INFO: If your GF discussed it with a psychologist, why would she have to tell her mother? And by “she”, do you mean your GF would have to tell her mother? Or her psychologist would have to tell your GFs mother?
Honestly, the fact that he is divorced and has children doesn’t bother me. Bold of you to assume I don’t have my own baggage ?lol. Agree that those things come with additional considerations, but which is why I’m looking for advice specifically on communicating about money.
I don’t mind saying if i was insecure but it really has nothing to do with this i have never for a second thought that i am not good enough pr because something in me he would cheat on me. I am seeking advice so i am totally honest, i only started thinking about this when my mother got cheated on. And i get that this is wrong i am trying to overcome it it is just that it has been hot for me to watch my mother go through what she went there especially i am more like a best friend to her than a daughter.
Based on comments here and the other posts and how he isn't mentioning here that he brings it up and she gets “defensive” I'm gonna go out on limb and bet OP can't bag someone he finds more attractive but figures if he gets with a fat chick and she'll lose weight and then he will have a partner that is otherwise out of his league. I say break up with her now because she deserves better.
If MY fiancé tells ME
Ah, I see.
So you, not OP's boyfriend
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I mean, I don't exactly agree. But men have been outsmarting women since the beginning of time so, it's not exactly a baseless claim.
INFO: If your GF discussed it with a psychologist, why would she have to tell her mother? And by “she”, do you mean your GF would have to tell her mother? Or her psychologist would have to tell your GFs mother?
Easy? More engrossed with telling the story than paying attention to my surroundings. Happens all the time to me.
I thought the exact same thing. $140k is nothing to sneeze at.
Honestly, the fact that he is divorced and has children doesn’t bother me. Bold of you to assume I don’t have my own baggage ?lol. Agree that those things come with additional considerations, but which is why I’m looking for advice specifically on communicating about money.
I don’t mind saying if i was insecure but it really has nothing to do with this i have never for a second thought that i am not good enough pr because something in me he would cheat on me. I am seeking advice so i am totally honest, i only started thinking about this when my mother got cheated on. And i get that this is wrong i am trying to overcome it it is just that it has been hot for me to watch my mother go through what she went there especially i am more like a best friend to her than a daughter.
Based on comments here and the other posts and how he isn't mentioning here that he brings it up and she gets “defensive” I'm gonna go out on limb and bet OP can't bag someone he finds more attractive but figures if he gets with a fat chick and she'll lose weight and then he will have a partner that is otherwise out of his league. I say break up with her now because she deserves better.
She is going to kill you and herself. Leave her. That is no way to live