dog. I have the sameish situation as you. My 3 yo dog has been my life and whoever gets to be on my life has to love her or at least put up with her. Any abuse to her I take it personal and I hvae zero tolerance for people who don't respect animals, much less my doggo.